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I was talking with a friend just now and I commented on how a vocal inflection such as mmm can convey a lot of information irrespective of how limited the actual repeated phoneme is and that of course got me thinking about it further.

The subtlety associated with such vocal inflections is obviously person specific but it seems that there are many things which are shared despite our different sexes and cultures and of course there’s the breathiness that’s adds to the overall sound but what really caught my attention was that mmm could be used in many ways to convey a particular emotion or feeling.

There’s mmm with an upward lift indicating a question or curiosity, mmm with a downward inflection signifying displeasure or dislike, mmm with a hint of hhmm at the beginning to signify doubt but what really attracted me was the throaty mmm that comes with pleasure. The kind of sensual pleasure that makes ones toes curl and hints at things unsaid, things that might more usually be communicated with touch.

Then came the question of how it would feel to have that throaty mmm vibrating against you.
How would that vocalisation affect your own responsiveness?

Would it feel differently in different places? How about against your neck? Would the mmm of my lips vibrating against your skin carry the same message as if it were against your wrist or against your lips?  What about if that subtle, pleasurable vibration was in contact with somewhere more intimate? What would that feel and sound like? Would that be toe curling or repulsive? Would it make you want to reciprocate or refuse my attentions?

So many questions and no way to test the theory beyond writing and talking and speculating…



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  • EvilTwin said on Nov 06, 2006....
    Mmm...  Toe curling indeed...
     
    You know full well how I would respond, my love.  And I would most definitely want to reciprocate.  Wholly.  Totally.  Repeatedly...
  • silverwhisper said on Nov 06, 2006....
    ah, the joys of non-language communication...

    ed
  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Nov 06, 2006....
    I just have to earmark this Alyss, love it!  It made me think of Lou Reed and the effect he has on me whenever he sings:

    Hey babe, take a walk on the wild side
    Said, hey  honey take a walk on the wild say.

    And the coloured girls say
    dup di du dup dup dup di dup

    Well, I go mmmmm sugah, let me go with you to that wild side
  • gingersoul said on Nov 06, 2006....
    Let's see how many mmmm is possible to use connected to your post:
     
    one could say: mmm, what a subjetc...
    another one could say: mmm, and so?
    still another one could say: mmm, this is interesting
    a stupid one could say: mmm, what a bunch of shit
    I say: mmm, i should have thought about it first
     
    Yes, Alyss, the mmm  suits a lot of different moods.....nice post!
  • missb said on Nov 06, 2006....
    Interesting post :)
     
    Cheers!
  • missfickle said on Nov 06, 2006....
    mmm, is my most often used sound, I use it for so many things, as part of all of my conversations.  It frustrates the hell out of my son's when they are talking to me, whilst I am concentrating and I just remark 'mmm'! 'Mum are you listening?' they say, 'mmm' I reply!!!!!!!
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  • secretlife said on Nov 06, 2006....
    alyss:  you will have to make a note of this for further research. 
    i'm smiling thinking of you having these very very sensual thoughts....
     
    i don't think pulling away or being repulsed would be options.....hmm, you'll have to prove me right.
  • thenack said on Nov 07, 2006....
    ah-hem, yes I think an mmm in the right place could work wonders, which got me thinking of some other sounds 
     
    I think it would look really funny say if someone was, instead of mmm-ing, employing say the nervous cough repeatedly.
     
    or what about the uh-huh, (I'm not listening but keep talking). uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh, mmmmmm
  • miss_chivuss said on Nov 07, 2006....
    Mmmm....For some reason, I'm feeling tempted to run with this idea and turn it into a fun little game in my own bedroom ;) Or maybe even the front lawn for that matter...
  • Alyss said on Nov 07, 2006....
    Thank for the comments guys & gals.

    sw is it really non language communication though? Don't we associate the sound anyway?

    ET < blush >

    Paper I'd never heard that song before ;-)

    ginger well it wasn't really thought out at all, just an impulse post so I'd not be surprised by any of the potential criticisms. What I am somewhat amazed by is that some have thought it interesting.

    missb thanks

    missfickle I've not really been aware of using it at all until but now I can use it to tease and intend to do so whenever the opportunity arises <wg>

    secret I am totally astounded by the direction of my thoughts in this regard but have to admit to finding the potential very, very appealing...

    thenack I think that range of options with subverbal inflection are very interesting, though I think the uh-huh would quickly become tiresome.

    miss_chivuss I like your name ;-) And yes a fun game is what I had in mind.

  • silverwhisper said on Nov 07, 2006....
    no, it's still non-language communication, in that there's no intelligible speech.  that's the meaning i was shooting for.

    ed
  • thenack said on Nov 08, 2006....
    Alyss, it will be really funny though
    (-;
  • miss_chivuss said on Nov 08, 2006....
    Thank you Alyss ;) And thank you for the wonderful idea as well!
  • sheStories said on Nov 09, 2006....
    Well my first thought at MMMmmmm has dreams of chocolate, you know kind of like that comercial they have of the woman in the elevator. She is standing there thinking of this wonderful cake that will completely satisfy her.
     
    But I guess as you say, Mmmm is what you make of it. Because naturally the man in the elevator with her is thinking she is having some type of orgasim mysteriously on her own. Although I must say, after reading all the ways you define Mmmm, I could stand to have one of those too! lol Of course if we could really have a good one on our own, would we really even need men? 
     
    ooops! I am ashamed I even let that come out. ..Oh man, these words are really leaving an opportunity for twisting. I better stop while I am ahead!
     
    Anyway, I'll stop with the fact that now every time I see mmm or even hear it, my mind will automatically go back to all your enlightening interpretations and be completely confused!
     
    :s)
  • copsunited said on Nov 19, 2006....
    Alyss..well I can think of a situation where mmmmmmm..would really bring about an action. The viberation alone would make a certain member take up..wake up..shake up and take notice..Oh my.MMMMMMMM
     
    cops  aka JD
  • Alyss said on Feb 07, 2007....
    Was put in mind of this post this morning and have to say there's plenty more still to be discovered. <wg>
  • EvilTwin said on Feb 07, 2007....
    Absolutely...
     
    There will always be things to discover.  Together...
  • Racerboy said on Jan 04, 2008....
    Well, purely for the sake of research, I would like to volunteer to find as many ways to use Mmmmm, as possible.  Sounds like a delicious possibility?
  • Alyss said on Jan 04, 2008....
    LOL! My heart is given to another already but you did succeed in making me laugh. ;-)  

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