So what if I didn't answer a 4 year olds every whim?  I love him to death, but he's not my kid!  For fucks sake, lady back off.  Don't take it out on me that you can't control him.  Maybe if you didn't let him get away with everything he wouldn't be such a brat.

 

Also, make him speak properly.  Don't use the fact that he had his front teeth removed(though now has a bridge) as an excuse.  I had to have mine removed too (bit an electrical cord) and I spoke just fine.  The thing is you're being lazy.  He's almost 5 and he doesn't even know his ABC's properly.  No, it's not my responsibility just because I'm the only one who will make him sit down and work on them.

 

Pointing and making facial movements like he's talking does not count as talking in my books. 

 

There is nothing wrong with that child that he should be acting that way.  Though, I seriously think he might be dyslexic--have you ever seen what he's written?

 

Also, what is up with his lying?  He lies all the time.  Why would you tolerate that?

 

Why is a 4 year old going to bed at the same time as his 17 year old brother (2-4am)?  Don't you know the problems that can cause later?  Mental illness in his later years will increase because of his lack of proper sleep and scheduling now.  Don't you care?

 

I don't give in to his crying and acting like a young toddler, why should you?  You're the mom step up.  Hell, same goes for his 'dad'; but we know there is no way that's happening, huh?  Just yelling at him and giving him his way won't do a damn bit of good.

 

You're a pissy parent.  Everyone knows it.  I can understand wanting a weekend or two a month that you can relax.  But who tries to pawn their children off on other people every single chance they get?  Getting rid of your kids 3-4 days a week doesn't count as a break?  It's a fucking vacation.  Seriously, you probably shouldn't of had them.