I have a lady friend. She is facing a marital problem. Her husband is jobless, keeps all her salary, yearly bonus and only gives her a weekly allowance. Just enough for her to take public transport to work, have lunch and home for a week. Sometimes, he even forgets to give her money. This has been going on for 15 years. He bought himself a new car, hi-fi, big cinema screen at his attic where he sleeps alone. Throw all her beautiful clothes, jewelleries, damage her shoes, keep her bra, underwear. Just dont know what he is up to. Recently, their daughter ask her dad, Dad, you have foundation on your face ? oh gosh !, is he playing a new game. Bored of ladies.

Problem here, is that recently he has been finding fault with my girlfriend. Tried to commit suicide by standing in the middle of the road and my friend of course rush to him and pul him back to the side of the road. They struggled and struggled suddenly, she realised he is at the side of the road, and she is in the middle of the road. Sigh how did that happen, I really dont know. He even says that she is a crazy wife, lously mum , hopeless daughter in law. And she believes him.

We all tried to advise her that he is the crazy one, not you. But she still believe him that she is the crazy woman. She has been to the doctor for medication too. Just the other day, they had a big quarrel , and she walk out of the house. Sadly, she had to turn back because she realised she had only $5 in her pocket. She is a Director for a big company but only $5 in her pocket. Can you imagine how is it like ? Also , she decided to turn back to the house because of the kids. Mother's love. She is the bread winner of the house but have to suffer under this jobless turning guy man.

How can I convince her that he is the crazy one and not her ?