The Art of Fellatio
Fellatio: Some women cringe at the very thought. Ladies, gag may be a word right???? Well, learn to do it right, and please your man when he deserves it!!! Remember what comes around goes around!!!! Wouldn’t you like some good feeling to return to you? And remember also, girlfriends, that fellatio is an act of love which creates happiness.
If you’ve been taught that it was wrong: question yourself why. If you still think it’s wrong after giving this topic much considerable thought, you might want to consider not wanting to be right as a viable option.
For those of you that are just eeked out about the whole thing, maybeou should shift your point of view. Fellatio is not an act, it’s an art when done well. I mean cooking is an act if you just go ahead and put some damn chicken in the oven and voila . . . . or you can spice it up with some herbs, wine, sautee, flambee, add ingredients, and you’ve got a culinary masterpiece.
Well, like cooking, fellatio could be an art, a proud accomplishment. Don’t you love to hear the man you love groan and smile in pleasure? It’s an act of giving. I’ve read enough Cosmo and sex books and had enough trial and error to know what will make your man coming, his cock wild with heavenly pleasure. He’ll be calm and relaxed the next day, and will be happy and happy people don’t fight and get mad. Hey, would somebody go blow the President already???? Laura Bush, I hope you’re reading this!!!
If you ever want to see this act done properly, go and rent some gay guy porn. You see what these wise masters know that we women don’t is that men love it when this act is done with passion, so fake it!!! Pretend to love it and be enthusiastic!!!! Eventually you WILL BE enthusiastic about it.
So here, goes. You’re with your man, and your snuggled up in bed and you both want a little somethin’ somethin’. . . . go slow. Men will never admit it , but the sex is so much better when they are teased to the point of explosion.. The more you tease, the shorter this is gonna take. You may want to begin caressing his inner thighs, and his entire area around the penis, but NOT THE PENIS!!!!!! This should get a rise out of your man. His penis will now be aching to feel you, so relieve him a bit and begin the licking mode. Do not lick softly, strong, hard licks, and keep your hands out of it. Go up and down the shaft with your tongue, he can’t wait, but he will not yet be satisfied.
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Go on to the testicles, and and lick again in circles around his soft eggshells. . . Yeah, baby, yeah!!!!! K, then you’re going to flick the tip of the dick in your mouth, round and around around you go with your licking tongue . . . This is the head and this is what is sensitive like the clit, it feels very strong sensations. So right now, he’s feeling a mixture of both intense pleasure and agony. “Put it in!!!! Put it in!!! AHHHHH . . . yeah” might be along the lines of thought in his head(s).
So go ahead and just put the tip in your mouth, and use just a little bit of suction. A lot of suckage is usually no good, but if he’s not completely hardened by now, go ahead and suck a bit more. If he’s really sensitive, not much suck is needed… Inch down very slowly. At this point he is in sheer ecstacy and anticipation of having it all in your mouth, but go slow, drive him wild, ladies!!!!
At this point, go ahead and put your hand around the base and use it as you put as much as you can in your mouth. Being able to swallow a huge kilbasa is nice and impressive, but not absolutely necessary. So, go easy on yourself here. You don’t want to say in the end, “Oops, baby, you made me throw up just a little.” Definitely not sexy.
So, as you are pumping up and down with your hand, use your other hand to play with the testicles and gently press the perineum, right above his anus. Really this is not gross, it is the art of pleasure. And you are creating ecstacy. If you want him to come quickly, don’t do what he wants you to, and do it fast fast fast!!! Take your time, build up a nice pace, but not too fast. Lick the frenelum, the underside of the head, it’s tres sensitive!!! He should come in no time.
You are hopefully doing this with gusto and making some guttural sounds of your own at this point. The vibrations of your muted voice will give him mass pleasure. Your using your hands, and hopefully your tongue as well, flicking the head, swirling it around, and being extremely into it. You are so involved in this process. Think of how he’s feeling, this amazing piece of heaven you are creating in just this one part of his body.
If you get tired during the process, keep it up with your hands and tongue and give your jaw a rest. Do not stop the rhythm, yes ladies, like an orchestra that you have built.
Your man will be very, very happy. If every woman were to do this regularly, there’d be no more wars. We would be living in a shan gra lai. Never underestimate the power of a good blow.
Anywho, if you want some advice about what to do with the come, then view secretlife’s blog, “To Spit or Not to Spit.” Thank you, secretlife, for your last blog was my inspiration for this one.
Ladies, let me know how this works. And men, let’s hear your input! (Pun unintended)
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rarity121 posted on Sep 22, 2006
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silverwhisper said on Sep 22, 2006....
i'm sorry, was there a question? i'm too busy breathing really hard.
