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So I've been working my notice at work.

Basically these people I work don't respect me, and have been giving me loads of shit.

So I was getting my usual by-daily yelling at and I just flipped. "I don't give  a shit you sad old scouse bitch. You don't fucking respect me. You don't know how the fuck to run a pub, you don't listen to me, you don't respect me, you can't do your job properly, that's why you lose so many chefs", then she got her huspand to come and yell at me. So I yelled at him too. I don't give a flying fuck about these people or this place.

Then I got fired.

But it doesn't matter, I wanted to get fired.

It was like being 8 years old, punching that school playground bully to the floor and kicking him unconcious. The suddenly flipping and standing up for yourself.

Sadly I've got two days of doing sweet fuck all before my holdiay now.



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  • Hegemone said on Jul 30, 2009....
    Well, yeah it sounds like that was worth it.  Sometimes having a really good 'Fuck Off!' moment can be a savior, and it can reach far beyond the immediate scenario it was as well.  Feeling better now?
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jul 30, 2009....
    In this case you were free to speak your mind.  You had another job lined up.  I hate bullies.  They pick on those who cannot or will not defend themselves.  I'm glad you gave these two something to think about.
  • seer said on Jul 30, 2009....

    Loads better. Its was like smoking a cigarette when you haven't smoked in two days. Or having a wee when you really need one.

    I remember so clearly kicking the shit out of that bully when I was 8. He picked on me for THREE YEARS for being bigger than the other kids. Since then, I've made it one of my prinicpals to not allow people to push me around, or push others around.

    I remember once there was a chef who liked to bully his staff. Not the confident male ones, the meek and forign girls from Poland, France and Slovakia. I told him, in front of everyone what I thought of how he treated people. There was hush, followed by him walking storming off. I remember looking at everyones faces, they were just beaming. That night he ambushed me with one of his friends, when I was drunk, from behind. Ironic, I thought, we're about the same weight, but I was so drunk I could hardly see. They were dirty little bastards, eye gouges, choke holds, pressure points, basically they grabbed me and more tortured me than fought me, for about half a minute, before I got the upper hand! I never saw him again after that. 280lbs is a LOT of weight to have come flying at your genitals....

  • pusscat said on Jul 30, 2009....
    Oh boy oh boy, did this post take me back to my own wonderful "fuck you" moment lol!  Can you steel the CCTV video ha ha!  I am so glad you did it though hun cos you aint nothing without respect and you left with yours still intact :-)  That was a good post to go to bed on - gotta go as my meds kick in lol!
  • seer said on Jul 30, 2009....
    Lol cheers puss. I did see one CCTV of my mate and I kicking out a load of pikeys from a pub we worked in. It was pretty funny, we spent HOURS 'doing voices', ie
     
    man - 'hello, I'm a little pikey man and this is my little pikey car'
    woman - 'we're all pikeys going to the pub'
    man - ' oh shit here comes the chefs....'
     
    Just for the record, we wernt kicking them out for being plebs, we were kicking them out because they treatened to stab one of the members of staff.
  • superbozo said on Jul 30, 2009....
    Enjoy those hard earned 2 days off before your holiday :)
     
    Theres nothing like a good "FUCK YOU" story to make me smile.
  • pusscat said on Jul 31, 2009....
    Yup!  I can totally see you doing that lol!  The only CCTV footage of me would be me being thrown out of a pub ha ha!  Eeeh - they were the days ;-)
  • seer said on Jul 31, 2009....
    Hahahaha lol bless yah. I wouldn't kick you out puss!!
     
    I've been kicked out of a few places. Mainly due to being underage/on drugs. One was for throwing about a woman beater (hehe).
     
    Still its been over a year since I actually had to punch anyone! Must be getting old....
  • seer said on Jul 31, 2009....
    Oh shit I was talking to some biker mates the other night, and we all decided the next time anyone starts a fight on me I'm going 'become aroused' hahahaha
  • queenparanoia said on Jul 31, 2009....

    well now youre ready for your new job... :-)

  • seer said on Jul 31, 2009....
    What, aroused and in a fight :-P
  • seer said on Jul 31, 2009....
    What, aroused and in a fight :-P

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