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Yesterday, I was driving back from hanging out with a buddy of mine that lives down in the city.  We've been friends since we were in highschool and he's one of two friends that I have that I'm still very close to since then.  He became my lab partner in science class Freshman year and we've maintained a very close friendship over the last 20 years.  He moved away for a while and lived in San Francisco for a few years, but he came back to the Chicagoland area and there were periods when we didn't hang out or speak to each other with much regularity, but like I always say, a mark of a good friendship is that we picked up right where we left off no matter how long it's been since we've spoken to each other. 

Now that he lives in the city, we try to hang out at least a few times a month.  It's not easy to coordinate the schedules together, him being a working man and living in the city, and me being a general lazybones and living in the suburbs, but he is one of the few people that I will go out of my way to spend time with, since he is one of my closest friends. 

On my way down, I saw a guy doing a wheelie on a motorcycle on the highway.  He was just getting on the on-ramp, and as he was speeding up, he lifted up his front wheel and disappeared into traffic.  There were a lot of cars on the road while I was driving, so it probably wasn't the safest thing to do, but it was a cool thing to see.  I also saw a firetruck with the lights on and the sirens blaring behind me, stuck in highway traffic.  Cars were trying to move over to let the firetruck pass, but where are the cars going to go in the middle of gridlock traffic?  Some had to move over to the shoulder to let the firetruck pass. 

Then, a little ways down, I saw the firetruck stopped in the middle of the highway and there was a car on fire on the side of the road.  I mean, smoke was pouring out of the car.  Next to the car was a guy with his hands on his head, a look of utter disbelief etched on his face.  He looked absolutely crushed.  I felt bad for him, but I have to admit, I was glad I wasn't him and stifled a chuckle as I inched passed him crawling at 15 miles per hour. 

When I got down to my buddy's place, we walked to this Thai restaurant and grabbed a meal and just hung out at his place watching baseball.  Nothing exciting, but enjoyable nonetheless.  It was a pretty relaxing evening.  But seeing as how he had to work the next day, I decided not to make it a late one and headed back to the burbs around 7pm. 

As I was driving home, I was on the highway and listening to music.  A song came on the radio that made me think of someone very specific.  Someone very near and dear to me.  I remembered the beautiful time we spent together, and I imagined her sitting next to me in the car.  The sun was in my face and I pulled the visor down to cover the sun from my eyes and I also pulled the visor down on the passenger side of the seat so that the person that I imagined sitting next to me wouldn't get sun in her eyes. 

Silly, no?  :)

I wondered what the person driving behind me would have thought to see me pull down the visor on the passenger seat with no one sitting there.  Probably though I was crazy or something. 

That is all for today. 

Thanks for stopping in to take a peek at this slice of life.  :)

-Grape-



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  • uniquely-ironic said on Aug 03, 2009....
    Sentimental, absolutely!  Foolish, maybe ..... but being a fool for love is worth it. :)
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 03, 2009....

    uni:  To be honest, I did feel a little silly after I pulled the visor down on the passenger seat, but only after I did it.  When I first thought about it, it seemed like the natural thing to do. 

    And yes...  I am a fool for love.  Have been for a while now, and it was never something that I tried to hide or anything.  :)

  • Hegemone said on Aug 03, 2009....
    Well sounds like a wonderful friendship you have there, and further, an interesting commute to go meet with him.  Nothing dull about that for sure.  Sentimentality can feel great when we let it compliment us in the right way, and it sounds as if you definitely did.  Heh, your pulling down the other sun visor might have been seen as silly ... or might have been logical, thinking that perhaps the sun was coming at you from that direction and you were just pulling that one down to block it out (I've done that before, te he).  But hey, don't let any amount of feeling silly let you stop pulling that visor down.  :-)
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 03, 2009....

    Hege:  The sun was to my left.  There was absolutely no reason, asides from me being a silly, sentimental sod, to pull the visor on the passenger side down.  :)

    Though when I was doing it, I thought it perfectly reasonable, a gentlemanly thing to do.  :D

  • wombat said on Aug 03, 2009....

    Sounds like a good life, with a good friend and good "near and dear" relationship.  I didn't catch if this person is missing in your life for now, but that was definitly the sweetest, most romantic thing I've heard in awhile!

    Commented before I listened to the song, but I'm hopping back up there for that.  Haven't heard the "big band" music for awhile.

  • wombat said on Aug 03, 2009....
    Cool music!  Wanna Fox Trot a bit?
  • JadeLondon said on Aug 03, 2009....
    I don't find you a fool at all. I think you've learned a secret to life from which we could all glean. I appreciate your ability to find beauty in simplicity.
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 03, 2009....
    wombie:  Well...  Seeing as how Ginger is all the way down in TX and I'm all the way up here in IL, a good portion of my days are spent daydreaming, imagining, wishing, longing and the sort.  :)
     
    I'm a big fan of big band.  I'm ready to cut the rug any time you wish, though I have to warn you, I'm all left feet. 
     
    Jade:  Thank you for your kind words.  I've often found that there is much complexity that lie beneath the most simple, you know?  It adds much to the beauty, I think. 
  • wombat said on Aug 03, 2009....
    Hey, that's cool!  I wouldn't dream of stealing a dance from you guys!  I'll grab the hubby and we can trot along side!
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 03, 2009....
    wombie:  It's a date!  :)
     
    Perhaps we can get Jade to join us, too.  Let me just run this by my lady and we'll work out the details.  :D
  • gingersoul said on Aug 03, 2009....

    Something like this sun?

    It would have been a pain even if you were wearing shades.....:-)
  • hotaka said on Aug 04, 2009....
    Exactly a slice of life. A few things happening. Stuff we might see during our days too. Liked the part about putting the visor down. Don't like motorcycle riders who drive dangerously. They say motorcycles have more accidents than cars, but if you see how many of them ride in traffic it's no surprise.

    Ginger, I love that song. It's the best nuclear holocaust song I have ever heard.
  • diabolicdame said on Aug 04, 2009....

    Aw.. that is sweet.. not foolish at all! A lot of life is make believe.. like when you're kissing someone goodnight on the phone.. you're actually just kissing your phone.. hehe.. but this stuff warms the heart.. fills colour in our lives.. it not foolish at all. 

  • GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 04, 2009....

    amore:  The video you put up reminded me of the drive I took back from your place.  A few hours outside of St. Louis, the sun came up right in my face.  Very similar to the video.  Made me miss you that much more...  :(

    The sun rising in your face and the sun setting in your face is two totally different experience, though. 

    hotaka:  Being an ex-biker (my bike doesn't run anymore...  I know...  Sad....), I know all about the dangers and the accompanying thrills of riding a bike.  Especially when I lived in the city, I remember weaving in and out of traffic, parking aywhere with impunity...  Couldn't do a wheelie on my bike though...  She was too old.  :)

    Glad you stopped in to take a peek. 

    ddame:  LOL.  You just admitted that you kiss your phone.  :P

    Fills colour in our lives...  That's a nice way of putting it.  Had kind of a poetry to it.  Thanks for not thinking me such a fool, though I'll readily admit that I am a fool for love.  Enflamed greatly by passion, one could say.  :)

  • Alyss said on Aug 06, 2009....
    I am smiling for you grape. I often find myself imagining a conversation with ET when I'm in the car.

    Only 8 more days and then I can pull down the sun visor knowing he is sat beside me in the car. =)

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