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Taken from Robert Fulghum's All I Need To Know, I Learned in Kindergarten.

--- because I feel we need to be reminded of the simple stuff we can do to be greater ---

All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.

These are the things I learned:

  • Share everything.
  • Play fair.
  • Don't hit people.
  • Put things back where you found them.
  • Clean up your own mess.
  • Don't take things that aren't yours.
  • Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
  • Wash your hands before you eat.
  • Flush.
  • Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
  • Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
  • Take a nap every afternoon.
  • When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
  • Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
  • Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
  • And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.
Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk at about 3 o'clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.

----

Ever since I read this back when I was still in high school, holding hands weren't the same anymore. Held hands meant companionship. Held hands meant a cemented bond between the two hand-owners.

When was the last time you held hands with somebody you care deeply for?

I hope even reallyhappilymarriedlongtermloves are still holding hands. Even when your hands are all gnarled and wrinkly. ;)


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  • silverwhisper said on Sep 18, 2006....
    last night. :>

    ed
  • anarchist said on Sep 18, 2006....
    YAY! THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR THE WORLD!
  • Jenna said on Sep 18, 2006....
    Last thursday night....holding hands, coupled with looking into each others eyes can speak volumns.
  • anarchist said on Sep 18, 2006....
    Jenna, MAAAN. I want one of those! :) Glad for you.
  • Alyss said on Sep 19, 2006....
    This morning, holding my children's hands as I took them to school.
  • scalywag said on Sep 19, 2006....
    I think the last time was in the car, I was driving. I'll grasp her hand for short periods of time then let go.

    I wish she'd let me do it more.....but we compromise there.
  • anarchist said on Sep 19, 2006....
    Alyss, I always felt a distinct sense of accomplishment and lightness whenever I hold my nieces' and nephews' hands.
  • anarchist said on Sep 19, 2006....
    scalywag, she lets you hold your hand more.

    nothing can compare to the feeling of being cared for. :)

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