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Something very unusual happened. 
 
I am a optimist, I believe that good things happen to good people.  I believe in God, and I believe that God provides for those in need.  I believe there is a reason for everything, but that we may not always know the reason, and thats okay.  I am a woman of faith, and love. 
 
Phil, not so much.  The times hes been shit on have really effected his outlook.  He looks at obviously positive things with skepticism and always asks why.  He believes good things should happen to good people, but usually dont.  This makes me sad because when amazing things happen, he doesnt see them, he just waits for it to be taken away.  Hes definitly one of those people that believes "If you dont expect anything, you cant be disapointed". 
 
So, for the past few months, life has been really hard financially.  We have hardly been able to make ends meet and our expenses keep piling up.  Ive been praying hard.  Not really for a miracle or anything, I just kept asking God to bless us with some security.  Ive been asking him to knock me over the head with some answers and advice.
 
Any of my somewhat regular readers know that I have been researching ways to become a little more financially secure while being able to stay at home with Remington.  Make money online, home businesses, going back to school.  Ive even been seriously considering the stock market (ive always been a little lucky in areas of chance, makes me think im a wee bit psychic). 
 
So today started out like any other day.  I woke up with Phil and we both got ready for the day, he left for work and Remington and I planted our asses on the couch so I could give him his breakfast.  I started a load of laundry and put Remi down for a nap.  Decided my cold was getting worse and I deserved a nap too.  I layed my head down on the couch and began to drift off with HGTV color splash in the background. 
 
The doorbell rang.  I was a little erked thinking the loud dongs would wake Remi and even more erked that my nap was over just when it started.  It was the UPS man.  I couldnt think of anything that I ordered.  Id been getting packages from Dell, and figured it was something from them, or it was more likely a package from a relative that couldnt make it to the wedding.  Im always excited to see the UPS man, they dont deliver bills, they just hand out goodies.  So I skipped to the door and answered it.  He handed me a cardboard envelope and said "Christina?"  I said "yes" and he took off, I didnt even have to sign anything. 
 
I immediatly knew it wasnt from Dell, and still thought it was something from a relative.  Then I noticed it was sent with "Next Day Air".  I send UPS packages regularly and I know that that is a very expensive way to ship, usually no less then $30.00.
 
Goodness, what could this be?
 
I didnt recognize the name, not at all, ive never heard of the sender before in my life, it was a very generic name.  Something along the lines of John Smith, but not quite as common.
 
I ripped the perforation off and peeked inside, nothing but a little piece of paper in the very bottom.  I pulled it out...and....omg, its a check.
 
I still dont know how to explain to you the utter shock and amazement along with disbelief and skepticism I was feeling.
 
There in my hands lay a check for the amount of $3,300.00....
 
I thought, this is some kind of joke.  Its not real.  Its got to be one of those gimmicks where a company sends you a check and its actually made out to them in your name and its only good if you send it to them and buy something, like a discount.  Im an NRA member and they recently sent me a check for $400.00 I was excited until I realized it was written to them and that amount would be deducted from the cost of a lifetime membership if I sent it back.  Anyways, I thought it was something along those lines....
 
I examined it until I was blue in the face. 
 
Its written to me, yup thats my name, thats my address...
Its got the amount, its got routing numbers, a date written, a check number....
Its from the Bank of America, a water mark...
Its got a place for me to endorse it on the back and all the banking mumbo jumbo like "please do not write below this line" and the security information...
 
Shit, this is a real check...
 
One thing that didnt match up was the company that wrote the check was not the name of the person that sent the package...Thats not all that crazy  though, I send out mail with my personal name on packages and inside is the companies name....
 
What would you do at this point if it was you???
 
Well, I started jumping for joy and thanking God on my hands and knees...
 
I called Phil and told him all about it, he was not excited at all, he thought it was a joke or some kind of scam.  He told me to look the company up online...So I did.
 
Its a legitimate company, they work with the Government and do some kind of online service.  Phil wanted me to call the company and ask why they sent me a check...
 
That, I absolutly refused to do.  I didnt want to question this.  If it was a mistake they obviously have billions of dollars that they dont know what to do with and im not going to bring this oversight to their attention...
 
Im gonna cash it!
 
