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I need a few suggestions if anyones got them.
I know that my man has been lying to me about some stupid ass shit.
His excuses everytime I called him on something was that he didnt want to start a fight or whatever.
Isn't that some childish shit? To make up a lie because you think someone might get mad at you. Kinda
sounds pussyish to me.
So Theres a few things he has actuay admitted too. But there are other lies that he wont confess too. And I am absolutly positive he is lying about them. I have asked him to just telll me the truth about everything and I wouldnt say not one word about any of it. But nope, no confessions. I am understanding. To the point where I will always forgive him if he would admit to the lies even now, way after the fact. Is he afraid I'm going to ground him or something? I feel as if I have to leave him seeing that he wont fess up.

Does anybody have any ideas on how to approach this situation with him so we can work things out because I really love him and I dont want to leave.

One person told me to ignore all the shit and where a poker face. Basicly as if the lyes never occoured. But how does one do that? I wear my emotions on my sleeve.

One person said kill him with kindness. Eventually he will talk. But this guy doesnt talk. Egads, please help me out you guys!


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  • silverwhisper said on Oct 13, 2006....
    if you love him, it really doesn't matter what anybody here says, does it? b/c if you love him, you won't really listen: you'll create excuses for his behavior.

    does he love you? are you normally given to jealousy?

    ed
  • squbysnacks said on Oct 13, 2006....
    he sais he does with all his heart. but actions do speak louder than words. and yes on the jealousy thing. I just want him to not lie to me about things he did even if it means there might be consequences of some sort. I give him that respect every day.
  • silverwhisper said on Oct 13, 2006....
    so when you say to him, "look, i don't believe you b/c of x, y and z" what does he say?

    ed

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