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I'm a new soul..

NewSoul651 posted on Oct 17, 2009 | views: 178 | Tags: new, newbie, relationships, stop the voices in my head, sex, in like, first times
I KINDA WANNA SAY HI!
Am I weird for wanting that? :P
My friend told me about this site.. so I was like OMGCOOL.
I'm in a really good mood right now.. just sayin.
 
Well, down to what I want to talk about.
The things that run through my mind are as follows:
"What if he leaves me? After what I've done for him tonight.."
"I mean.. I wanted to.. but I don't want him to leave."
"He wouldn't leave, would he?"
"He likes me lots. He wouldn't leave"
"God, relationships are complicated on this level. How did I get here again?"
"He makes me smile real big like.."

I tend to argue with myself a lot.


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  • simplyconfused said on Oct 17, 2009....
    psst.. hi ^_^
  • NewSoul651 said on Oct 17, 2009....
    pssst.. HAI :3
  • UnicornForm said on Oct 17, 2009....
    aw, i think we all do. I llike to argue with my wall..
     
    nnice to read you new!
  • husbandhater said on Oct 18, 2009....
    Hey NewSoul. I like the name welcome to SC. And if he leaves you over a sex act then count your blessings that you didn't get stuck with such a prude and find yourself a real man who is mature and wants to love you in the same way that you love him.
  • hairbrushedhubby said on Oct 18, 2009....
    Hi NewSoul651, welcome, it's always good to see someone new here, as for advice, what can I say with a name like mine? just enjoy yourself here.
  • NewSoul651 said on Oct 18, 2009....
    thanks everyone! I feel really welcomed (:
  • HopeFloats said on Oct 18, 2009....
    hi newsoul, I am new also.  I have to agree with husbandhater.  If he leaves count your blessings.  Better now than later. Hope to see you 'round.
  • NewSoul651 said on Oct 18, 2009....
    I hope to see you 'round too, hopefloats!
  • Hegemone said on Oct 18, 2009....
    Hi NewSoul!  Welcome!  I love your happy attitude.  I also think those are all valid thoughts, but if he was worth it enough for you to trust him to do what you did, he ought to stick around.  I'm hoping that's how it turns out.  Best of luck!
  • NewSoul651 said on Oct 18, 2009....
    thank you hegemone!
    I'm hoping he sticks around :P
  • amyleeizmee said on Oct 19, 2009....
    WELCOME!!
  • irelandeyes said on Oct 22, 2009....
    hey, newsoul, im new here as well .. as of 2 days ago. i think every woman has this encounter in her life .. the man that leaves her either because he got what he wants, or because you dont want to give it anymore. men like that dont deserve women like us. if the worst happens, try and remember that life will go on without him, and you'll be better off without an asshole like that in your life
  • TexKelc said on Oct 23, 2009....
    Hi!  Sometimes the constant second-guessing threatens to drown everything out...If we could just slow down the self-talk.  Have fun!
  • Voltaire said on Oct 23, 2009....
    Howdy! And welcome!

    I can only say, if you don't want him to leave, let him know.
    Now you just have to figure out how, or get enough courage to ask him to stay.

    Life ain't easy.
  • bubba-j said on Oct 24, 2009....
    hello . sometimes the thoughts are really our not thinking well of ourselves. example low self esteem, or many other phycological reasons. the main thing is if the question's final outcome is not what you wanted in the end, count the blessings you had in the time together then learn from the rest as mistakes... and life goes on . what ever you do, do it because that's what you truly wanted.

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