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Mystery Of Love

mr_right14 posted on Sep 22, 2006 | views: 491 | Tags: love, mystery, life, tears, Age, sadness, catagories, sacrifice, Happiness
  • It is mystery why we fall in love.
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  • It is a mystery why it happens.
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  • It is a mystery why some love grows and some love fails.
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  • If you find someone in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and knock at your door,
    • but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.
    Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
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  • If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself, there is nothing wrong with you...
    • love just didn't chose to rest in that person's heart...
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  • If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave,
    • do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go.
    There is a reason and there is a meaning.
    You will know in time.
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  • Remember that you don't choose love.
    • Love chooses you.
    All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
    Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
    Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
    Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
    Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.
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  • Remember this, and it to your heart.
    • Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going.
    You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.
    You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.
    But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you
    can do and there is nothing you should do.
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  • Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
    • Be glad it came to live for a moment in your life.

Mr_RiGhT


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  • chingform said on Sep 22, 2006....
    can love being built up? with sincere heart :)
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 22, 2006....
    Yup!
    Open your heart and you'll have it.
    Just like taking a deep breath.
    Sometimes love is knocking on our heart but we don't open ourselves.
    There are such times that a lover seeks out the attention of whom he/she loves but never had the chance to portray how much love he/she has.

    But love is still a mystery.
    It can bring happiness or misery.
    It depends on the individual on how he/she experienced love.

    Mr_RiGhT
  • bitterlove said on Sep 22, 2006....
    though it's sad, to just let it go when the time comes.

    I doubt I can do it.



    And i'm afraid.



    Cos I feel like my time is short.
  • sunsethue said on Sep 22, 2006....
    hey katorse... hopeless romantic ka pala... cute... now i have another name for you... mr_cupid... :-)

    anyway, love for me is just is... it can't be explained but when you are in love you just love... even if it is not returned... haaayyyyyy...
  • sunsethue said on Sep 22, 2006....
    hey shopgirl is better than bitterlove... don't we girls just love to shop? specially when we are stressed out, depressed or angry... hehehe

    just love... it's worth it girl... promise...
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 23, 2006....
    That's why I call it a mystery...
    Love can either bring sadness or hapiness.
    It will depend on the person receiving it and the person who does it.

    Everybody has their own definition of love.
    But, even collecting all these definitions from these individuals will never ever completely describe what love is.
    It's a magic!

    Love can just be love.
    A four letter word that has an infinite power to influence, a strong word that steers our emotions.
    Love is infinity
    That's why it can be eternal.

    But Love can also be hate and can also be eternal...

    bitterlove
    why bitter?

    Mr_RiGhT
  • sunsethue said on Sep 23, 2006....
    i do believe that love and hate go together... like yin and yang... you have the capacity to hate as much as you love... so be careful with your choices...

    always remember that love is good... it gives you a good feeling... but it also gives you pain... because feeling the pain makes you love more... that's what pain is for love... and love, on the other hand, can take away the pain... it's a yin-yang thing as i said earlier...

    so don't separate the love from the hurting... it's like a marriage kind of thing... accept it... embrace it... i promise you it's worth it... no matter how rough the ride...

    keep on loving...
  • MikoFabulous said on Sep 23, 2006....
    I'm a little put off by your poem, sorry. Love is a big deal, so as a poet you're taking on a important subject. I found the instructiveness of your poem intellectually offensive - not personally offensive, just offensive in that I don't necessarily think you have all the answers. You insist that "Love is a mystery" but your instructions and categories are clear! If love is truly a mystery then don't you think the situation is different in every case and yet at the same time universal - that is the mysterious nature of love. We each have our own unique situations and struggles and yet we relate to the simple feeling we call "love." I think your subject by subject generalizations are too didactic.

    I'm really not a hater. I'm only being honest because I'm assuming that you take this seriously and want to know what someone really thinks even if they don't like what you write.
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 23, 2006....
    It's nice to hear that LOVE is a big deal for you.
    As from what you're saying, Yes I really missed the other part of it being a mystery.
    I've already figure it out and I'm doing the second half.

    As you can see, I insist that love is universal.
    See also my comments.
    It differs on every individual.
    How they define it and how they experienced it.

    Yes, my poem is much more on a single side.
    Like water, it can be in any form.
    On my post it's much more like of a water that comes from a serene fountain.

    Wait for the next part...
    Thanks for the elaboration.
    This just mean how complicated LOVE is.
    That's is the mystery of love I'm saying.
    Too complex, varying, and unpredictable.

    You may help me do the second part...

