I said it out loud, that I wanted a sugar daddy. I was tired of being the responsible one in my family. I was also tired of guys my age who thought and acted like they were God’s gift to women. So I thought, if I had a sugar daddy, he would take care of me…financially and emotionally. Guess what, the universe heard me….and delivered.
The first potential sugar daddy is a contractor with my company. He is bald with a bulging beer belly. He started by flirting with me on the phone a lot and kept saying he will take me out to dinner when he comes to town. When he did come to town, he pulled out a roll of $100 bills, since he is a gambler, and gave me $10 to buy lunch! Talk about a show off. He sent me a friend request on facebook with a message to give him my cell phone number since the only way for him to get in touch with me was my work number. I ignored his request and didn’t respond to his message. So one day he called me at work and asked for my cell, and when I told him no, he got mad at me and has not talked to me since. He even ignores me when he is in town.
Second potential I met him during one of my first movie night with the group from Meetup.com. We went out again as a group to eat where we all exchanged numbers. He started calling me and we would go out to dinner and to the movies. Then one day he asked me to be his date to a wedding, which I did. He came to pick me up and told me, “I like looking at you getting in my truck.” Then he wouldn’t stop saying that he really cared about me. When he dropped me home, he hugged me a little too close, a little too long, and had I not turned my head when I did, he would have kissed me on the mouth. That was the last I’ve seen and heard of him. I do miss the idea of having someone to go to the movies and dinner with, but I know it wouldn’t be fair on both of us since I am not attracted to him at all.
Then sugar daddy number three was another guy who contracts for our company. When he came in for a meeting, every time I ran into him I was sucking a lollipop, so he started calling me his lollipop from then on. He too started asking for me when he called my work place and finally told me that he needs another way to get in touch with me so could I give him my cell number….which I refused. He told me he wanted to invite me to visit him at the beach and we could go out in the lake on his boat. He told me “You are going to call me you know. One day you will be so stressed at work and will need a break, then you will call me.’ Oookay. I’ll admit I was tempted as hell, but I know he is married and just looking for a young thing. I also know he is not as financially stable as he tries to make it seem…and that boat he was talking about is not even his.
*Sigh* I wish I had it in me to take these three men on their offers. I know for sure I’d be set financially, which I desperately need right now. The two who are related to my work I wouldn’t mess with because that would be career suicide. The second guy had even asked me to go out of town with him on a couple of occasions.
So here I am, knowing that these guys were the answers to my prayers. But hindsight is 20/20. I thought a sugar daddy is what I wanted…what I needed. I know they could be mine for the taking….but is it worth it?
