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I get a surge of jealousy when he is spoken of by certain people.  Why?  He is in no way, shape, or form mine.  Maybe I just wish he was.  Maybe I want him to be.  I don't know how it would be able to work.  I mean...  I don't know.

Why has this.. difficult situation popped up?  How am I supposed to deal with falling for him....  a part of me thinks if this developed into a relationship at some point... we would be good for each other.. but then the other part of me is slapping my heart... 

How do you choose something like this.... how do you deal with being in this situation.. ugh, why am I getting so jealous because of her speaking of him!  This is so wrong, it's not right! Why! ='(


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  • Hegemone said on Oct 16, 2009....
    Maybe it's because in your current hurt heart situation you're attaching yourself to him to help you heal, and you don't want somebody to pry you away before you're ready?  Take a really really close look at these feelings and if they're because you, of clear mind and conscience, WANT to be with him, or because you don't want somebody else to be with him (even if it's a certain somebody), or if it's because you just aren't ready to move on with how things are in that realm of your life.  Definitely a difficult and potentially painful situation, but go into this thinking straight to avoid further pain and difficulty.  ((((HUGS))))
  • mixednuts said on Oct 16, 2009....
    I get these same feelings too.
  • simplyconfused said on Oct 16, 2009....
    Hege - I think I'll PM you so I can reveal more information XD

    mixed - Not great are they?
  • mixednuts said on Oct 16, 2009....
    simply- Ya.... I feel burned up by the sun!
  • Blackmyst said on Oct 16, 2009....
    I feel for you...you are not alone in your experience. Good luck and use your mind and not your heart.
  • simplyconfused said on Oct 16, 2009....
    mixed - ouch!

    black - at least I'm not alone!  .. I'm going to take my time in figuring things out.. there isn't much else that I can do.

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