My husband forgot my birthday....again.
It was my birthday yesterday. Even though I don't expect any present from him but at least the remembrance counts. I got a birthday gift from my office mates and purposely put it on the living room table so that he could take the hint but.......nothing!
I woke up at about 4.00am to cook for 'sahur' (the meal before the fasting starts for the day) and noticed he had taken out my gift from the box. Still no 'Happy Birthday' from him...
Is it just me who thinks that he should remember my birthday or are most guys like that?!?!?
He even forgets our wedding anniversary unless someone mentions it to him!
Do you think I'm just being too sensitive on this matter or I should be feeling this way???
I just makes me so sad that something so small makes me feel like this.... :-(
elia_ann posted on Sep 26, 2006
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chingform said on Sep 26, 2006....
i think guys are more forgetful. they dont' take this seriously.
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elia_ann said on Sep 27, 2006....
ching,
I don't think it's forgetful as it had been 3 years already unless someone mentions it to him than he remembers. It could be that this is not something serious or important to him like you said.
Oh yes, ching, i had asked you regarding the paypal services and the US bank account in one of your blogs. Paypal says that my account is not verified. To verify I need to have a credit card but I don't have one. Is it really necessary to verify or I still can use this paypal account??
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chingform said on Sep 27, 2006....
oh about the paypal .yes you will need to be verified before you can withdraw the money. as i understand.
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elia_ann said on Sep 27, 2006....
ching,
Do you think the US debit card can be considered as a credit card under Paypal??
I also found a website that can open a US based bank account who only charges $8.77 = RM30+.
Is it reliable through this way??
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Rockerchic said on Sep 27, 2006....
elia ann: I'm with you on this one!
Not only does my husband forget my birthday, our anniversary and vacations that I plan but he will also plan things on top of them. What is he thinking?
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elia_ann said on Sep 27, 2006....
rockerchic,
are guys just heartless?!?! Why can't they take into consideration our feelings?!?! Don't they know as a husband that our feelings are important too???!!!
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Rockerchic said on Sep 29, 2006....
Good question. In my case, he never celebrated anything as a child. So, birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc... are just like any other day to him. It seems like they just don't care about us. Kind of makes you feel unappreciated.
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mymave2006 said on Oct 02, 2006....
i think some men are like that----- i call it "Husband's disease".
When will our husband ever learn and try to understand that women/wives are so sensitive with those special days of our lives .....that those moments are the biggest event to cherish in our lives......
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elia_ann said on Oct 03, 2006....
I think we have to wait until the sky falls before they take any actions!
:-p
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