Here let me explain more.  Tonight my BF's band has their first bigger gig and I'm going along.  A few other bands are playing and after they play they just get to listen to the others and hand out and such.  My BF told me today that he has some friends coming so he's going to have to 'entertain' them and such.  Basically if I tried to talk to him, or be around him I'm going to get ignored.  Now I don't want a heart to heart or anything!  I just want to be around him and have some attention.  The last time I seen him was Monday..   I understand that he has people he has to talk to, and pay attention to.. but is it wrong for me to still want more attention than what I'm going to get?  Is it wrong that as his GF I think I should get a little bit more attention than his other friends?  *sigh*