Wow, it has been awhile since I have been on here. And yes I am back to vent!! Before I talked about how we wanted to get pregnant. Well we are pregnant and I have been doing alot of reading on VBAC pregnancies. This is something I am very passionate about, something I really want to do. Today I asked my husband if he thought he could really handle being my coach and if I got him some books would he read them. At first his reaction was well I am going to be in the room and then when I said that I would bring him some books ( because I know he will not want to go to classes with me) he starting freaking out. "Why, what can you possibly learn, you are going to have the doctors there. I am not going to be there and saying good job , push , push push, that is so stupid. Everyone knows you have to push. Everyone knows that it is going to hurt just deal with it and go through the labor."