the way you worded it, saying that she isnt what youve been trained to want .. you cant be trained to be attracted to a certain type of woman. you're just used to it, and theres a big difference. unless you really were literally trained, which i doubt but uh .. you never know these days. anyways, your body recognizes your natural attraction to this woman by the way its responding with hers. you just need to let go of what youre used to, and let your mind come to the same realizations that your dick has. im guessing youve never had this kind of reaction with your black-haired anorexic emo/scene lovers? thats because its proven that sex with a ridiculously skinny woman isnt nearly as satisfying as someone with some meat on their bones. and very rarely are emo-anorexias fun, or very intelligent. which isnt what youre looking for. let your body do the reasoning, and your mind will eventually catch up
(side note: im not stereotyping. some of my friends growing up were black haired anorexic chicks, they seem to be everywhere. anyways, there are some who are fun and very intelligent. it just so happens that the majority of them are not.)
I must say, it seemed odd to be hearing from a twenty-year-old woman (Woman? Doesn't the word 'girl' seem more appropriate after the words 'twenty-year-old'?) on whether or not men can be trained to be attracted to a certain type of woman.
My first thought was, "Being a woman, how would you know?"
My second thought was, "Being only 20, how could you know?"
And then I had a third thought, which was somewhat a contradiction to the first two, but somewhat alludes to some embarrassing life experiences that occurred in the general time/space ballpark of the folly of imagining women had no power over me : "Obviously yo momma didn't teach you very well 'bout the power you have in even so little as a seemingly inconsequential melancholic pout!"
Anyway (please don't take offense, irelandeyes! I luv ya! I really do!), I really appreciate your line that goes "let your mind come to the same realizations that your dick has". At the same time, I'm a little worried you might be undermining your membership in the Great Sisterhood by suggesting (or at least implying) that a guy should think with his dick. I mean, isn't that, like, reason numero uno for guys disappointing girls in the first place?
I'm definitely not into skinny bodies. I guess it's more how skinny bodies wind up looking in tight, striped clothing, especially combined with black hair, and then that over-the-top "dark shit" (isn't that what the Allison called in in The Breakfast Club?). Like cute little Morticia's running around, pretty much not caring if you do them, so long as you don't mess up their look.
Oh, I don't know - it's hard to describe. That, or the description changes from day to day.
All I know is there weren't many girls of that ilk back in my day, so it seems little unfair that now they're everywhere, so seemingly ready and willing, even if not able (especially per what you're telling me).
