Arriving at a 1 month vacation in Seattle and Chicago, i've heard from my husband the sweetest words . My kids and I waited patiently At Ninoy International Airport last February,there was a change of flight because of the snow....., the kids were so excited to see him again. Finally at last he came in appearance.
He hugged and kissed the kids and talked about the flight,he forgot to show much attention to me because his brother was also there.......he didnt bother to hug or kiss me either.
On our way home, he comfortably talked about his parents and sister in Seattle and some inquiry about the kids.Arriving at home, we started to open the things he brought for us and for his brother and sister, all was so excited and busy checking the "pasalubong".
When all the visitors were gone and the kids went to play, the moment was for us....."I want to go back to USA with you....I realized life is worthless without you....sorry for the making you feel sad and bad sometimes....",were the words he uttered that really made me good inside. I was inspired the whole day, those words compelled me to do things right. You know, i realized that a wife that is inspired by her husband can be a great good wife!
Actually he called me in the phone when he was still at Seattle telling me that he will stay at Seattle for three months but it turned out to be one month stay..... he can't stand to be alone anymore, thats what i thought!
There are always problem in the marriage life but if both of you are trying to save the marriage and both love the marriage, everything will turn out right amidst the trials that destructing marriages today.
Life is so complicated, marriages are so complicated but if men are simple with their desires,we can overcome complications that force lives and marriages to be ruined.
Satan wants life to be ruined, he celebrates victory if family is separated with hostility.But we can fight back . Overcome evil with good....
Anyway, what's the sweetest words your hubby ever whisper in you?
mymave2006 posted on Oct 02, 2006
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Alcarinque said on Oct 03, 2006....
I'm not married, but your post reminds me of my parents. When they're apart they're almost silly. They call each other constantly and practically count the days until they get back together. If the separation is a long one they even send each other cards in the mail.
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hotaka said on Oct 03, 2006....
My girlfriend knows I can keep myself very busy when we can't meet. She worries sometimes that I am fine without her and don't need to see her often. But I do. Whenever we meet I tell her honestly how happy I am to see her and hear her voice. Some days I send her loving messages to her phone to hopefully get her day started in good cheer.
Yes, I can keep myself very occupied but I need her and I want her to always know that. I can't assume that she knows just because we've dated so many years.
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blueyedtiger said on Oct 03, 2006....
I have an absolutely horrible memory.
I know that my boyfriend loves me more with every second that passes. Its in the way he looks at me. Just today, I was under the impression that he was starting another job, and he wouldnt be home at the time I got there. To my surprise, he was home, and the second i had opened the door, there he was, jumping up from the couch he was sitting on with arms wide open and a kiss just for me. He does this every time I get home and hes there (and hes awake). He makes me feel special every time he does it.
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mymave2006 said on Oct 03, 2006....
Alcarinque,
im am very sure you're a one of the luckiest for having a parents like that..... don't you know that the greatest gift a husband can give his children is to love their mother?
your Dad is giving you that gift.......its a precious gift!!!!
And that gift will help and guide you as you have your own.
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mymave2006 said on Oct 03, 2006....
HOTAKA,
oh how sweet!!!! your gilrfriend im sure is so secured with your love....... that will make her more pretty i think. She dont have to worry all the time whether her bf is doing right or not!! You're great! stay as sweet as you are!!!
BLUEYEDTIGER,
oh i cant say anything but you are such a satisfied, fulfilled ,inspired,and a lovable girlfriend!
My husband is lil bit serious in life--- how i wish he can be that showy!!!!!
oh yeah ,enjoy your moments together.....
As i was reading comments,i have this feeling inside that the comments are sweeter than mine ( ha ha ha ha ) .........im happy reading your comments.....it made me remember things in the past......
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elia_ann said on Oct 04, 2006....
You're very lucky to have a husband that appreciates you and lets you know what he feels. I just wished mine was like yours. I think the only sweetest thing that he said to me was that he loves me even though he's always fierce and angry with me. That was three years back! Nothing new ever since....
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hotaka said on Oct 04, 2006....
Thank you, mymave2006. I am not a model bf but I try. Seeing her happy is the best thing. Her laugh is my favourite sound.
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mymave2006 said on Oct 04, 2006....
elia ann,
have you tried talking about that matter with your husband? that might help.....you know ,we have to do things to make our marriage complete......the best thing i can share is try to show your husband how much you love him( different ways) that will make him feel loved ........he might realize to do it in return.
Don't ever give up. Fight for the marriage!!!!
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elia_ann said on Oct 10, 2006....
mymave,
nowadays when I'm unhappy or angry at his actions I will let him know. Sometimes he will argue back and be angry first but he is ok after that. I think he's finally showing that he cares and accepts that sometimes he's wrong. The last time I blew my fuse and wanted to just end our marriage but he seems to want us to stay together. I actually wrote him a letter about this and he just pretended that he did not read the letter and acted like normal. So I think now that he actually loves me but does not really know how to show it.
I did try to be more affectionate and show him that I love him but he doesn't seem to react mich in return. :-p
Do you have any other ideas??
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mymave2006 said on Oct 11, 2006....
Are you a working wife ,earning more than your husaband? if this is the case , maybe he is insecure , thats why he tend to
ignore you,your feelings and your cares......
The good point is: he wants you to stay together and preserve the family......as i have told you, dont give up, be patient, dont get tired of showing your affection everyday... do the things that makes him happy, its like loving him his way not your way......be submissive and respect him always....
try it.......
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elia_ann said on Oct 11, 2006....
mave,
yes, I'm a working mom. And yes, definitely earning more than him as I have a permanent job, he doesn't. he works on his own so there's no fix income. He tries hard to earn more income in any way but so far it has not been stabled yet. I just wish sometimes he would be more appreciative of me working my ass off just so that we can survive. I don't mind the hard work and all but at least if he could just show a bit of appreciation on my side! But like you said, I'm trying now to do things that he likes. He seems to also try to make me feel better nowadays when he knows I'm angry.
I guess I'll just have to live with it!
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mymave2006 said on Oct 13, 2006....
so glad to hear the developments!!!
Just try to give your respect all the time and be appreaciative also like what you want him to do......
Don't ever let him feel that you are earning more than him....
Saving a marriage is giving all your love.......dont ever stop showing your love.....GOOD LUCK
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elia_ann said on Oct 15, 2006....
Thx mymave!
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