• secretlife said on Oct 08, 2006....

  welcome back...
  
  i suggest setting up an email account and just trading emails for a little bit to see if you even have anything to talk about.
  I suppose the natural topic to start with is where you are now, and where he is.
  

• silverwhisper said on Oct 09, 2006....

  loria, welcome back! :>
  
  first, tell your old friend that you're married! otherwise he might mistake your intentions.
  
  second, as SL suggested, use e-mail. you can pack more into an e-mail than you can a phone call, i find.
  
  ed
  

• LoriaAmnekia said on Oct 15, 2006....

  Thanks for the advice. Last Sunday I sent him a message, just asking how he was and if he was surprised to hear from me. I haven't received a response. I wonder if this means that he doesn't want to talk to me. I can't help feeling a bit let down by this. I haven't sent another message because I don't want to be annoying.
  

• LoriaAmnekia said on Oct 16, 2006....

  Well, I sent him another message. I tried not to sound like I was upset. I just said that I wouldn't be sending him another message. I put that there's no hard feelings, I understand that we've grown and changed and that maybe it is too late to renew an old friendship. I told him that I hope life is good to him and that he does well in whatever he does. Did I do the right thing?
  

• silverwhisper said on Oct 16, 2006....

  well, i wouldn't have sent the second message. wait a few days, or maybe a week--who knows, he may be traveling or something.
  
  ed
  

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