I'm so angry... So confused. I've been attempting to not think about this, and push it to the back of my mind but it is getting difficult.
Everytime I ignore my ex boyfriend and push him away, he latches onto me. He starts talking to me, he starts flirting with me, and he asks me to go places with him. If I do that with HIM, he backs off and pushes me away.
I don't understand. I really really don't. I'm trying so hard to push it away and to just live IN THE MOMENT, and not think about the meaning behind his actions. It's hard whenever he talks to me a bunch, calls me hun, and looks at me like he loves me.
Our "friendship" is basically me being there for him, but whenever I want something or want him to do something, he backs off.
Example of this: He always asks me to go to this store to get a Pepsi and stuff at breaks in school. I asked him today for money so I could get a Pepsi, and asked him to come with me, and he said he wouldnt come with me.
I don't understand. Am i being played?
Freedom♥ posted on Oct 01, 2009
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Hegemone said on Oct 01, 2009....
Sounds like this guy is one for the chase. That would get frustrating and seriously old. Uhhh, please be careful here though, it sounds like this guy is purely a taker, and a non contributor to the relationship unless only his best interests are at stake. You might do better to move on instead of giving in to him, even though it will be hard to do. You have to do what's best for you, even if it's not what you want right now. -
queenparanoia said on Oct 02, 2009....
one answer to yoru solution... completely ignore him... and if he starts talking to you again just ignore him!!! he's playing you! and i agree with hegemone he likes the chase!!! you deserve better dear... -
Freedom♥ said on Oct 02, 2009....
I guess so... today he ignored me, lmao.. Whenever he ignores me, he always goes with these two girls, but if him and I are "fine" or so much as we can be, he doesn't even look at them if they walk by.
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