It wasn't until our second year of marriage that topic of sex or rather the different aspects of our sex life became anything more than a passing comment.  Up to that point we had done what we thought normal couples were doing.  Mostly vaginal intercourse with oral sprinkled in between and the once in a blue moon anal fun.  We had only been a couple for a bit less than 3 years so there was a good chunk of our lives that were spent apart.

It wasn't that our sex life had became tame after just 2 years but rather our conversations became more honest.  Communication is the essences of a strong relationship, no?

The doors were swung wide open and our sexual adventures started with a threesome.  With a cross-dresser.  This would soon lead to our attendance to a Swing Club.  It was your basic night club.  Big dance floor in the front with a smaller one to the rear.  However, there was also separate rooms lined around the club.  Also, in the clothing optional area, the was this one big room that had several mattress on the floor.  It was an eye opener for us and we mostly kept to ourselves.  It wasn't till a year later and a house meet and greet did we fully embraced the swingers lifestyle.