• mixednuts said on Sep 06, 2009....

  Reading this brought tears 2 my eyes! ;o{

• simplyconfused said on Sep 06, 2009....

  =(  I'll be okay ^_^ ha ha =p

• mixednuts said on Sep 06, 2009....

  Time is on both of your sides.

• raindove said on Sep 07, 2009....

  i am so sorry, its easier to leave a person when you despise him. i know its really difficult otherwise. however i am happy that you took the decision, very brave of you. you will be fine trust me. you are such a nice person to let him go even though its hard since its the best for both of you. most of us are so selfish, we hang on as its easier, we are scared to let go, at times we are scared of loneliness etc.
  the right thing may not always be the easiest thing to do. but girl you did it, you are going to find your way eventually. someday you will look back and will be glad and proud of yourself. till then take care. {{{{{{hugssssssssssss}}}}}}
  

• mixednuts said on Sep 07, 2009....

  Did you give up blogging on SC?

• simplyconfused said on Sep 07, 2009....

  Thank you raindove for your kind kind words. ^_^  I know that eventually I will be okay and proud of myself.  I just didn't want to risk our relationship as friends you know?  So long as I never completely lose him from my life it's totally okay. =)
  
  
  mixed- Nope!  Just waking up and it's 2:17PM! =D

• mixednuts said on Sep 07, 2009....

  THANK GOD you will still be here!

• nekros said on Sep 07, 2009....

  What you need most is a bun in your oven. I can make it happen.

• simplyconfused said on Sep 07, 2009....

  mixed - Don't worry I'm never to leave this place! ha ha =p
  
  
  nekros - No.. I do not need a bun in my oven thank you very much.... kind offer though?.. unless your saying that in literal terms XD

• Misty_Eyed said on Sep 07, 2009....

  it sounds like you did a brave thing that needed to be done, and it's probably for the best for you as well as for him (even though it's so painful for both of you right now). it's still possible that the friendship will be strained, and maybe even broken off at some point. or that on the other hand, you might start to slip back into your old dating relationship, or a new and somewhat improved one...But no matter what happens, I'm sure you will get through it and come out of it stronger. I think it's amazing that you recognize what you really need, personally, and are standing up for it. that's not an easy thing to do, but it's so important. my heart goes out to you. and haahaha, you set Nekros straight (but still in such a sweet way).

• mixednuts said on Sep 07, 2009....

  nekrogross?

• simplyconfused said on Sep 07, 2009....

  misty-  I did feel pretty damn brave!  I don't think we can just jump up and be friends RIGHT away.  However I have stayed friends with a lot of my ex's.  This time is rather different, but I really hope that at some point we can get be really good friends.  We've grown so much together, and know sooo much about each other. I don't think we could just throw all of that away.  Thank you ^_^  ... bhahah possibly a good talent to set someone straight but still in a nice way =p
  
  
  
  

• pusscat said on Sep 07, 2009....

  It is always hard when a break up happens.  i didn't used to a few years ago but, as things have happened to me over the past couple of years I totally believe that everything happens for a reason.  As you said, you both learned so much about each other and yourselves.  It is all part of the lessons of life.  I do hope your friendship continues hun.  Take care.

• simplyconfused said on Sep 07, 2009....

  Thank you pusscat. ^_^  It means a lot.  I to believe that everything happens for a reason!

• CreativeWoman said on Sep 07, 2009....

  I hope everything turns out well for you.
  
  CW
  

• simplyconfused said on Sep 07, 2009....

  Thank you CW ^_^

• Hegemone said on Sep 07, 2009....

  Well Simply I'm glad you did what was best for the both of you, it sounds like you're both two very smart individuals.  I love that you have the outlook that maybe in the future things can be different, but for now you need to change things.  That's great and I think you'll both reap the benefits 100 fold.  Good for you, although I'm sorry you have to be a little sad.  Sorry I've been MIA this weekend also, it's been grueling here.  I'm still here for ya though.  (((HUGS))))

• simplyconfused said on Sep 08, 2009....

  ^_^  I do like to think that we are rather smart.  That we are able to let go when we shouldn't keep holding on.  We will only get stronger from this, the wounds will heal in time. ^_^
  **Hugggzzzzzzzzzzz**

• the.food.critic said on Sep 12, 2009....

  Sometimes people think theyre the only ones being treated a certain way by life, where in reality countless people might be experiencing a similar, if not the same feeling. I recently broke up with my girl, because she said she needs time to figure out if she loves me enough. The very nature of those words make it the hardest thing to adhere to even today, but I love her, and feel like standing by her even though she seems to be doing all the wrong things in her life today. So I feel my heart break everyday I dont see her smile that smile which she had with me, and everyday I pick up the pieces and wait for her to stop doing it the next day. But you are brave to have found what many refuse to expect, sometimes letting go is the best thing to do, even if it is the hardest. Hope you find your life falling back together soon.

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