Do you guys remember Todd, the ex who basically told me I was unmarriable because I have a super close relationship with my mom....also the one who said he isn't ready to get married for one reason or another? Well I got a msg from him today.....HE IS ENGAGED....less than a year after ending things with me and he is engaged. She is older than me...and <gasp> uglier than me....friends who have seen her pic have all said she looks horrible and I am way better looking like according to some, he downgraded in looks. But I mean he may find her attractive and thats fine with me, she may make him happy awesome for him. but what gets me is it's been less than a year since he ended things with me....I have this HUGE feeling that he cheated on me with her, or thought about it. I know I could be over-reacting with that, but really bothers me. I am over him and sure still love him but only as a friend. I am happy he found someone that makes him happy and in a sense I have too, sure we;ve only been on one date, but we still spend a lot of time together and talking all the time. ANYWAY....I dont know what it bothers me. I mean...grrr maybe because it's only been less than a year between us....idk oy how would you feel?
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Hegemone said on Sep 21, 2009....
Well, I can tell you one thing, that would probably have me confuzzled a bit too. However, I also know if I were totally over him, I wouldn't be confuzzled for long. So, make sure this doesn't eat at you for too long, otherwise you might have other issues you want to address. I wouldn't be led to think he cheated on you, just that he got in over his head and instead of saying so he made up some stupid excuse. Ah well, let him be happy, and you go on being happy and taking care of you. -
queenparanoia said on Sep 22, 2009....
only one year??? wow... that's like a slap to your face...
anyway, ignore him and just move on with your life... it's his lost he let you go...
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gingersoul said on Sep 22, 2009....
Oh, Rmuxa......so happy to read you again....:-)Ok, come on....you are shocked by ONLY one year?What about being married and hearing your husband telling you he is leaving you and his-your kid and finding out ONLY one month and half later that he is expecting a baby from this woman he met two months earlier and that she already had moved in with him, along with her other kid?How do you call this kind of speedness? I call it light speed shittyness..lol....One year is a good amount of time in a man life.....they seem to count time like in dogs years......lol......one year for them is like 7 years for us....:-DPsst: screw Todd, girl......you are only hurt in your pride.....but he is gone....carpe diem......enjoy the new love....:-) -
rmuxagirl said on Sep 22, 2009....
Hege: I am over it, it bothered me for the night, but other than that whatever the hell he wants to do go do it. She makes him happy...have at it.
Queenie: It was like a slap in the face and I let it go and figure hes her problem now, not mine.
Ginger: yea that is speedy, I mean I guess I should see things from his end too, I mean Nate and I were gonna move into together after 3 months...4 after Todd and I ended things. So I guess I went fast too, but I wasnt the one who ended things, and I admit things with Nate moved a little too fast. BUT like you said Todd is past and enjoying the new guy in my life ;)
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gingersoul said on Sep 22, 2009....
That's my girl!....;-p -
rmuxagirl said on Sep 24, 2009....
If only the new guy would get his ass together and ask me out for the second date already LOL -
gingersoul said on Sep 24, 2009....
Oh...well.....yes, i see a little tinsy tiny problem here.....lol....
But i also see....that he will...he will......;-)
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rmuxagirl said on Sep 27, 2009....
haha whats the tinsy tiny problem? LOL...i asked him about the second date today and he told me I dont know. I had to ask him on the first date because he is "shy" according to the mutual friend. I am about ready to give up. -
GODwaterwalker said on Oct 26, 2009....
I came, but you are gone.
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