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How many of us can truly say we are passionate about our jobs?  Not many I assure you.  But we still do them because there are simply too many never-ending bills to pay!  We are programmed by social conditioning since young to value the carrot-stick incentives tremendously, so that we'll do what needs to be done, just because it pays a salary, even though the work is not particularly valuable by itself.
 
Many people work in jobs they hate because they've become attached to their salaries and don't want to start over from scratch in a more inspiring field or entry-level position which are more suitable for them.  This is wage slavery and even well-paid white collar workers are falling into this trap.
 
Trading one's purpose for a salary is a silly compromise because money brings no joy without purpose, so in fact, high salary is just the mordern form of slave's shackles.
 
If you're working in a job you hate just to pay the bills, you're robbing this wonderful world of the real contribution you could be making.  I'm sure many of you out there, like me, have plenty of reasons to play it safe, to be guided by social conditioning and continue to be manipulated into doing work we hate, or find no true purpose behind it, just to get that salary.


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  • silverwhisper said on Oct 26, 2006....
    i agree.  working a job you don't enjoy makes no sense whatsoever.  and while the paycheck and/or benefits might make it acceptable for a time, at some point, your quality of life will suffer.  hell, i'm in that boat myself this moment and b/c i've been so busy w/ work, i haven't had a chance to start looking for a new job in the way that i want.

    good blog entry!

    ed
  • secretlife said on Oct 26, 2006....
    I'm totally trapped in this position.
     
    I'd love to make a career change, but right now, with 3 kids in school -- i need the damn paycheck
    and more importantly this nice big fat one to stay in this life i've managed to build.
     
    Someday maybe when my kids are gone.....lol and i'm like 60, i'll start my 2nd career.  That is unless i'm downsized before and my hand is forced, which is a real possibility....
  • missb said on Oct 26, 2006....
    Call me selfish. But I am kinda refusing to work in a field other than my passions, or atleast something that i was interested in :/
     
    Oh, combining passion and profession...aren't they just like the luckiest bastards??? :)
     
    Cheers!
  • autumn13118 said on Oct 27, 2006....
    I agree. But what's more frustrating is if you're in a job that you actually enjoy but you and your boss don't seem to get along and you can't find any other job that's better.
  • silverwhisper said on Oct 27, 2006....
    autumn: your best survival strategy is to make your boss look as good as possible in the hopes that he or she is promoted elsewhere, IMHO.

    ed
  • missb said on Oct 27, 2006....
    I have to add;
     
    even though I kinda refuse doing a job I hate, my true calling is actually acting. But I'm scared that I might not be able to eat doing that :( I'm still gonna try, though...
     
    It's a good post btw. Someone once told me that if you're doing something that you truly love, the money will follow...cause it means you're doing your best, with all your heart, using your talent, so then you'd be one of the best.
     
    Cheers :)
  • Tinkerman said on Oct 27, 2006....
    ed Thanks, like your advise to autumn about how to "get rid" of the boss..
     
    SL many of us are stuck in the same predicament, responsibilities to family, kids education, housing loan repayments etc etc....what make the situation worse is the age factor.  Read here to understand what i mean.
     
    missb GO FOR IT! we spend most of our waking hours at work, but how many of us can come home everyday and say "I've got an enjoyable day in office!", every single day?
  • missb said on Oct 30, 2006....
    [missb's gone misty]
     
     
    Oh tinkerman, that is the kind of life I yearn for... Thanks for the encouragement. I will do my best.
     
    Cheers :)
  • victoria1697 said on Dec 31, 2006....
    I agree totally, and would be willing to change my job instantly to get the right credentials to do my dream job, except, that it doesn't exist yet. I can't even seem to find something i'm passionate about. Good Luck to all those trying new things and aiming to enjoy what you spend a majority of your time doing.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 29, 2007....
    I'm stuck at the moment doing what I do until my kids are grown, though I enjoy everything about the job other than the pay scale.
     
    One of my bosses told me that her sister travels around the world buying coffee beans.  Do you think it would be okay for me to "take her out" so that I could do her  job?
     
    Just thinking out loud.

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