So I scooped Remington up and went and showed Phil the check.  I swear to God he was within inches of ripping it up.  I begged him not to.  He just saw this as trouble.  He absolutly thinks bad things will happen bc of this money.  "Just wait" he says all "you'll see,  there are strings, there are always strings"...
 
Fuck that nonsense.
 
I dont know how this happened, who the person is or why...all I know is that this was God's doing and im not going to look a gift horse in the mouth. 
 
I went to the bank and deposited it, I tried to withdrawel it because Phil talked me into thinking this was some sort of scam and these people are gonna get all our money.  So I took it to a bank I have an account with but dont use.  However I couldnt withdrawel it yet because the banks policy is that they dont give cash back on out of state checks until they clear...
 
I seriously think it will clear, it looked like a perfectly good check, I dont know why it wouldnt...Phil doesnt think it will clear and thinks I should stop being so optimistic...You just wait, it will clear and we will have $3,300.00.
 
So what are your thoughts???


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  • CreativeWoman said on Sep 30, 2009....
    I hope it was real.  It is spectacular if it is.  :-)

    You might check the company out with the Better Business Bureau. 

    I wish you all the best with it.

    CW
  • Hegemone said on Sep 30, 2009....
    I also hope it was a real check, that would be fantastic.  I'd do some further researching as much as you could, check the company, check the name of the sender, etc.  Watch all of your bank accounts closely too, even though you deposited in one you don't use, that doesn't mean that it wouldn't be enough that you could maybe see a little issue arise elsewhere.  Just be careful.  I'd have probably been more on Phil's side, really leery, but I'm working on that outlook.  I'm going to keep my fingers crossed that it's real and you now have an additional 3300 that you didn't have before!
  • starchini said on Sep 30, 2009....
    Thank you cw, i too hope its real, and ill surely check the company out more.  : )  Please pray for me that its real, i really really need this money
     
    wouldnt it though?  As soon as my brother cashes a pathetic $13.00 check i wrote him for diapers that time he visited me, im definitly gonna close the account.  I understand Phil's pov, i dont like it, but i get why he thinks the way he does, i just couldnt believe he would have ripped the check up had i not begged him not to.  He wouldnt have even tried to cash it if it was his...
     
    I still wanna know though, why do you think i would have gotten this?  Do you think my prayers were answered or do you think it was someones mistake?  Did i win some sort of contest and they forgot to complete the package with some paper info?  hmmm...if this check is real and no strings are attached that question will plague me for the rest of my life...
     
  • CreativeWoman said on Sep 30, 2009....
    starchini,
    If it is real, then I believe it is an answer to your prayers.  God could have put it on some stranger's heart to do something kind for you.  He does work in mysterious ways.

    I know of a group of local ladies who secretly adopt a young single mom at Christmas.  They buy gifts for the kids and her along with giving a cash gift.  They send it anonymously.

    Just don't spend that money until you know it's legit by clearing the bank.

    Someday when you have the opportunity, pay it forward by giving a gift of kindness to someone else.

    CW
  • MsStar39 said on Oct 01, 2009....
    Star it does seem likea  miracle  from God especially if there were no instructions of what to do with it. I feel leery but I will just say a prayer for it to be real.
  • MsStar39 said on Oct 01, 2009....
    Star I just checked Snopes.com and there is a scam with exactly 3,300 being sent out to people but it usually has instructions with it.
     It is going to take at least five days for it to clear.
    doing this time really check this company out, what is the name of the company?
  • woman said on Oct 01, 2009....
    I wish it was real but it makes not sense Star. All the advice above it good. Especially the BBB. Crazy. Good luck. woman
  • starchini said on Oct 01, 2009....

    Oh cw ill definitly pay it forward : )

    MsStar, ill send you a message with the name of the company...i feel weird about broadcasting it.

    I know woman, it doesnt make sense...but i can live with that, i just hope its real. 

  • fragglesrock said on Oct 01, 2009....

    I hope it is legit, it would suck to have to tell hubs that he was right!

