• UnicornForm said on Oct 16, 2009....

  Lotta questions yes.
   
  When your not looking for something things are found right?
   
  well thats how love happened for me.
   
  My soul love, how do i know?
   
  I cant get rid of him! haha and he cant get rid of me.
   
  even after breakups and harsh words fights and actions the love is still there.
   
  i dont want a bf atm and he still loves me and wont cheat on me emotionally
   
  u know?
   
  i was blessed with this among other things because i used to pray every ight when i ws ounger to find true love and one day, i did, and didnt know it at the time.
   
  but the type of lover i am?
   
  have no conditions in order for me to love them
   
  well rounded and versitile, I love pillow fights camping and old world romance.
   
  any other questions darling? :) haha

• Me-Myself&I said on Oct 16, 2009....

  Raindove, this is a post of deep emotions and deep questions. i want to comment further but.... just tagging for now, to return later.

  oh.... lordy you sure do have a wonderful soul and heart to ask such questions! *smile*

   

• Hegemone said on Oct 16, 2009....

  Definitely a lot of questions, but I like this post.  Very deep and touching.  As for me, I don't know that I can answer every single question, but that I think that kind of love is waiting for.  I think love and preference for it is vastly different from person to person.  I personally prefer different things than the typical 'romantic' stuff.  However, that said, I do at least love for the things my husband chooses to do for/with me to echo those things.  Sort of like I would love to go horseback riding on the beach, but a "romantic" picnic with just the two of us probably wouldn't work just because it's not "us".  I think those kinds of things depend on the two people in love as two parts coming together.  You do the things that compliment the two of you together, not necessarily just always doing what one or the other likes, or even alternating.  For instance, while I may want to have a cuddly night in with my husband, I don't mind doing so to some sort of gory, bloody, action packed movie.  It's late ... so I'm already losing focus, lol, so I'll leave it at this.

• raindove said on Oct 21, 2009....

  unicorn that sounds pretty romantic, as far as i am aware you are younger than me right..well well you are not even half as confused as me. thats a surprise and a nice one. well no more questions, lol at least for now.
  
  memy would love to hear your story. you seem so wise and spiritual so i think you will have some of the answers if not all..as for me  wonderful or not, i am confused for sure hehe..
  
  hegemone you know horseback riding on the beach sounds totally romantic lot more than a picnic you know... the breeze on your hair as you ride, the coastline, the gentle waves and their murmur, the sheer speed of the horse on the the sand...why did i never think of that. doing things your way and not letting the world rule you is something few can afford to do, its admirable.
  

• Me-Myself&I said on Oct 21, 2009....

  Raindove, nope you got it wrong when it comes to me being wise about love. ....shaking my head. i am learning too these days when it comes to love and loving.

  i hold back to must to fall in love easily. i know that there are so many levels.... kinds of love. they are all wonderful. but for deep passionate love, nope, i have not felt it. i may never, but i know it's out there because i have seen it in others.....hell, don't you watch the movies! lol!

  you can find almost everything you thought you needed in the perfect lover.... but love still may not come, deep true love , that is.

  anyway, i have thought on this post alot. i didn't forget it, i didn't know .... you made me think! *smile*

  Love is that condition in which the happiness of the another person is essential to your own. ~ Robert A. Heinlein

• raindove said 8 days ago....

  dear memy really sorry for replying so late. i was taking some time off and kinda recovering u can say.
  i know perfectly well these days what you mean by saying holding back in love.
  earlier i used to love openly, easily, enthusiastically. i didnt know its possible to hold back in love you know. but now i know. if you ask me its not really a good thing but life teaches you so much.
  i have so much more to say, maybe i will blog later. i agree with the quote but more than that i like what you said about finding the perfect lover and true love. if those are your own words then now maybe you will understand why i think you are wise. you may not know a lot about true love as you say but you do know about love in general and of course life, thats what i feel.
  

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