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I see the light. It's cheerful and it beckons me to hurry to it. I have finished writing Dad's book. It took about 13 months and should be printed and ready to hand over in about 3 weeks. I feel relieved to be almost done but worried it won't be soon enough. Dad is failing and I don't know if I will be able to give this to him while he can still be excited. I can't work any faster, so it is in God's hands. I know that if I was given enough time I would be rewriting and changing things forever and so I worry that there will be too many errors, but right now, the important thing is to just get it in print. I have one more read through and then adding the photos I have collected. I am putting a lot of pictures in the book to make it the true memoir it is meant to be. Something to be passed down for generations. I have found a quick turn around printer and I am on the home stretch. It's a good feeling.

 Husband is still in limbo about health issues but is hanging in there. We are being positive and hoping for the best. I'm having him help format the book, keeping him busy!! Seriously, he keeps himself pretty busy already but I think it is good to involve hiim. I'm trying to take care of myself as much as time allows. I've been walking every morning and attending yoga once a week. I snuck in a pedicure last weekend and even went off to a silly movie today by myself. I had been having a little battle with insomnia and anxiety and I thought I better remember I'm human too. Women are so awful at that.

 I hope you are all having a wonderful summer, enjoying the longer days and sunshine. Thanks for being here!

woman



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  • gingersoul said on Aug 01, 2009....
    Woman....oh, i am so happy you had finished your book. And i really hope your dad will be able to read it.

    Such a wonderful, loving gesture...

    In the meantime, did you consider handing him the hard copy of it?......I am sure he wouldn't care reading the raw story....

    I wish you peace. {hugs}

  • woman said on Aug 01, 2009....
    Thank you Ginger. You are always such a sweetheart. I am pleased I was able to do this and proud of myself for finishing it. My father was worth all of the time. He is such a beautiful person. Thank you for the peace. It's something I strive for. A nice balance of adventure and peace within myself. I will wish the same for you.
  • Hegemone said on Aug 01, 2009....
    Oh that's so fantastic to hear you're finally at this stage with the book!  I hope that the timing works out well for you.  Also, nice to see that you're keeping your husband busy, I'm sure that makes it easier on both of you.  Heh, and yeah, sometimes it helps to come back down to earth and remember that you're human and you gotta act like it sometimes, lol.
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 02, 2009....
    woman, I am so happy to see you've completed the book.  What a gift of love for your dad. :-)

    I hope your husband gets good news about his health.  I know how that is a worry even when you try to remain positive.

    Do take care of yourself.  You are a very special lady!

    CW
  • woman said on Aug 02, 2009....
    Hegemone~It IS pretty fantastic. Home stretch is a much better place to be. And yes. Remembering I'm human and I need to take care of me too is not easy.Thanks.
  • woman said on Aug 02, 2009....

    CW~Hello there. ALMOST completed. It is a gift of love and something to help his spirit live on. There really can't be good news about the hubby. Just some news is worse than others. He's hanging in there though.

    We are taking the curly haired grand daughter to a kiddie amusement park today while some of the older ones hit Cedar Point. It's going to be a great day!

  • quietone said on Aug 02, 2009....
    wow, woman, give yourself some credit here.  You have been very busy in the last 13 months by the sounds.  I am glad to hear that you have taken time for yourself as well, that is important for sure.  You and your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers.  {{hugs}}. 
  • woman said on Aug 02, 2009....
    Hi Quiet.Yep. Busier than I like but that's life, isn't it? I will give myself credit for sticking to it. How's that? Thank you for your hugs, thoughts, and prayers. Hugs back!
  • travelr712 said on Aug 02, 2009....
    sorry about father and hubbie's health problems :-(
     
    all writers know that they never really finish what they wrote, they just come to a point where they have to stop rewriting it. the rest is up to a good editor. i don't want to sound cruel or harsh, because i know it would mean allot to your father to see it, but that really doesn't matter all that much. what matters is that someone cared enough about him to actually put the time and effort into capturing a part of his life in written pages so others can see it in the future. i'll tell you something else. i've seen probably a hundred documentaries on the history channel and the discovery channel that are either made from, or reference, books just like yours, because they are an accurate historical record of events from an individual that participated in those events, and that is invaluable!
     
    good on ya woman :-)
  • woman said on Aug 02, 2009....
    Hi Trav. You are dead on when you say we will just keep rewriting and rewriting. I can't though and I can't afford the time to really have a good editor take over. So, it will be what it is. Fingers crossed hoping for the best. I know if my father doesn't get to see it, it still enriched his life but I can't help but hope.
  • Eagle3 said on Aug 07, 2009....
    Hope maybe you will post an excerpt from the book for us to read?
     
    Sometimes an story can be destroyed from trying to write and rewrite it until all the raw energy of the original story is gone!
     
    I agree with gingersoul, give him an advance reading of it, by the author herself!
    that would be something you both would never forget!
     
    Hope your hubby gets better also!
     
    All of you will be in my prayers.....
     
    "Eagle"

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