• momsrock said on Sep 25, 2006....

  If my husband cheated it would be over. I can't see how it could ever be fixed.
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  You would always imagine what he/she did while in the naked embrace of their lover. It would be a slow and painful
  death to a relationship. Provided you cared in the first place of course!
  
  I know.
  g
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  You would always imagine what he/she did while in the naked embrace of their lover. It would be a slow and painful
  death to a relationship. Provided you cared in the first place of course!
  
  I know.
  g
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  You would always imagine what he/she did while in the naked embrace of their lover. It would be a slow and painful
  death to a relationship. Provided you cared in the first place of course!
  
  I know.
  g
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  You would always imagine what he/she did while in the naked embrace of their lover. It would be a slow and painful
  death to a relationship. Provided you cared in the first place of course!
  
  I know.
  g
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  You would always imagine what he/she did while in the naked embrace of their lover. It would be a slow and painful
  death to a relationship. Provided you cared in the first place of course!
  
  I know.
  g
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  You would always imagine what he/she did while in the naked embrace of their lover. It would be a slow and painful
  death to a relationship. Provided you cared in the first place of course!
  
  I know.
  g
  

• iwannadoit said on Sep 26, 2006....

  sorry
  g
  

• threetablesbeach said on Sep 26, 2006....

  It will never happen, my wife and I have agreed that if the other one ever cheats, the cheated one can kill the cheater. It may not be legal, but it helps to know the fate awaiting if either of us ever strays. I KNOW she will kill me and she KNOWS I will kill her. Sooooo, ....... no cheating!
  
  It also helps that we love each other very much.
  

• tikiwop9 said on Sep 26, 2006....

  LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!
  
  
  I love the fact that the loving each other bit was mentioned as an afterthought.....hehehehehehe, holy crap my side hurts...."I'll KILL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......oh yeah, and we love each other too, so there's that....."
  

• happykat said on Sep 26, 2006....

  I've seen this happen. Some of the couples have repaired (and even strengthened) their relationship afterwards. Others have thrown in the towel with disgust.
  
  For me....I don't know....I would be terrribly hurt so it makes more sense to live with him forever whilst making him pay.......I'm kidding, of course!!!!
  
  This is a toughie. I would be hurt, but I'm not sure its a deal breaker. It depends, I think, on the circumstances. It's very close to an all out deal breaker, but I just don't know.
  

• doodlegal said on Sep 26, 2006....

  The anger and the pain is unimaginable if you have not been there. It would be very hard to forgive. would you really forgive or would the pain fester every time something unfortunate happened in that relationship. I believe it would.
  

• sc2memphis said on Sep 26, 2006....

  Depends if it was like a one night stand or if she has a boyfriend/lover on the side. Those are big differences to me. I don't think either is right but one night stand is better.
  

• anonymous said on Sep 26, 2006....

  i don't really agree that the movie advocates cheating on your partner, he was honest with her and obviously felt bad about it. If he never would've said anything, then i wouldn't agree with it. But he told her before anything serious happened and she shut him out. I dont know, im on the girl's side on this one... Forgiveness is something that is not easy to give, especially in a situation like this one. If she could find it in her heart to forgive him then she is stronger than she may appear. But she knows that there will be no next time.
  (sorry for those who havent seen the movie yet, didnt mean to spoil anything)
  

• hunter_boyce_chandler said on Sep 26, 2006....

  I hope that I would forgive and forget. A happy marriage to a partner and friend is too rare and valuable a gift to throw away.
  

• RollingC said on Sep 26, 2006....

  I honestly don't know how I'll react.....
  but I really don't think my wife will cheat with another...
  ....she'll cheat on her diet but not on her marriage...that's why she divorced her first husband.
  I won't do it either as I believe in marriage commitments.
  

• starlightstarbright said on Sep 29, 2006....

  I agree that marriage is too sacred to sacrifice to an affair. My fiance and I are so deeply connected and committed to one another that this would never happen in our relationship. Honestly, I can't imagine doing this to anyone.
  
  When I give my heart away, I give it for keeps....
  

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