    Mr_RiGhT
  • sunsethue said on Sep 23, 2006....
    hey miko... cool down girl... mr_right is just like love... he is what he is... you don't have to be offended because a poem is a personal thing... it is how he sees it... it doesn't have to jibe with your understanding of what love is... i myself don't agree with him a hundred percent but i respect his opinion... i still like him as he is...

    you just love your neighbor as you love yourself... and mr_right is your neighbor, too... :-)...

    and for anybody to really understand love we have to experience it... live it... give it... luv yah mr_right... no malice here... hehehe

    i love you all... peace!
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 23, 2006....
    Thanks sunset but I've already planned it.
    Upon posting this poem, I've figured out what if I make two sides of the poem?
    First is this one and another will be on the opposite side.
    Love that is morely associated with hate.
    A hate that becomes Love.
    Love that becomes hate.
    I thought it was nicer to have separate posts.

    Miko's comment is what I actually expect and waiting for it.
    Coz if no one has commented about it, then there's no need to post the other half right?

    Mr_RiGhT
  • sunsethue said on Sep 23, 2006....
    hey katorse... do you know why my posts "dollars vs. pesos" and "how many here are filipinos?" were deleted from the list of posts?

    grabe... ang sama ng loob ko because the post "dollars vs. pesos" is a request for prayer for me and my family... ang cruel naman... kakalungkot.
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 23, 2006....
    I've commented on it na nga on you recent post.
    ALIENated alos had a comment about that.

    I dunno?
    Even mine were deleted.
    I don't even have the idea how the posts are featured, what are the requirements?
    What I know, there must be numbers of views and comments.
    But how come they were deleted right?
    Though its still active on your blog but no longer featured.

    Mr_RiGhT
  • asKimiNaRut said on Sep 23, 2006....
    I do agree with miko...
    But, I also believe that this poem is genuine - it's from your heart..

    BTW..I'm visiting you today
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 23, 2006....
    Thanks for the visit!

    I do also agree with Miko.
    I wouldn't contradict what he says.
    We all know that Love differs among us.
    We're both humans but we don't have exactly the same genes or DNA.
    We both know love but we had different experiences of it.

    Thanks for having your opinion.
    I appreciate your thoughts and somehow I'd share something for you.
    Thanks!

    Mr_RiGhT
  • mrs.norris said on Sep 24, 2006....
    hey mr._right! tnx 4 putting me on your list.
    but isn't love considered sacrifice also? and if it is a sacrifice doesn't it also mean that even if you do not get loved in return or maybe not loved enough, you accept it because true love is unconditional?
    take God's love for example. we humans are imperfect and give Him unperfect love. doesn't He still love us?
    also the love that parents give for their children. children may lie, cheat and hurt their parents feeling but parents still love them.
    just a little insight. because talking about love doesn't mean it has to be the romantic kind right?
    :)
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 24, 2006....
    Yup exactly.
    Sacrifice is the hardest form of love.
    Hard to let go.
    Hard to accept.

    Even unperfect love they say is the most perfect of all.
    Like what Miko said, Love is universal.
    So I say, Love has many forms.

    I'd like to share this:
    Have you wonder that hate can be love?
    Starting from hatred and yet it blooms into a perfect love.

    Mr_RiGhT
  • elia_ann said on Sep 25, 2006....
    Yes, Love can bring happiness or sadness.
    Like what mrs.norris said love brings sacrifices too.
    If you love someone you need to sacrifice a lot. Love can make people sacrifice whatever they liked just because the partner does not like it.
    Love is also blind where age does not matter.
    Like the recent news of the famous singer who is in her 20's marrying someone who is in his 40's. He's about the same age of her father for God sake!! Like I said, Love is blind!!
    I'm paying you a visit today....!
  • elia_ann said on Sep 25, 2006....
    Yes, Love can bring happiness or sadness.
    Like what mrs.norris said love brings sacrifices too.
    If you love someone you need to sacrifice a lot. Love can make people sacrifice whatever they liked just because the partner does not like it.
    Love is also blind where age does not matter.
    Like the recent news of the famous singer who is in her 20's marrying someone who is in his 40's. He's about the same age of her father for God sake!! Like I said, Love is blind!!
    I'm paying you a visit today....!
  • mr_right14 said on Sep 26, 2006....
    Thanks for the visit elia ann!

    Yeah Love is Blind...
    Another Mystery of Love.

    Mr_RiGhT
  • anonymous said on Sep 27, 2006....
    love is no mystrey.It is a natural feeling of the human heart.There is always some one waiting for you some where.It depends on you how you take him or her.
  • mr_right14 said on Oct 19, 2006....

    yup...it's your opinion.

    I respect that.

    But I agree that it's a natural feeling of a human.

    I appreciate your comment.

    I guess you're a great lover.

    Co'z you really feel what love is.

    Good luck to your love life!

    Thanks for the visit anonymous!

     

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