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Just met my dear friend last week. She finally quit her job to be a housewife early this year as ORDERED by her crazy husband.

She is one lady that I take my hat up to her bcos she will always be able to make herself comfy and happy in whatever situation. She enjoyed being a housewife, get to see her kids and help them with studies more often , mix well with her neghbours. she even help in baby sitting. But.... no sex . Separate room. Hubby started wearing her bra, applying lipstick and foundation. He even ask my friend to do a plastic surgery and remove her breast.

But this new found happiness ended when her crazy started bugging her again. He ORDERED her to stop working bcos she is earning more than him. Worst, he keeps all her salary. Yet he have the guts to complain. He is jobless, yet he can buy expensive cars, clothes everyday, big cinema screen for his own pleasure, does manicure pedicure,even color his grey hair . Today, he ORDERED her to work again. Now she is back to work. With her good nature and good education, she managed to get a high paid job again. Phew

Good news is, she has awaken from his spell. She keeps all the salary now.
Hooray for her. Although they are living in the same house, but they are no longer husband and wife. Sad........ used to be the most admire happy family but today, it is a broken family.

My brother is a houseman taking care of 2 kids while his wife iworks as a warden for 25 years and she is holding a very high position today. And they are happy.

Guys, what do you think if you are to be a houseman and your wife the breadwinner since she is earning more.


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  • secretlife said on Sep 21, 2006....
    We still don't see it as often as I thought we would by 2006 in this country. My brother in law is a stay at home dad. I think he does a great job and is happy with the choice.
  • anime28 said on Sep 21, 2006....
    You are right, SL as long as both parties are happy, its fine. Guys who are the egoistic type and have leadership in them , they cannot accept this. Guys like that normally are bussinessman, and they can earn. But my friend's husband , he has been given many opportunities in his field of work, but he always fail. Sacked 4 times over 15 years of marriage . Since he cannot earn, let the wife earn. Wife is super efficient, gd attitude, helpful, friendly , sociable too. Today's research, in China, most ladies are earning more than the man . Seems like this is the trend now.

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