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Remington isnt sleeping well and it is really really effecting me in a bad way.  I was so spoiled with him sleeping 8+ hours straight sense he was barely 2 months old...
 
Ever sense Grandma started babysitting again (bc im now working) he hasnt been sleeping well.  I think part of it is that he misses me, and the other part is that I miss him too.
 
I pick up him up from my mom's and he falls asleep right away at like 7:00pm, dispite my efforts to keep him awake.  He will then wake up at like 9:30!  When he woke up at 9:30 last night he was wide awake and I thought, hmm, I guess that was just a nap.  We played some and I fed him some more and I was starting to get a little impatient bc I was getting very sleepy and it was coming up on 11pm. 
 
Finally I rocked him to sleep in my big recliner in my arms.  Sooo precious.  His pacifier hanging out of his mouth, his head nuzzled in my elbow, his little hand on my chest.I coulda stayed there for hours, and I did.  I fell asleep with him in my arms.  Phil woke me up at 1am to take him to bed.
 
I layed my little angel down thinking I was gona get a great night sleep bc he was up so late. 
 
Nope.  It seemed just as my head hit the pillow he woke up...
 
I heard him fussing at 3am.  I kept thinking, he will go back to sleep, hes just having a wakeful period.  Nope, he fussed for as long as I could stand it. 
 
I went into his room in the pitch blackness and leaned over his crib to turn on the night light.  When i peered at him he was so sleepy and it looked like he was trying to stay awake!  I smiled at him and he started giggling and reachin for me.
 
I put his plug in his mouth and he passed right out again holding onto my finger.  I pulled away and went back to sleep only to hear him fussing very loudly at 5am.  This time he wanted a bottle and a new diaper. 
 
I sat in my rocking chair with him and rocked him back asleep and placed him back down at 6am. 
 
He awoke again at 7, this time for good.  I managed to put off going and getting him for about ten minutes before I decided to bring him back to bed with me.  Phil and I slept with him for about an hour while he was wide awake just glad to be with us. 
 
This is pretty much how its been all week.  Im so exhausted and not even close to 100% performance.
 
I made a doctor appointment for tomorrow for him to get a full checkup. 
 
I explained about him possibly teething and tugging on his ear, could be an infection, could be a teething symptom.  I think its just teething bc it doesnt seem to bother him. 

I explaiend about his congestion and gurgly breathing and his stuffy nose. 
 
Im hoping I can get a prescription for a humidifier.  I cant afford one and I heard it would be beneficial to his breathing.  If I get a script for one I wont have to pay for it. 
 
I also want to get his temperature taken.  Im not convinced that im doing it correctly.  Its one of those versatile thermometers.  You can take it in his ear, mouth, armpit or rectum...however the "normal" temps vary depending on where you take it and i dont know whats normal for what body part. 
 
I want one of those scanner thermometers.  U just point it at his body and it tells you the temeprature, it can also be used to test bottles and stuff. 


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Nov 05, 2009....
    Is your mom letting him sleep a lot during the day?  Might be he's up because he's already getting plenty of sleep during the day.  It sounds harsh, but instead of letting him have long naps, perhaps she can let him nap for say 1/2 hour and then wake him.  Same deal with that 7 pm nap he's taking.  My youngest didn't sleep well for about 2 1/2 years and I can still remember how painful it was trying to function with 2-3 hours of sleep a night for months at a time.  I did all the above and the little insomniac still needed to be up at night! lol  I get even now and get her teenaged butt out of bed early the weekends I have her!
  • starchini said on Nov 05, 2009....

    Actually uni, I think its not that hes getting too much sleep, I think he just taking his naps too early, so when it gets to be evening hes exhausted...But what can I do?  I keep telling her to try and push his naps a little later that way he is able to stay awake through the evening.  I like him to be in bed by 9pm and just lately hes been passing out at 7...I think the solution may be later naps...but how can we keep him up?  I mean, hes sleepy and hes not the type of baby you can  control, he will fall asleep standing up, and if you force him awake (idk how we could but if we managed too) he screams bloody murder complete and total tantrum...

    When he was still sleeping very well (under my care) he took a two hour nap at 11am, then at 4pm hed take another 1-2 hour nap....If it was shorter hed take a catnap at 5 or 6.  If it was longer he was good to go all evening then at 9pm hed fall asleep and wouldnt wake up until 8 am...thats right Remington used to be able to sleep 11 hours straight through.. With exceptions of course he would sometimes get up at 6 or 7.  But definitly through the entire night with no middle of the night feeding.  So ive been quite spoiled and this is really killing me...

    Plus, my God if y'all think im spoiling him by not letting him cry you should meet my mom.  She wont even let him whimper.  Last night as I was trying to get him in his carseat with his bulky coat he was somewhat pissed about it.  My mom kept trying to get him to play with a toy and he was squirming around and making it harder to get him in the seat finally I was like "wtf are you doing? id be done by now if you werent playing with him" she said "I just hate hearing him upset"...Gosh, and I thought I was bad...

    2.5 years uni?  my gosh, i hope this doesnt last that long!  lol, id have the same revenge : ) 

     

  • uniquely-ironic said on Nov 05, 2009....
    Well, my son didn't do it.  If he had, chances are there'd be no daughter!
  • starchini said on Nov 05, 2009....
    oooOOooOOOoooo...see why I im scared to have another?!
  • Hegemone said on Nov 05, 2009....
    Yikes, well I don't have much advice for you beyond what you're already thinking, that maybe his nap needs to be later.  I hope that something levels out soon and you can get some rest again though.
  • WriterCarlDobbs said on Nov 05, 2009....
    I am an old hand at being a father. I've had 4 kids. There is a mechanized swing set you can buy. It has a frame which suspends a child's seat. You crank it up at the top and it swings the baby. Guaranteed to put the kid to sleep. That rocking motion is why cradles were created. So first consider the time-honored cradle and/or the swing set. Other than that, consider not giving the baby emotional rewards for crying. They possibly wake up because you give the baby reason to. The baby doesn't understand or care but the body responds to positive reinforcement regardless of the baby's emotions. If you respond to the baby's insomnia or the baby's cry in the middle of the night, you are training the baby's body clock to do the same every night. It seems un-mommy-like to ignore the baby's cry but it may be best for him/her. Next, the tried and true method. Let the baby sleep with you in your bed. I let my kids sleep with me between me and my wife until the next kid came along to bump him out. It works. No getting up in the middle of the night to quiet him/her down. They are right there, nestled between mommy and daddy and sleeping like babies. We got so used to doing this it became a real comfort to us, having our little baby nestled there where we could hug him all night. Before they are old enough to sleep in our bed we put them in a small cot next to the bed. See if it works.

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