• Hegemone said on Aug 24, 2009....

  Well, I find that love and sexuality are two totally separate things that happen to intermingle in a wonderful way.  To me, sexuality bases a lot more on the physical and maybe a little on the mental.  Love bases on a little bit of everything, a fine, rich mixture that balances out everywhere in the long run.  It's a fine line though, and I think that line is at a different place for everybody.

• Freedom♥ said on Aug 24, 2009....

  i always thought I did it because 1) of course, it feels good and 2) I love him, but it seems like you don't have to love somebody.. I don't know.

• UnicornForm said on Aug 24, 2009....

  if it feels like love and they show they love you.
   
  doing stuff with anyone else is just releiff of tension and a workout...LOL
   
  but seriously... if its not love than its not a good feeling after or maybe during.

• gingersoul said on Aug 24, 2009....

  Freedom......see, the act of sex is exactly the same between two people who love each other and two people who don't love each other but want just to have fun or experiment or simply stay connected using sex or want to look cool and and play the game...
  
  Sex is the use of your body in order to make it feel good, relaxed, and accepted. In most cases. In many other case sex is a weapon, a tool, a way to achieve something like popularity, attention. Its done with superficiality, without even passion, just because everybody else is doing it....like a game.....So sad...
  
  Sex is good, natural, and need to be done without any sense of guilt because it makes you feel so good.
  Love is what intensifies the act of having sex.
  
  A kiss is a kiss but when you kiss somebody loving him that same kiss is so much better.
  
  Yes, at the end love doesn't need sex to express itself. Sex doesn't need love to express itself. But when love and sex are united and felt as one at the same time by the person who shares with you the same intensity ...then....that is perfection.
  
  You and your bf might be doing technically the same things other couple do without being in love.....but if you are doing it with love and respect and tenderness ...your sex will always be different and in many cases better.
  
  
  

• WithoutShade said on Aug 25, 2009....

  I agree with ginger. Sex is an action, a fun one, but an action. It is love that truly brings a connection with your partner and makes it a thousands times better.
  

• 007Hardone said on Aug 28, 2009....

  I do not think it is wrong to want someone sexually. In fact it's a very natural emotion or feeling. I do the same at times. Does love come before the sexual attraction or does the sexual attraction come before the love? Sex for the sake of sex is only short time relief. When the strings of feeings, emotion, caring, etc develop then the relationship grows.

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