Hello, you two! and sometimes a no means yes or the other way around. if someone asked you if you need help and you do, say yes i need help.
i have a friend who needed help, i asked and she said no! i asked are you ok? she replied yes, again i knew she wasn't so...huh heck, i knew she was just being kind. i wished to help and didn't take the answer no! *smile*
i myself do that so often, trying to say what others want to hear or avoid problems. or just don't want to trouble anyone.
Uniquely ~ say what you mean and mean what you say thingie going on in my life. and as strange as it maybe... a simple yes or no can weigh in on how i feel about things and myself. cool!
Fraggle ~ it yelled at me too! lol.... the last one hit home! yup, the power of such little words. :~)
Have a great weekend. take care ~see ya
Mr.Strange ~ Voltaire wrote a quote about talking less and saying more or something like that. anyways, sometimes a yes or no is the only safe answer. so, a trend is in the makings huh ya think *smile*
Hegemone ~ what if it's the only way to answer to questions or events in our lives? one way or the other. no what ifs or maybes or not yets as Mr.Strange said. i bet it would save allot of time and energy, i quess. ;~)
MsBradford ~ i was put into a sitution that i did not want to be in. and all i had to say was no. but oh no not me, always aiming to please. i said yes and then bitched about it the whole time. heck, i know now, just say no....so simple.
Thanks you all. have a great weekend. take care ~see ya
Mr.Strange ~ i enjoy listening to others too. they can trigger a thought in me and away i go! *smile*
Raindove ~ thank you. i'm one of those that say yes when i need to say no! *smile*
Destiny ~ thanks hon. xoxo
take care ~see ya
