When i was younger, like about a few days ago. ;~)

The first thing i always wanted to do when i fell in love with a man was to jump their boner. lol

It was all i have ever known. That feeling loved was by the actions of the hands not of the heart. sigh.

I can give my hips a rest now. *smile*

I have found a higher love that doesn't involve body actions. LOL

Where this came from..... i don't know, the garden, i quess it was my lesson for the day!



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  • Lucytorial said on Oct 03, 2009....
    MeMy ~ You know, its a mysterious thing love, but certain wisdom comes only from time....
  • gingersoul said on Oct 03, 2009....
    M&M...."L'amor che move il sole e l'altre stelle..." (Dante Alighieri)

    "Love, that moves the sun and the other stars...."

    Its a never ending discovery......one can never learn enough.....so you have learned something new now.....

    It must be that garden of yours......;-p
  • Me-Myself&I said on Oct 03, 2009....

    we all only know what is taught to us. i have been blessed to be re-trained in my thinking by some mighty fine folks, some of them are here on SoulCast.

    Lucy ~ besides being in my 50s and the time i spend pondering as i play in my gardens.... yup, i agree, time and wisdom goes hand in hand.

    Ginger ~ in the search of who i am and somethings i think about goes real deep. my wheels in my head sometimes drives me crazy .... as the song goes. yup, in my gardens, focused on gently caring for the living green, .... i feel the love of the sun and stars. i have the right attitude to work things out in my life.

    oh shoot, i am getting all mushy now. *smile*

    Thanks ladies. i have been popping in and out of here all day. just got done hanging all the strawflowers.... they are everywhere these days. i've got the prettiest ceils in town. *smile*

    Take care ~ see ya

  • Hegemone said on Oct 03, 2009....
    Well, I'm glad you found this new kind of love.  Hope it's just as enjoyable as the other kind.  :-p
  • MsStar39 said on Oct 04, 2009....
    What a swet post, a different kind of love.
  • queenparanoia said on Oct 04, 2009....

    you know my grandma is 84 and still gardens...

    and my grandma and grandpa still act like young lovers...

    i don't why i said this... LOL... i hope you see the connections... :-)

  • Me-Myself&I said on Oct 04, 2009....

    Hegemone ~ lol.... well hon it isn't a new kind of love just..... a higher one. one that connects with the heart and soul instead of the body. ;~) it is hard to explain, number one, to/for me, i thought that being loved by a man meant ....him wanting to jump my bones....which ain't all bad now, let me say! *smile* but i know now, here and now that i can love without being expected to ....undress. i can enjoy the love between us with my mind and heart now. that is a freedom ring to me. ;~)

    MsStar ~ i always thought if i could charm the pants off of a man it meant....oh boy this must be love. lol...wrong again! it only means that men are easy! LOL. no, kinda kidding here. *wink

    Queenie ~ lol...yes, i see the connection.... they do it in the garden! LOL. oh i am sorry, i am in a .....silly mood this morning. i quess the love i feel in my gardens has taught me this higher love. cool.

  • Twylarants said on Oct 04, 2009....
    Love the "hip restraint" tag...lol!  Did you ever think the day would come when sex would stop being the end all and be all?
    Ah, well...those were the days, my friend. But much can be said for the sweet kind of love you feel with your clothes on.
    I'm happy for you, MeMy. You're nurturing yourself as tenderly as you nurture your garden and that's a wonderful thing.
  • Mr.Strange said on Oct 04, 2009....
    lol

    Giving your hips a rest...

    Interesting, I equally found this kind of love.

    My hips still thrust regularly...

    Though it is very different experience from what I previously called making love.

    Have a Super Awesome Hip Restrained Day
  • Voltaire said on Oct 09, 2009....
     And so, too, I speak of love: he who is held by it is held by the strongest of bonds, and yet the stress is pleasant. Moreover, he can sweetly bear all that happens to him. When one has found this bond, he looks for no other.
    Meister Eckhart

    My personal experience says; love is like a strawberry, it can have many tastes but none the less its still a strawberry. I've learnt to check the strawberry before I eat it; to look if its still good.

    But if you really found it; congratulations. ;)

    Regards,
    Voltaire
  • Me-Myself&I said on Oct 09, 2009....

    Twylarants ~ well i wasn't getting anywhere with my clothes off so...lol... i am doing better. not so much pressure. *smile*

    Mr.Strange ~ i just know i can feel loved or give love.... without any hip movement. *wink

    Voltaire ~ nice quote my friend. don't know what to say about love and strawberries being somewhat alike...lol.  alittle sugar and whipped cream and that berry gets really sweet. *wink sooooo, have i really found a higher love. i believe i have. i'm excited to find out how good a relationship can get before body contact. if its good before, well the contact should take me up and away! *smile*

    Thanks for all. have a great weekend! take care ~see ya

  • destinydiva said on Oct 14, 2009....
    I'm still giggling from the 'jump on their boner' part :-) 
    memy I'm all excited!!! did I miss something? ...details!!!! :-) xxx
     
  • Me-Myself&I said on Oct 14, 2009....

    Destiny ~ lol.... no you didn't miss a thing hon! lol.... sigh...... i just was thinking that my "libido" was getting me all bent out of shape. the thought continued..... so i decided to chill my heels and admit..... there is got to be something else out there that can feed my desires, my needs. sooooo, i realized that loving without hip movement..lol... is the best thing to do. lol....oh shoot, i am ate-up! *smile*

    it is so nice to see you. i think of all the posts and comments we use to share. you are a special kind of blogger, i will remember some of your posts that still tickle me. you need to get your blogging together again and tickle the newbies here! *smile* xo take care my friend! ~see ya

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