• soaringraven said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Ah! Now there'e a rant. Short,sweet (well maybe not so sweet) and to the point.  Get over it will ya?  lol
   
  soaring

• uniquely-ironic said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Do you feel better now?

• superbozo said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Hi Soaring....I'll get over it eventually. I just wish I could kick and punch IT. That would help. :)
   
  Hi Uni....Feeling better but certain things I've decided not to get over and moving back to the Gold Coast is one of them. Rockhampton really is the arse end of the world. Everything else except unemployment I can avoid.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jul 12, 2009....

  sometimes it takes getting fed up with a situation to motivate us to change it.  :)

• superbozo said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Uni, too true too true. :)

• gingersoul said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Super......i know exactly what you feel....
  
  For some people it takes an industrial quantity of shit happening before moving a single crumb sometimes..
  But when it starts moving (at least in my experience) there is no return...
  
  I hope your level of over-it-ness will give you the final push, and - most of all- in the right direction.

• MsStar39 said on Jul 12, 2009....

  SB it's good to vent and get it out now you have to act on it. 

• andora said on Jul 12, 2009....

  For many many years I thought I was mad at IT too
  
  what I came to realize is that I was mad at IT (me) for my "seeming" failure to create a life that I love to live in...knowing thoroughly that I design my own life, whether I like what I create or not, kind of ruined my self-esteem. As a mother, there were others that my creation was directly affecting/effecting which made me feel very ashamed.
  
  now, that I understand more about how my denials created my reality -rather than my conscious self being in charge - I am getting some results and so are my children. The shame for having created shitola in my life still haunts me around the edges, but the bottom line is that I took charge and moved, created a job I love, and am busy designing my life in ways that make sense to my heart.
  
  I did not do this through ungrounded positive thinking my friend, I did this by facing my denials - how? everytime someone acted or said something that really pissed me off, I would look deeper and find my own self in their reflection...then I would forgive myself for this and replace that denial with what I would prefer to be involved in. This is why Soul Cast has been a very productive place for me to come and visit...I get all worked up by other people here and take responsibility for ways that I may be also acting or speaking in those ways. this may sound convoluted and tiresome, but really, the results that myself and my three children are getting from taking responsibility for our own self-defeating limitations is more empowering than getting IT.
  
  much aloha to you superbozo
  

• Hegemone said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Well that's a class A rant if I ever saw one.  So, how's the being over IT going?

• Psych-ed said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Hi SB, I hope you feel better, great rant!

• Lucytorial said on Jul 12, 2009....

  I can understand the Rocky thing, it certainly wouldn't be easy... you know Super that in Cairns there is a shortage of labourers, builders... even in Port You'd find a shit load of work have you considered moving?

• diabolicdame said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Great job being over stuff man! I hope you feel better.. I've had my being ovre moment too.. I totally understand.

• MsStar39 said on Jul 12, 2009....

  SB hope you feel better today. be sure to read my new post on getting a job with the Government.

• superbozo said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Hi Ginger, There are certain custodial issues with my ex that prevent me moving in the right direction. So I can't leave Rockhampton and take princess. I had hoped that Rocky would grow on me but it hasn't. In saying that I'm determined to fix those issues.
   
  Hi Star, Thats something I really have to do. I've ignored certain things for too long.
   
  Aloha Andora, "Facing my denials" is definately what is required. Thank you.
   
  Hi Hege, So far so good. I think some more ranting may be required but hopefully my reasons for ranting will subside as I do something about them.
   
  Hi Psych-ed, I am feeling a little better, glad you liked my rant.
   
  Hi Lucy, I'd love to move my first choice would be back to the Gold Coast though from what you say north could work as well. Unfortunately I have to get my ex's permission to take princess more than 1 hour from rocky. The custodial agreement had that stipulation included to prevent my ex from running off with princess again. Now it's working against me. Untill I can negotiate that with her or win full custody from the family court I'm kinda stuck here and thats something else I'm totally over. I might post the story later it'll give the why I'm in rocky and why that stipulation exsists.
   
  Hi DD, I'll get over all of it. Just have to fix certain things first. Thanks.
   
   

• superbozo said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Hi Star, On my way :)

• feelthesydneylove said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Epic rant right there xD
  
  I don't know why, but for some reason, I love reading rants. Maybe it's because I love to write rants too - looking for some inspiration? ;)
  
  - Sydney
  

• superbozo said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Glad you enjoyed Sydney. I don't do it often but when I do it's normally fun to watch :)

• feelthesydneylove said on Jul 12, 2009....

