Whenever you are in a relationship during high school, a serious relationship, you think about what happens after you both graduate.
I was thinking about this yesterday, and I realized that it doesn't look so hot. After high school is when my boyfriend and I are supposed to live together and be together more than we are now. But, my dream for the future is to go to a good university, perhaps on a scholarship, and become a pharmacist. Something that makes me money and takes me away from the financial strain I have at the moment. But my boyfriend is in a band, and plans to be going on tour after high school. These two dreams don't mix at all..
He's always going to be gone, having fun, partying, and I will be going to university, working a few jobs, studying, and not having a whole lot of fun as I will be missing him the whole time.
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Freedom♥ posted on Aug 11, 2009
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gingersoul said on Aug 11, 2009....
Freedom.....i don't see why you have to sacrifice your dreams to follow his...If he wants to have fun playing music...well......its his life.....if he wants to do...do it..But you have your own plans so why should you put them aside to go after his?I say that both of you are too young to limit each other future.....If things are destined to happen between you two they will happen.....otherwise.......new people and new plans will show at your door...:-) -
queenparanoia said on Aug 11, 2009....
how about if you guys compromise? talk to each other and maybe you can find soemthing in the middle... like you could live together while he goes to his band and you can study at the university.if that doesnt work out then maybe you both follow your dreams seperately. i know it's hard doing it together but whatever works for the both of you... and whatever decision you make just makesure you wont regret it in the end... so think about it carefully... -
Hegemone said on Aug 11, 2009....
Well, you've got options here at least. People have made relationships like that work. If you really care about one another, and you really think you have something, you can compromise between the two of you and make things work. If you just don't think the two of you fit anymore, don't deny yourself that, take care of it right away. That way you can be free to fulfill your dreams, he can fulfill his, and neither of you will leave the relationship with a bad taste in your mouth. You've got a lot of room to move here, and a lot of different directions, so explore the possibilities and be honest with yourself and each other. -
UnicornForm said on Aug 18, 2009....
Dont let no live doosh control your dreams,, if he loves u hell follow. if nnot, theres someone beter out there.
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