• wolfafterurazz said on Jul 10, 2009....

  Rejection should only be indured once by anyone. If you go back after the first time then your a glutton for punishment. Unless your married to this person or have alot of time involved and then you have to question the reasoning of why its happening. I hope you find the answer or escape the rejection~WOLF~

• uniquely-ironic said on Jul 10, 2009....

  rejection is awful.  painful.  unfortunately the only response that seems to have a good outcome after rejection is patient waiting.  With patient waiting either the object of your affection finds their way to you, or you slowly heal and move on.

• auroralost said on Jul 10, 2009....

  Wolf-To only have to endure rejection once sounds like quite the good thing to me right now.  He and I have been together for quite awhile and moved in together a month or so ago.  It is my advances to connect with him physically/emotionally that he is rejecting me.  It is an outright rejection, not just a perceived one.  I know that he's depressed and that it is about what's going on in his head not me.  It's just hard to know that when you go to kiss someone and they pull away from you.  It stings more than I should let it.
   
  Uniquely- The waiting is always the hardest part isn't...well that and trying not to put blame on yourself for things.  
   
  Thank you both for your thoughts and words...they are always appreciated

• wolfafterurazz said on Jul 11, 2009....

  Oh wow so your kinds commited. Ok new angle Get Naked in forn of him, when you change cloths or when ever you can. My wife does that to me and I love it. Thats how she keeps me out of the strip clubs He He He. Yes a pull away is really bad. Is the living together not working for him? Hell I've been married 33 years and rejection is part of it. she pulls away all the time but when she does I tell her to kiss me and she usually does.........If I had a dollar for every time she said no.............well lets just say I'd have alot of money. COMMUNICATION........ask him why he doesn't want to kiss.................Don't wait.....................ASK!~WOLF~ good luck~WOLF~

• auroralost said on Jul 13, 2009....

  Wolf-  Thanks for the advice...amusing too.   He said he's just not been that kind of a mindset lately.   He did loosen up a bit yesterday and we had a brief little moment together, just a lingering kiss and an embrace, but hell I'll take what I can get for now.    In the mean time I am following you advice on the getting naked thing..lol.

• raindove said on Jul 18, 2009....

  Totally agree with uniquely ironic. And talking of rejection that really sucks. If it comes from someone you love hurts all the more. Bruised egos are easier to deal with than broken hearts. Hope yours is intact :-)

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