:>
ed
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rarity121 said on Sep 22, 2006....
oh my, you made me really laugh out loud, i needed that!!!
Thanks ed ;)
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Frlncwrtr said on Sep 23, 2006....
rarity:
Your description is very blunt, open, and VERY familiar to me (see my comment on SL's 'To Spit or Not to Spit')!
For those men who are not as fortunate as I am, it's so good that you wrote this. Not many people would be as honest and direct about a topic like this as you are.
It's also good for the women out there who are completely clueless as to giving a good (or better) blowjob.
As a side note, it would have been good if you went on to finish it, even though SL posted hers. My reason is twofold:
1 it would be a great finish to an erotic educational story,
2 readers would see that more than one women shares the same opinion, thereby, making it more believable to the women who 'cringe at the very thought' of sucking dick!
FLW
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rarity121 said on Sep 23, 2006....
i guess i'll have to finish it off . .. .
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Frlncwrtr said on Sep 23, 2006....
Thank you rarity!(Nicely put btw, lol)
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secretlife said on Sep 23, 2006....
rarity:
we're working a little synergy here!
Sounds silly - fellatio as an art form. But giving pleasure really is just that. It's a wonderful way to make someone feel like they're the most important person in the world and the center of your universe.
I like that you said to use hands and fingers and tongue and mouth and every tool at your disposal. Sometimes we get so caught up in the mouth technique we forget the other things.
And I like how you included all of his 'part' and not just the penis here. If you're doing a worship of someone's body, I think it's fair to include ALL of it.
SL
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sweetsoul said on Sep 23, 2006....
Cringe?! OMG I cum before he does when worshipping him.
Great blog rarity. Some good advice.
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rarity121 said on Sep 23, 2006....
It's all about being totally with it and consious. We need to stop the thinking that sex is bad, and realize that there is a certiain zen to it.
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rarity121 said on Sep 23, 2006....
secret: are you also a libra, we are always talking about being fair
sweetsoul, you are a zen blowjob master if you can come by giving pleaure, kudos to you, you must be truly a sweet soul to relish in giving this much
frln: it will be a work in progress.
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silverwhisper said on Sep 23, 2006....
sweetsoul quoth
i cum before he does when worshipping him.
that's incredibly hot.
ed
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secretlife said on Sep 23, 2006....
i'm a gemini rarity - and also believe that you should take pleasure from bringing pleasure.
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MikoFabulous said on Sep 23, 2006....
OK well here's a mind-fuck for all of you: given Rarity's careful, guided description of how to give perfect oral stimulation and Sweetsoul's breathtaking admission that she can climax while pleasuring . . .
HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN WHEN A GUY COMES ALL OVER YOU DELIBERATELY, WITHOUT STIMULATION DURING FOREPLAY?
This actually happened to me recently in one of the most unfortuate not-quite sexual experiences of my life when I went home with a guy I thought was just dreamy and really smart, charming, sweet, funny and totally harmless. Totally harmless, NO KIDDING! I wasn't even naked yet. How does jizzing find it's way into foreplay? You guys are the sexperts, what is this, some kind of new trend in safe sex? If it is, THIS BLOWS! (Pun fully intended.)
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silverwhisper said on Sep 23, 2006....
miko: OK, take a deep breath.
obviously this is your first experience w/ premature ejaculation. it happens to a lot of guys and for various reasons:
1. maybe you just got him that turned on?
2. maybe it's been a while for him?
3. maybe what you were doing was some kind of fetish that he really digs?
i'm more curious however about how you handled things after it happened.
ed
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rarity121 said on Sep 23, 2006....
Miko- give this guy about fifteen minutes and he'll be ready to explode again, you turn him on MOJO MAJORLY, he'll get it up again in no time. Just has a little issue with a bit of premature ejaculation.
Silver - maybe you can shed some light on this, what should she have done?
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silverwhisper said on Sep 23, 2006....
well, a guy who has that experience is going to be very embarrassed. and since guys know that women know most guys only get a handful of shots/night, he's gonna feel like crap.
the ideal reaction to this development is to take it in stride and resume foreplay, although perhaps continue in a different direction. yes, you have to acknowledge that it happened, but you don't want to dwell on it, and most guys know they have at least one more in 'em.
ed
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sweetsoul said on Sep 23, 2006....
rarity 'a Zen blowjob master' ROFLMAO Trust me, I make no such claims. Not saying he's complaining...he's not...but we can always improve.
ed...he seems to agree. :) Among other things, he enjoys feeling my orgasm go from my lips to his cock.
miko...ed's got it in his reply.
