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The long road to self discovery, lead right back to SoulCast so here I am. For those who don’t know me or might have forgotten, my name is Mousenphonic or Mouse for short. I live in South Africa with my hubby Spouse and baby B-rat (Who just hit her terrible two’s four months early) I’m pregnant for the second time now (28 weeks in counting), no longer live in a four room (Bedroom, Bathroom, Livingroom and Kitchen) flat but have a beautiful three bedroom fixer up now. I’m a not an administrative assistant anymore but a full time Domestic Organizer (iow a House wife).

 

I’ve been having a really rough time lately, as in the last 10 months has been just short of being Hades, so I’m turning to blogging again for somewhere to rant and ramble and get some things of my mind and heart.

 

For my old friends I’ll kick off with a quick synoptic ramble on whats been happening with me the last few months:

 

January:  We decide to move from our flat to a bigger place so that B-rat could have more room to grow. What began as a dream come true turns into a horror as pieces of the house come apart while we try to renovate it. It’s still a work in progress but it’s looking much better than what we started with.

 

February:  Granny falls terribly ill with a spider bite. Doctors realize this almost too late and she nearly loses her leg. I spend nearly a week trying to get her admitted to a public hospital. She’s still recovering and lives with us now.

 

March: The Dalai Lama gets denied access to attend a peace conference in South Africa.

 

April: Spouse’s father’s cancer is declared terminal, this marks the beginning of a very dark time that lies ahead. B-rat gives her first steps and doesn’t stop running.

 

May: Hardy and Laurel (Who eventually amidst a lot of controversy, prostitute scandals and jealousy did get married) welcomes there first born to the world.  The same day Spouse’s uncle dies of a heart attack and complications due to his cerebral polsi. He was 69.

 

June: I find out I’m pregnant and shortly after land my ass in hospital with dehydration due to hyper emesis gravidarum (extreme morning sickness). The company I worked for for the last 3 years goes bankrupt and because of my “condition” I’m unable to get another job.

 

July: Spouse’s dad’s condition worsens in a matter of three weeks to the point where he is unable to eat, speak or move at all. After two days in a chemically induced coma he dies 31 July as the sun sets. He was 59.

 

August: August 1 it snows for the first time in 50 years in parts of Rustenburg. Spouse thought of it as a type of sign from his father. I agreed. I can see Spouse slowly returning to himself again, the man I fell in love with 7 years ago and only then realize the toll his father’s illness took on him the last four years.

 

September: South African athlete Caster Semenya earns gold at the World Athletics Championships in Berlin, but a shadow of doubt is thrown over her sexuality. It is later revealed that she is actually a hermaphrodite.

 

October: Mouse returns to Soulcast after an absence of Santa knows how many months.

 

Well, that should do for an update from my side for now.

 

Anything new I should be aware of?

 

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  • silverwhisper said on Oct 13, 2009....
    hi, mouse!

    [hug]

    congrats on your pregnancy, that's great news! my most recent news is in my last blog entry, if you're interested. that's a whole lot that's happened, my condolences re: mr. mouse's father and your grandmother's health.

    ed
  • queenparanoia said on Oct 13, 2009....

    girl imiss you!!! and congrats!!! and i'm so sorry about your father in law. i remember you blog about him having cancer. so sorry about that. by the way i sent you a pm... shhhh don't tell anyone... LOL...

    anyway wow another baby!!!!

    there's always a blessing in life...

    i'm so happy youre back my friend... :-)

  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Oct 13, 2009....


    (((((((((((((((((((((((huggies))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    <3

    :)
  • pickersplock said on Oct 13, 2009....
    Well, that answered my question!
  • moonriver said on Oct 13, 2009....
    life treat you well, newt?
    wish you and spouse the best, 
    deeply sorry about his dad, 
    glad about your next baby,
    aaaand... what else?
    sent you a PM :-)

  • Lucytorial said on Oct 13, 2009....
    mouse !!!! what a huge year.... man its good to see you back again and boy oh boy congrats on the new bubs to come.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Oct 13, 2009....
    You sure have been busy with your life while on hiatus.  Glad to have you back.
  • wombat said on Oct 13, 2009....

    Just popping in to say hello.  I too, am sorry about your FIL. 

    I remember you here, and it's always nice to hear from someone from the "family."  Congratulations about the new little one!

    Partly here to leave this "copy and paste" that I love.....

    October: Mouse returns to Soulcast after an absence of Santa knows how many months.

    This made me smile. 

  • gingersoul said on Oct 13, 2009....
    Little mouse...hello!!! Thank you for you PM....;-)

    I am so glad to red you here again...

    Life is treating you pretty good, i see......a baby.....wow...but i am sorry for his dad though....

    Blog ahead now...;-)
  • mousenphonic said on Oct 14, 2009....

    ed: thanx. Wow, a "boss" concert for your birthday...damn makes me wish I had sibs....Sounds like you had a blast and that it was exactly what you needed.  Hope your throat is better by now :D

    queen: Sooo glad to be back. (Hush, I really need to know more about that ex of yours ;D PM me! )

    paper: (((((BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG HUUUUUUUUG)))) I just couldn't stay away any longer :D

    pickers:   :D

    moon: thanx for the pm. Again, how could I not miss you?

    lucy: In true mouse tradition expect alot of rants and rambles in the next few months about the new baby.

    ui: thanx, it feels like I've come home after a long travel

    wombat: Glad I could make you smile. :D

    ginger: Thats what I'm here for, but for now I'm just trying to catch up on whats been happening and brushing up on my blogging netiquette.

    Thanks you all for the warm welcome back. What wombat said has to be 100 percent true: You ARE my family :,)

    Okay, back to blogging business. Seems like I've missed some kind of inside SC joke or arrangement. TAG-O-MATIC?? Please advise anybody. :D

     

     

  • mixednuts said on Oct 14, 2009....
    Nice to read you mouse! Welcome back to the family!
  • Me-Myself&I said on Oct 15, 2009....
    so, now i know the rest of your story ....up to today! glad to see you walking the neighborhood again!

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