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My best friend and I have realized that we are the single people we know right now. Most of my friends and associates expect for her are in relationship or have gotten married. She, too, is going through the same thing. Next year, she will be a participant in 5 weddings. Her two older sister, a cousin, a friend of ours, and her parents are renewing their vows.
 
Me, well, most of my best friend have boyfriends. With my only single friend, who live in Georgia, I have become that person people feel sorry for because I don't have a man in my life. My mother feels that I need some form of companionship.
 
At times, I think I need a boyfriend just to shut people up and have someone to talk to. To be honest with you, I like being single. Why should I feel bad for something I am?


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  • Hegemone said on Oct 28, 2009....
    Well, I'm going to ask you your own question ... why do you feel bad about it?  Is it because of what others may think, or because you aren't really happy being single and you're trying to tell yourself that you are?  Personally, I see nothing wrong with it.  It's a perfect opportunity for you to move through life freely, to achieve things you may not be able to were you attached, or just to meet lots of new people with no strings attached.  There will be a day when it may not be like that, there might be a special somebody in your life, but you definitely shouldn't rush it.  If you're happy, you're happy, end of story and to heck with anybody who thinks you should be doing something different.  They're not you.
  • MsBradford07 said on Oct 28, 2009....
    I think I need friends that are single like me and they need to be nearby.  I am tired of people feeling that I should feel bad about being single.
  • southernbabe said on Oct 29, 2009....
    Hey i'm in kentucky so being single is extra hard cause i mean look where i'm at single guys are a dime a dozen met a couple of guys on line but nothing to write mom about you know
  • bhalah said on Oct 29, 2009....
    sorry but i know this is not allow, here i go
     
    From the Kentuchy couldmans,....
     to the California sun, hey Boby,
    share the secrets of my song,
    true all of kind of whether,
    to everything we done, hey Boby,
    help me from this could wordl,
    one day up near salinas town,
    i want to sleep away,
    he was loking for a home and i hope he founds it,
    but i looking for tomorrow,
    for one single yesterday,
    to be holding Boby next to mine....
    Freedon is just another word, for nothing else to louse,
    nothing,
    but is all that boby lend me, ...
     bhla bhal bhal bhla
     
    I like to sing, sorry, this is one of the songs i enjoy the most, well, sorry if you said kenturchy i have to sing..
     
    There are plenty songs whith kenturchy word, i think, dont really know...
  • queenparanoia said on Oct 30, 2009....
    you should have a relationsip with someone becaus eyou want to not because what people think... so go girl!!! nothing wrong with being single if youre happy... :-)
  • MsBradford07 said on Oct 31, 2009....
    Thank for the comments.

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