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All right, I'm going to do this as quickly as possible I guess because it's getting late and I need to get in bed.  To give my husband relief I chose to stay in the den to finish all of my computer tasks that I fell behind in, as opposed to going into the bedroom as I usually would.

He came home from work complaining of a sore neck.  Then he told me that apparently today he had been moving from one area to another and caught some asphalt with the deck of the mower and it brought him to a dead stop, thus throwing him forward.  If he had not been buckled he'd have probably gone off the damn thing.  At first he was fine, but as he was driving home his neck began hurting and getting worse by the minutes.  Ice didn't help, nor did much else.  So he called his supervisor and we got to go on a fun little trip to the ER.

That took about forever.  The whole time he's in agonizing pain and they're taking their sweet time.  So anyway, hours later, x-rays later and much pain later, he was finally seen, examined and given meds and a doctor's note for tomorrow and Saturday if needed.  If he still has pain Monday he's supposed to go to our doctor and get checked out further.  He's on loopy drugs at this point, and conked out completely.  So really I probably don't need to worry about waking him, but I'm just staying on the safe side.

So the things we were planning to do tonight did not get done, he won't be going to work tomorrow aside from turning in papers from today and getting his paycheck, and I realized that this week and next are going to be a bit of an ouch.  You see, he missed a lot of work this week (half of Tuesday, all of Wednesday, part of today for a doctor appointment about his cold, and then he'll miss tomorrow).  I'll be off Wednesday, Thursday and Friday next week.  So yes, that's going to be a bit of an ouch.  Right, because that's what we really need.

Then, what really pissed me off was that we were at the ER and I had stepped outside to make a couple of phone calls while he was being x-rayed.  I talked to my FIL first and got off the phone. Then I called my SIL because she had called me to offer up some tickets she had that they couldn't use.  Well with his neck being hurt we're not going to the damn drag races tomorrow, beyond that, he's not even over his cold.  So anyway, I told her that we were at the ER and she was somewhat flippant about that until she realized he was actually hurt, and then when I told her about the fifteenth she got all quiet.  Then she texts me later in the night and asked if she did something to piss us off because it seems neither of us want anything to do with her.  Was it REALLY the time to be worrying about that?  Could she not have waited?  I have not heard back from her ever since I responded with 'We've just been busy with our OWN lives and haven't had much down time.'

Oh and then another good one, my MIL had the audacity to call my husband and ask him if he could move a stationary bike that was in the back of her jeep.  Fuck no lady!  Your son was in the ER because he has a neck injury (cervical strain, by the way) and he does not need to be doing extra shit.  She knew he was in the ER because he hurt his neck, so it shouldn't have mattered that she didn't know exactly what was wrong.  Stupid fucking family I swear.

ARGH.  Then to really piss me off my dad was being all over-analytical about everything.  He wanted to know if the doc explained to him what the cervical muscle was (no), why they didn't explain it (I have no clue, because they're dumb?), if they gave him any restrictions (don't work and get rest), what drugs he's on, and if we're going to read all the paperwork on them.  Back off dude we JUST got home and it's late.  Fuck.

I'm hearing weird shit outside, animals and also what sounded like a car stopping and car doors (I will hurt people), better go investigate.  Good night.  Harumf!  Call me Hegemoner Scrooge for tonight.


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  • simplyconfused said on Aug 07, 2009....
    Wow, what a list of events!  It seems as though the universe is playing a cruel cruel game with you!  You've had some good days and such now this!  *sigh*  I guess that's just how it goes.  Your in laws... um, I wonder how it is their brains function?  I'm going to say they need a slap in the face with a fish.  Might knock some sense into them.  Then your dad.. I don't see why he's acting all professional as if he was a now retired doctor.  That's what it seems like to me, he was a doctor and wants to see if the now current ones are doing the job right.  Good god.

    Good night Hegemoner Scrooge.  Hopefully you at least have pleasant dreams of... lollipops, unicorns, and rainbows! ^_^
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 07, 2009....
    That was quite a night, Hege.  I hope that your husband is feeling better and that you are less stressed.

    Your in-laws sound like the type that hear what you say, but don't actually listen.

    (((((Hugs))))

    CW
  • uniquely-ironic said on Aug 07, 2009....
    My sympathies to your hubby.  I'm sure his neck is very painful.  I'm glad he was buckled in!  No telling what would have happened if he wasn't.  Maybe you just need to put a ban on family communications until he's feeling better.  It sounds just too stressful to have to deal with them.
  • queenparanoia said on Aug 07, 2009....
    wtf is wrong with your family??? on both sides??? seriously????
     
    your husband is hurt don't they realize that???
     
    well i hope he's better now and i hope you feel better now that you rant it out in here....
  • Hegemone said on Aug 07, 2009....
    Simply - Yes, my in laws could certainly be smacked in the face with a few things, that's for sure.  Make sure to dip those fish in broken glass first.  As far as my dad, yeah he thinks he's got some kind of authority and right to ask just because my grandma was a nurse.  It is totally annoying.  At least I got some sleep though.

    CW - I'm hoping he's feeling better too, don't really know because we went home, he went to bed, and then I got up to leave for work and he was still in bed.  You've got my family in law dead on ... they make it appear that they are listening when in reality they're just running through their own speech.

    Uni - Yes I'm thinking there is going to be a definite ban on communications anytime anything happens with either of us, and then when they wonder why they'll have it politely explained to them how they act like a bunch of inappropriate, inconsiderate fools.

    Queenie - Heh, I wondered the same thing Queenie.  I was so dumbfounded and shocked at the way they were all behaving.  Thanks for stopping in.  :-)
  • travelr712 said on Aug 07, 2009....
    well, at least it didn't take actually forever or you'd still be there, right?
  • Hegemone said on Aug 07, 2009....
    Trav - True, very true.
  • MsStar39 said on Aug 07, 2009....
    I hate going to ER's, sorry about that, a l;ot of pain there with that kind of injury.
    He does not need any stress from his family .
    Well Hege you  take very good care of him, he is going to need a lot of TLC.
  • Hegemone said on Aug 07, 2009....
    MsStar - Yes, and luckily he's doing quite well now, and we're being left alone.
  • JusticeForAll said on Aug 12, 2009....
    I hate emergency rooms...and my husband's family is the same way. I'm going through treatment for cancer and they are pissed at me because I quit my babysitting job! STUPID FAMILIES AND DOCTORS!

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