SO, I keep coming across things about women being unhappy in some way about their men being into porn. Whether they are offended by it, upset by it, feel jealous, disgusted, whatever.

I just want to know WHY they feel this way. I don't understand it at all.

I can understand it, if he can get it up for his favourite web site or Blow Job Sandwich 4, but can't get it up for you. That would certainly piss me off. But letting him have a little bit of 'alone time' every now and again... for fuck's sake, he's just a man! Let the poor thing go.

My boyfriend likes porn. Really, really likes porn. He has quite a dvd collection. His mates are always trying to borrow stuff from him. Apparently, he has a real talent for picking out  good titles.

How do I feel about this?

Am I jealous of the attention he gives his pornography? Do I think it's unhealty? Am I offended by what he likes to watch?

The answers are, respectively: NO, NO & I PROBABLY SHOULD BE.

But the fact is, I have sex with this guy, often, because he is my boyfriend, and I know what turns him on. I know what he likes to do, I know what he likes to do to me, I know his fantasies. Admittedly, I'm very relaxed about this kind of stuff, and we are very, i suppose, 'sexually compatible', but still, there are things that he likes that I'm just not going to do. And if there are girls out there who are not only willing to do what i won't, but willing to be filmed doing it so my perverted sweetheart can jerk off to his dear little hearts content- I am grateful for them, and happy that he gets to live out his wet dreams.