  Haha yeah xD I agree.
  
  - Sydney
  

• CreativeWoman said on Jul 12, 2009....

  I hope positive change comes your way soon. 
  
  CW
  

• queenparanoia said on Jul 12, 2009....

  feels great leeting it all out doesnt???

• moonriver said on Jul 12, 2009....

  hey superbozo dude.
  
  
  when i get those feelings welling up in me and ready to burst, here what i do:
  i fire up my sound system full volume, run a few dozens of my favorite head-bangers rock and blues, and shout and jump and writhe to my heart's content.
  
  
  my favorite are the stones, the who, csny, and hot tuna.
  right now i'm playin' some jorma kaukonen. 
  his caterwauling guitar and voice take da toxic blues away.
  makes me grab a girl and square-dance the night all the way to kingdom come.
  allelujah genesis!
  try music, man... :-)
  
  

• scipio said on Jul 12, 2009....

  It's a mad, mad world out there. Stop the world. I wanna get off.

• superbozo said on Jul 13, 2009....

  Hi CW...Thank you. **crosses fingers**
   
  Hi Queenie...It can give great clarity...well sometimes :)
   
  Hi Moon...The Who gets played alot in my house. I agree but I need to combine that music with a punch bag, then things improve very quickly.
   
  Hi Scipio...My problem is whenever I get off the ride I can't wait to get back on again.
   
  Thanks for the comments everyone I'm feeling much betterer this evening :)

• moonriver said on Jul 13, 2009....

  hi bozo, what i do is lean a mattress by the porch and beat it silly with a broom.
  (does the dual purpose of dusting it off and expending all that toxic energy.) 

  a punch bag would be great, though... :-)

  
  

• superbozo said on Jul 13, 2009....

  I love my punch bag...It's a little worn out. I could do with a new one :)

• andora said on Jul 13, 2009....

  I was caught in a town that I hated while in a terrible 4 yr custody battle, I barely came out of that with a heart after all was said and done. and, after all was said and done, I told the truth from beginning to end as though my life depended upon it. Herein lies my solution! If you are stuck in a dead-end with an adversary who is willing to lie and cheat to win - all u need to do is stay present, don't break a single law, do not touch alcohol or drugs, and tell the truth at all times like I said. This is what I did in order to prevail and get my children back.
  
  Eventually the liar (my ex and adversary) got caught lying and I won full custody and saw that filthy town in my rear-view mirror. Honesty will win every time, the only variable is timing. However, if your ex won custody fair and square, I must give you my deep condolence and heartfelt sympathy.
  
  Our children grow up very fast (even though that 4 yrs felt like an eternity - my kids are all adults today and I'm talking about this like it was a bad movie that doesn't seem real any longer.  They grow up so very fast that they should at least get to witness honesty in action as an education about how honorable people face huge problems. And, I am happy to report that what you are going through is temporary, even though it may seem like forever from where you are standing.
  
  good luck superbozo, princess is watching and listening - to her, you are god in the flesh and it is time to do the godlike thang.
  
  if there is anything I can do to support you through this dilemma just ask, because I know how horrible it can be in a down and dirty custody battle. To be stuck in a place you do not resonate with, as I was, can feel like a jail sentence. What do folks do in jail? lift weights, do push-ups and sit-ups for the moment they get sprung....then you be looking good and feeling healthy as you walk toward what you love - honor and dignity
  

• superbozo said on Jul 13, 2009....

  Hi Andora....Offically custody is shared. However Princess lives with me and sees her mum for a couple of days each fortnight. Her mothers choice. I'll be posting the background to how we got to this point soon. It's an interesting story thats for sure. I had touched on it before on a post I have since deleted. Not sure why it seemed like a good idea at the time.

• gingersoul said on Jul 13, 2009....

  Super.....my ex didn't even try to fight me when i asked complete custody of our daughter.......guess having another baby of 2 months with his then mistress and her daughter of 7 took away from him all the fun of fatherhood....;-(
  
  But since i wanted my daughter to keep having a father as much as possible i let him have her two weekends each months (some months are 3) plus one month in the summer and the holidays in alternate by the years
  
  This summer i let him have her anytime he asked me to.....but guess what?...now she doesn't want to go with him anymore..
  
  I am not happy about it....but you harvest what you plow....right?
  

• superbozo said on Jul 13, 2009....

  Ginger...I'm definately gonna have to post my little story. I don't want to ruin it by telling you to much here but I know that frustration :)
   

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