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I am trying very hard to resist becoming angry and using strong language to describe an ex-best friend... It's not even that I'm angry, just annoyed. I got over the fact that despite our not talking to one another for over a year (even though we were forced to be in close proximity of each other) she still insists on making little comments or actions here and there that reinforce her hatred for me. I didn't even do anything to hurt her! I understand that we were like sisters and all that, but seriously, I've moved on and now she makes theres snide litte remarks on a mutual friend's profile in response to my comments. My, but she is a bitter one. Then again, I won't give her the satisfaction of me writing about her. So there. I could say something mean, but when we were friends, I had too much respect for her to be saying cruel little things now. Too bad she doesn't share the same viewpoint. OK, now I feel a bit better. As you can probably tell, I'm not particularly a fan of having enemies, even though it's pretty unavoidable. It just gets to me that even though I had moved on, she's still trying to incite a conflict. I think the best thing to do is ignore her, but I wish I could just say, "Get over it already!"

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  • Heletah said on Jun 16, 2006....
    Yeah it's rough having shared so much time with someone and so much trust in someone, and having them turn around and treat you with such blatent disrespect. I think you have the best course of action in mind, and to tell you the truth at the end of the day if neither of you want to share a friendship then yes...it's best to just move on and get over it. If she can' be civil maybe your mutual friend should not allow her comments to be posted on her site until the ex-friend can practice a little restraint. Well good luck with that, and I feel for ya. It's hard to practice self-control around those who refuse to do the same for you.

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