Women are intuitive, nurturing and have a deep and abiding inner strength, because of that we often end up in the roles of leader, councelor and even head of the household. Our strength is well suited to what is required of us in these days, but often it burries that softer, more voulnerable side of us that makes us desirable to the "stronger" sex.
It's unfortunate that so many of todays men are content to be weak and lazy and allow their women to care for them while they slide along blithely on their apron strings. What a woman really needs is a MAN. Not another Al Bundy. ug. When we come across that man who exudes masculinity, are a little bit (or in some cases alot! snickers) sexist and who can take a girl by the hand and say "don't think, just follow", we are often so shocked our "fight or flight" instincts kick in. But if the Man in question is strong enough, if He knows who He is, He can coax that sweet, voulnerable, lovable little girl back out to the surafce and they will both find a comfortable place to live.
That same strength in her will enable her to submit to His will while His strength protects her so that she can submit without fear. That nurturing instinct in her will be His safe haven from the world while His seemingly sexist instincts will provide her the protection from that same world so that she can be nurturing. Her intuation will be used to better His life, to give Him an edge He would not have without her, all the while, His Daddy-like ways will enable her to feel loved and cared for, lending Him her trust and admiration so that she wants to do anything she can to enrich His life. It's such a beautiful circle when it comes together as was intended.
There is a little girl in all of us i think. Somewhere there is that sweet, gentle, vibrant, small one who simply wants to be loved unconditionally and sees the world through pixie dust covered glasses. I think that Daddies are much more rare though. Truth be told, in this day and age, men are all to uncommon a commodity. How many soft, lively little girls are hidden because of the typical use and abuse of the modern man? When does she get a chance too come out and dance in the snow?
If You are a Dominant, i guess i would just say; don't allow her fears of being used scare You away from taking control as any good Daddy (or Dominant) would. How many little girls do You know who wouldn't scream if they were being chased by a boy, even if she liked him? Don't expect Your little girl to come running to You with open arms. We are fickle, trembling creatures, more fragile than a glass orb. If You don't have the patience and Dominance in You to push through and woo us out of our world hardened shell, You weren't really looking for anything so precious as we anyway. And if You have the good fortune to have wooed a sweet little one, rest assured she will be the most feircely loyal woman in Your life, as long as she is assured of Your love, Your approval and Your care.
just a kittens morning thoughts. winter
