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LOVE is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality. No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him.
By his love, he is enabled to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualised but yet ought to be actualised. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualised these potentialities. By making him aware or the what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true..


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  • rmuxagirl said on Sep 26, 2006....
    I think you have a valid point here. We don't see certain traits in the beloved until we love him, and even don't see traits in ourselves until we're loved.
  • Selasih said on Sep 27, 2006....
    =) yeap..that is true. It was great to love and to be loved by someone right?
  • ohtidak said on Sep 28, 2006....
    erm, to me love is just an attachment to another self
  • Selasih said on Sep 28, 2006....
    yeap, attachment to another self.. but just between 2 person, neither three nor more and they belong to each other..
    That is LOVE. so if u love someone means u are ready to share everything in ur life with him/her and accept him/her as the way they are.
  • chingform said on Sep 29, 2006....
    one thing which is the most difficult is after married, and both parties' family get involved ..

    haha. headaches .. after romantics.
  • Selasih said on Oct 01, 2006....
    what so difficult when both parties' family get involved?
    hmm...i guess i should get married to figure it out..
  • chingform said on Oct 01, 2006....
    give you an example, if say in this coming moon cake festival, your parents and your wife parents both want you to go back home for this only one day festival, and your parents say is in Penang and your wife parents is in Johor. and furthermore in fact you and your wife are planning to have a romantic tanglung evening in your cozy appartment. .. so how you are going to decide?
  • Selasih said on Oct 01, 2006....
    my wife parents? ohh..i'm not ganna have any wife coz I'm a female ;p hehe.
    Ok, let say I'm in that situation.. hmm..i think it's better to stay with my husband and just follow our planning to have a romantic tanglung evening partment. yep, with that,my parents and my husband parents won't say anything, i guess..

    ohh..ya. CF, i think it's better for you to have a child..that makes you have your own family. Then, your parents and ur husband parents will understand if u said u want to celebrate it with ur own family. Doesn't mean you forget about them, but in this case..I guess u want the privacy rite?

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