• queenparanoia said on Oct 07, 2009....

  dude, there is a woman out there who doesnt want kids... believe me theyre out there... so be patient. i'm not going to tell you it's wrong or right but it's your own decision if you want to have a vasectom just be careful of some effects of it...

• NoStop said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Why not have your sperm frozen just in case. WIN AND WIN. Oh and women are made to want children... biologically it's what they're for. You're made to want to fuck them, so do the math.

• uniquely-ironic said on Oct 07, 2009....

  If you're sure you don't want kids than a vasectomy is a good idea.  This lady wants kids, it's not a crime.  Just move onto someone who doesn't.  They're out there, I know several.  Oh, and BTW, there are men out there who have baby fever just as bad.  It's annoying for me as I've already been there done that, but I don't fault them for wanting the experience.

• starchini said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Hey your free to not want kids, to each their own.  But I think its ignorant of you to say everyone with children doesnt have a life.  Im offended.  Why the fuck do women want babies anyway? I'd rather have a life.  Ill have you know there is such a thing as babysitters and my life is even more exciting now than it was when I didnt have Remington.  He hasnt prevented me from doing anything I want to do.  I didnt want kids either, but I ended up having one, and its been awesome.  Thats all I wanted to say.  I agree you should be neutered.   

• Hegemone said on Oct 07, 2009....

  I can assure you there are women out there who don't want kids.  Also, I don't think you're wrong for getting a vasectomy, ya know why?  They're reversible.  So no, it's not a mistake because by a very very very very long shot, sometime in the distant future, should you decide 'OK, maybe with THIS woman I want to try ...' you can have it reversed and have a go.  I'm not saying you will ... but that's why I don't think it's a mistake.  It's really smart and responsible of you.  I applaud you there.

• MissMimi said on Oct 07, 2009....

  I'm sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you.  Not a thing wrong with wanting or not wanting children.  At least she didn't get pregnant accidentally on purpose before you had discussed it.  But still, I can hear how disappointed you are, and it's completely understandable.  If you've thought it through, and you want a vasectomy, go for it.
  
  Just saying, having a vasectomy is not the same thing as being neutered.  Big difference.
  
  
  

• starchini said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Im sorry mimi is right, i just got pissed of at being told I dont have a life.  Id also like to say getting a vasectomy could bite you in the but.  Youd be all free ballin it thinking that your shit is plugged and oops, ive heard a handful of stories about people getting pregnant when they were "fixed".  So even after a vasectomy, wrap it up.

• simplyconfused said on Oct 07, 2009....

  There for sure are women out there who don't want to have children.  Just keep on searching. ^_^  Also with your choice on the vasectomy, it's your choice.  I know I won't bash you for it.  If you really really felt the need to have a child, there is adoption.  Or get a dog.  Better yet a cat. 

• bhalah said on Oct 07, 2009....

  you know? have a vasectomy, and please do it, isent great have babys from a tipe of think you have, do  it  NOW. and forguet abaut a consecuency, make an asociattion, and all men like you have a vasectomy all thogether at ones. Also the woman we dasent want you, will fuck you like a heaven, couse the hapynes non a child will come from you, then make a phone call to your beautifoul, dreamer laidy, she thot what a great idea to have a baby whith you, and show, her this post, tomorrow she will forget you, dont make her sufer.. Im fed up, of pscycotic manipulation of men to womans, go and manipulate your dick.

• bhalah said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Soon will gona need sementals, not idiots.or morons enyway.

• bhalah said on Oct 07, 2009....

  and is not to give you a chance to do anrespectable answear, dont think you can, couse i giving to you exactcly what you give me, im talking as a woman, and you, have to respect me, just couse i am a woman, and the rest of course.

• seer said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Starchini - you may have a life. But I sincerly doubt I'd be able to carry on doing rock climbing holidays and superbike trips five times a year if I had children. Oh yeah, I also work 50 hours a week as a professional chef, and I'm doing 40 hours a week for college, then when I graduate I'll be on at least 120 hours setting up a business. I'd rather be a sucess that a parent.

  Missmimi, nostop, and ui - Thanks for the support. I will not freeze sperm just incase some strange hormanal imablance in my brain impairs my logical thinking and I do decide to fuck up my life.

  UI - I know there are men with baby fever too. Wierd people.

  Simplyconfused - that's the other thing about vasectomy, there are millions of babies out there that need adopting. I figured that instead of having kids I might do some foster work, imagine taking home a troubled teenager and seeing them become a functional human, instead of just doing the normal thing. Probably won't happen though.

  Star, STIs and STDs are on the increase, so I wrap up anyway.

  Bhalah, what? I don't respect people unless they give me cause to respect them. I don't manipulate women, I let them know straight on the first week, "if you want a boyfriend this is the score - I don't celebrate christmas because I'm an athiest, I'm not having children, but I travel, see the world, and laugh and love more than any normal people I've met. If you want to be part of that then fine, if not I'm not interested. Bye.", which is why I'm not leading this poor unfortuante waitress on.

  And you know what, I do respect women that deserve respect. The whores my step brothers married, who got pregnant so they could do the whole gold digger thing whilst claiming my tax money and not working (maybe that's why the governement couldn't afford to give me a grant?), I have no respect for.

  At least, like MissMimi said, she let me know the score. Even though she is fucking stupid, and a drone, a human cockroach, a dogmatised robot - she's an honest and noble one.