  • Fallyn said on Oct 01, 2009....
    please please please christina look into this more. if it ends up costing you instead of blessing you it will hurt really really badly and not just financially.

    i'm not generally a terribly skeptical person....... but the very reason that you don't know WHY this person is sending you money sends up HUGE red flags for me.

    if it IS a mistake you could end up having to pay it all back.... AFTER you spent it and it would have to come out of your regular money for bills and food.

    if you MUST spend it.... do so with the very minimum you can get by with...... if nothing else just keep it in the bank as a back up plan in case of an emergency. that way you will know for SURE that no one made some kind of mistake when you are really in need of spending it.
  • ALIENated said on Oct 01, 2009....

    I am with your husband, a solid member of the "there is no free lunch" club. HOWEVER, just after I lost my last job, we mysteriously got back some money from an insurance company. I never really could get any information about why (I was not the family member to which it applied). It was sent to the doctor's office and they agreed that it was owed to us, not them. It took a while, but we got it back. So I know things can happen for no reason that we may see, but they do happen. As far as your check, I would see if it clears and stand by for further information. You did not sign up for one of those money laundering deals I am always getting emails about, did you? I have heard those jobs are definitely a scam to get you bank account number. Maybe you won a contest, but it seems like there would have been some hoopla, some fanfair to advertise that you had won. Or it may be the bad one ... they sent it to you by mistake. Of course, that is their mistake .. "What check? I got no stinkin check." You WILL let us know if you find out what the deal is.

  • lovelifeandsingle said on Oct 01, 2009....
    hi,your blog just really encouraged me even more to cast all my cares at His feet! I so think it is an answer to prayer,you were asking for security in any form and the lord sent you what was needed the most. If the cheque doesn't clear at least you know you have put total faith in the lord to help you, and he does help. It prob came at the right time to for your husband it might help him see what the lord can do. my mum and dad had similar situation they went bankrupt and needed to pay a fuel bill of something like £300 and buy shoes for me and my sister and they just prayed that God would help them through the storm and just before the bill went to red a letter came through the door with a cheque of £300, they dont know who it is off.They then went to a church meeting and this preacher who didn't know them came up and gave them enough money to get two pairs of shoes. It's amazing and totally affirms my faith. No matter what happens it will happen becaise the lord wants that to happen,whether we want it or not. (sorry about the essay got a little carried away)
  • starchini said on Oct 01, 2009....
    lol, yes frags, that would suck bad.
     
    Yes fallyn, i may be a gal of faith but im no dummie, while i believe in things i tread very careefully.  I wont be spending the money, not yet anyways.  I dont give anyone my info and me and a "team" of people are researching it inside and out.  Ill be safe.  Thank you for your concern...although after all the input, it prolly just wont clear, and if it does, then ill just let it sit.  Gotta start Remington's college fund right!?
     
    Alien, its great that you belive good things do happen, and that your somewhat skeptical.  I sign up for contests everysingle day....idk..im just gotta wait and see if i clears and of course i will update you when anything happens.
     
    thank you love life and single.  Im on your side!
     
  • queenparanoia said on Oct 02, 2009....
    update us about it! i hope it's real and i hope you could find out why they would giving it to you. there's nothing wrong to question it. it might do you more harm than good. but just to be on the safe side ask the company first.
  • starchini said on Oct 02, 2009....
    I dont know anything yet...but when i do ill for sure let you know!  So far no money though...hasnt cleared yet..
  • Fallyn said on Oct 02, 2009....
    star. that would be exactly what i would do with it. .... i'm crossing my fingers for you. cause you really do deserve a windfall rignt now
  • k666 said on Oct 04, 2009....
    hey Christina, yeah, let us know what's up with the check!

    btw, sorry for off-topic, but I was browsing people's blogs tagged with "college" and saw this: http://www.soulcast.com/post/show/262280/Obama-Offering-Scholarships-Of-$10,000-Dollars-Per-Year---Check-Out-The-Applicat I didnt know about Obama's scholarship for mothers. I only have skimmed your posts about returning to college but you really should fill out a FAFSA application, it's due like march 1st. http://www.fafsa.ed.gov/  it is a hassle to put all your income and tax info into the application, but most students i know apply and I think that's how you prove you need Obama's scholarship and other grants. I also found a scholarship site that seems legit, http://www.scholarships4moms.net/form.htm

    good
    luck *crosses fingers for the check to clear*

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