A friend of mine and I went to a concert the other night and even though I secretly think she isn't that cute, she's a lot thinner than me and she always gets guys approaching her while I just stand around when it happens. I'm always the "other" friend, or the "other" girl. I've never been approached by anyone close to my age and if I am, it's usually the ugly friend of the cute guy who is hitting on my "cuter" friend. I always end up getting the leftovers or "seconds." When this happens, the night is usually ruined for me.