• bhalah said on Oct 07, 2009....

  oh, my God, you are totaly chiky..keep going traveling, lought, and love more people ever met, and continuous whith your wonderfoul life, and be care of unfortunates waitres..,  you are wonderfoull, is a pity youl get vasectomy, i see what you want to respect is what deserves for your, especial tipe of vew life, you have, plus you are very inmature joung, but is all right, is in time, is nealy normal, you will be sucefoull in sted of parent. dont worry, be happy.. ah way the wey, by.

• starchini said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Seer, you act like you'll be that busy forever.  Just for arguements sake, you wont be that busy forever.  And again with the insults.  "id rather be a success than a parent"...alright, im not claiming to be any great success.  However I know a bazillion uber successful people out there in this big wide world that have a shitload of kids.  My point is, its totally awesome you dont want kids, whatever.  But you need to stop dissing the mommies and daddies in the world.  Just cause we went another way doesnt mean we are void of interests and are failures.  Gosh, you keep bashing me and soon I will feel like a loser.  : < 

  Its ok though, your not a parent you dont get it.  Before I had a baby I felt the same way about being a parent.  I thought I was gonna be chained down to the ground with baby wipes around my wrists and ankles.  Turns out if the baby is cute you have to fight to spend time with him : ) 

  Ooo, i dont know why im gonna say this cuz i dont give a rats ass wether or not you become a dad, but here is a thought-  Your obviously super awesome and are going to be successful, isnt it kind of a cool thought to own your own human for 18 years and raise it to be as awesome as you are.  Then one day you can sit back and say "damn, this kid is the coolest person in the world, and its bc of me" as people wave to your child from the streets and call him Mr. President.  : )  lol...

  I just think its a neat thought to imagine when my baby is all grown up and I can sit back and say "I did it!  I was a successful parent and my child is the shit".  Its gonna be a huge accomplishment. 

• Lucytorial said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Seer ~ I have never wanted children, do not want to have children ever ever ever....
   
  I've been on birth control, tried this that and the other and now I've thrown that towel in.  I've fucked around with my body for years because of not wanting kids and nw its time my husband did his little bit for the party (he also does not want kids) so he's getting the snip THANK GOOOODDDDDDD
   
  I don't think your decision is a bad one, to be frank I wish my husband had the snip years ago so I wouldn't have to fuck with my bodies hormones to stop falling pregnant.

• Mr.Strange said on Oct 07, 2009....

  we attract what we want.
  
  If you want drama it will show itself to you in many forms.
  
  Time to try out some new madness.

• nekros said on Oct 07, 2009....

  Send her to me. I make baby with her. All women should be knocked up!

• phoeby said on Oct 08, 2009....

  If you don't want babies that's cool. But other people  in the world do. (not just women). why waste energy bagging the people who want them. just find the ones who are more like you. surely, it's not that hard to figure out. 
  
  
  
  

• seer said on Oct 08, 2009....

  Star, can I just quote - "Before I had a baby I felt the same way about being a parent.  I thought I was gonna be chained down to the ground with baby wipes around my wrists and ankles.  Turns out if the baby is cute you have to fight to spend time with him : )"

  Fair enough, if honestly you feel that way then that's fine. Just please don't spead it about society, the dogma is strong enough.

  Lucy, my aunt and uncle decided to not have kids either and both focus on having fun and careers. Now they are both scientists, and really happy.

  Another reason why I don't want kids, is because I heard today on the news that in a few generations we're going to run out of resources and start to starve. Not to mention global warming. And having kids in the west puts higher oppression on China, Tibet, Thailand, Taiwan, Korea, basically any country that supplies to us.

   

  You are all entitled to your own opinion. Even though I really do think its fucking retarded to have kids, letting social dogma and hormonal instinct run your life. If you want to be a drone I'm not stopping you. Just don't try to drag me into this monotony.

• bhalah said on Oct 08, 2009....

  thouse are the teory, you have into your retarder head muchine, we all know abaut the sourse we dont going to have, since 1989, to said when we start to hear abaut, and also theres another teory, that in 2012, is a number in sudamerican indians they belive, samething coul hapen.., so we are inmortals, or we gona die soon? you dont have much more arguments, you always said your  expects, we got also financial problems at the moment, just to mention you one more, the rest is a sociologic essay. sory i have to peeck my dougther..

• starchini said on Oct 08, 2009....

  Tons of very normal people dont want kids for a bazillion and one reasons, some are stupid, some excuses and some are totally valid.  There are many ways of living and wether or not you have children, it doesnt make your life better or worse than anybody elses.  Thats all im saying.  Good Luck.  Much love : >

• raindove said on Oct 08, 2009....

  i dont want kids...not now anyway lol..
  but hey tough luck again, here is a pat on your back, move on to greener pastures dude..
  

• bhalah said on Oct 08, 2009....

  sorry if i guet into this to much, but i understan perfectly people dont want to have childrens, and i completly agree whith them too, of course, but my argue is the way this argument is post, as a woman, i cant acept people descrive as phisical seek, mothers nature we are, that all in our life is on the give a birth,make a new life, not all the womans, and is ok too, i even think is not for me, and i already have one,  but not eny more  have an inferior way of describe us, please, no, now we have our childs, they dont have  a world continuius, so then what, we guet this reallity or we think a life stile for them, you dont have to have a child, but help then if eny time you are whith eny of them. as i helping my orum

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