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Frlncwrtr said on Sep 23, 2006....
rarity:
What sweetsoul said about, "Cringe? OMG I cum before he does when worshipping him," is interesting.
My 'FutureWife has done the same thing (cumming while worshipping me)! It does not happen too much, or even too often, but she has cum while sucking me off.
Regarding the comment made by, SL, "you should take pleasure from bringing pleasure." ‘FutureWife’ has explained her cuming while giving me head in similar words.
A comment by MikoFabulous was,
"HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN WHEN A GUY COMES ALL OVER YOU DELIBERATELY, WITHOUT STIMULATION DURING FOREPLAY?"
My opinion regarding this is the same as Silverwhisper's #2 & #3 comments, #2.“maybe it's been a while for him?" and #3. “Maybe what you were doing was some kind of fetish that he really digs?”
In addition, I'll add a fourth reason; it is due to lack of self-control, immaturity, and lack of sexual experience! I also agree with rarity and silverwhisper's answers to this!
An interesting point however, is that 'FutureWife' and I have BOTH simultaneously experienced, or within a few seconds of each other, cumming during prolonged makeout sessions involving no sex at all! We have both cum solely from kissing each other.
This has happened only twice, shocking us both times, and we do not know that it will ever happen again.
I did not mention this previously because neither ‘FutureWife’ nor myself had ever heard of this before. Therefore, I felt that no one would believe it. I've included it this time after seeing sweetsoul's comment, because I realized that we are not alone in this experience.
We have accepted this a just one more of the unique and wondrous occurrences in our incredibly special relationship.
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StrangeOne said on Sep 23, 2006....
Cringe?! OMG I cum before he does when worshipping him.
LOL me too!! At the very least, I often need to do just that for me to get turned on; I get even more turned on blowing him than him going down on me!
And yes, fellatio is absolutely an art form, and I might add the following thoughts to rarity's excellent description: a lot of guys also enjoy the visual aspects of watching us women go down on them (case in point - POV porn!) so make sure you also make a real show of it! The best way to do that is to feel GENUINE passion about it, and that hungry, intense look in your eyes will be unmistakeable. Worship the cock! Feel that throbbing smoothness! Then look up at him with that passionate stare. Make sure he can see you lick circles around the head of his dick, and watch you disappear as you make your way down his shaft. Have the rest of your body in a sexy position so that he can enjoy the whole view.... >;)
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sweetsoul said on Sep 23, 2006....
Frincwrtr - I certainly don't profess to be the only one who can cum that way. It was just a way of expressing my opposition to cringing at the idea of giving a BJ...a symbol of my enjoyment.
As for you and your future wife cumming from kissing. That doesn't surprise me at all. Take a peek at ed's blog on the touchless orgasm. Sex certainly is a wonderful joy.
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MikoFabulous said on Sep 23, 2006....
Cumming during foreplay . . .
After he handed me a towel I tiptoed to the bathroom and even though I was pretty drunk I remember washing myself off in the sink and looking at myself in the mirror and saying "That was disgusting!" I mean he just shot his stuff all over me, all the way up to my chin! And it's amazing because I never even caught a glimpse of his thing. I think I probably closed my eyes in "shock and awe" when I felt the cum hit me, like "This cannot be happening." You don't understand we had barely started going at it and it felt so icky because he seemed to really get something out of it. It was like non-consentual cumming.
BUT never a quitter, I pawed my way back to the bed . . . he had a spectacular apartment, comparable only to my own, and I love stuff like that. My boyfriends always make me pay for dinner and borrow money. When I perched myself back on the bed he was like a dead fish. You see I too had thought this might be his form of foreplay, that he cums once before sex to prolong the second cumming, or that cumming on a girl's body really turns him on FOR sex.
But NO, nope, nada. No response. He didn't even try to like cuddle me, he just laid there with his eyes open like he was waiting for an autopsy. After ten minutes of absolutely nothing, no talking, no touching (and yes, I promise he was still alive!) I popped up, slipped on my dress (didn't have to look for underwear, I was still wearing both tops and bottoms), I went and caught a cab home. I never heard from him again.
My ex told me that this is the new safe sex, that his friend had done the same thing to a chick in Vegas that he didn't want to contract anything from. Then he and I had sex to relieve my blue balls.
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Frlncwrtr said on Sep 23, 2006....
rarity: I posted the above comment to SW by mistake. Please disregard or delete it. Thanks!
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rarity121 said on Sep 24, 2006....
Miko, that sounds really funny and really awkward, I love it!
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Frlncwrtr said on Sep 27, 2006....
Sweetsoul:
Yes, it is wonderful! I looked at SW's blog and found that quite interesting. Thanks for pointing it out.
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