What does it take to make you feel special? Sometimes men complain that no matter what they do to please us (women), we are never satisfied. I would hate to say that my man is a jerk that does nothing but hurt me so I won’t because he is wonderful. Sometimes I feel the need to put on a pedestal and for as much as he does, it is not enough. Well, it may be enough for any sane woman but somehow I am greedy. Could it be a deficiency or am I expecting more than I should.
I am just feeling the need to back off of him because I feel terrible for wanting his attention THAT much!
ellaywest posted on Sep 27, 2006
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silverwhisper said on Sep 27, 2006....
know that this is gonna sound harsh so i apologize but there's really no other way to ask: is it possible that you're looking for too much of your self-worth from him?
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sunsethue said on Sep 27, 2006....
sorry to say but i agree with SW... you have to have that confidence in yourself so that you won't feel the need to want his attention that much.
learn how to love yourself so that you can be okay even if he is not around... anyway, he also has a separate life to live aside from his life with you (like work, family, friends)... try to get off that feeling of dependency... it will just ruin your relationship... men, by nature, doesn't like needy women... hope you don't mind my saying these... i just want to share my take on what you wrote...
try meditating when you're alone or find a hobby or go into sports... when i was healthier i go to the gym to take care of my body... that is just one of my ways of loving myself... try it... it works.
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