Some people say it's the worst mistake you can make. Some people don't give much thought to it. What is this, I'm talking about ? Sex, of course. The one thing our society lives, breathes, economically flourishes upon.
Why do I bring this up?
I'm 14, almost 15 actually, though the "almost 15" doesn't make a difference to my age. I've been dating my boyfriend for eleven and a half months [though we broke up for a little less than a month within that time] and we had sex. Strangely, I'm happy about it and I don't feel any different, though it is said that it is the worst mistake people can make.
I'm not getting anywhere with this. I just wanted to say it, since I can't tell my friends for I don't want my private details known to everyone.
That is all
Freedom♥ posted on Jul 02, 2009
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gingersoul said on Jul 02, 2009....
Well, since you already did it......please, use protection.
The worst mistake you can make would be getting pregnant at 15.
There are a lot of sites that give specific information about safe sex and teen.
Be a smart girl.
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HisFairMaiden said on Jul 02, 2009....
freedom~~it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, you are handling things very maturely, you had sex with a long-time b/f (that's always especially nice for your first time, i think...ya' know...not just "some guy", but "your" guy)...so all in all, i would say...just focus on how YOU feel about it...don't worry about the opinions of others, as that may take away from the happiness you feel. i wouldn't necessarily say that its "the biggest mistake you can ever make"...oh no, LOL, far from it. there are many, many WORSE mistakes one can make! ;)
you seem to have a good, healthy attitude towards it, and its something that you and your b/f have shared intimately together...special...don't let anybody steal your joy!!
*best wishes*
~fair maiden~
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WyldWyl said on Jul 03, 2009....
I would reiterate what both the above posters said. Protection is important, but enjoy the ride nonetheless.
Welcome to the club, I suppose. :P
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RollingC said on Jul 03, 2009....
Like everyone said above....protect yourself..... the finding of the perfect partner/soulmate is something that may take some time and as you go you acquire life experience that help you get to that goal. During that travel you must learn to protect yourself.
I wish you well...
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Hegemone said on Jul 03, 2009....
Well yes, as mentioned, use protection and keep it safe, but do enjoy it. It sounds like you're quite mature about it, and as long as you keep that level of maturity and realize it's a special thing by way of trusting another person and all of that, then I don't think you've got much to worry about. -
UnicornForm said on Jul 05, 2009....
You handled it well it sounds. Yes please be careful... my freind is 15 and pregnate. -
Edriisxe said on Jul 08, 2009....
Yes, protection is good. In my opinion, i'd prefer you not do it, regardless of if he's been your boyfriend for that long. You are young, not to mention not much younger than me. Sex is great. I would give a better connotation later when I experience it, but personally, I'd think you should just calm down a little. Not every relationship should jumps into sex that fast. I don't think 11 months is long enough to be trusted fully. No matter how good this boy has been. -
porcelain said on Aug 11, 2009....
I, too, lost my virginity at fourteen. I thought I cared very much for the guy I had sex with, and that's why I chose to do what I did...or so I thought. Now, at twenty, I wonder if maybe I wasn't seeking attention or a desire to feel loved. I can't really say for sure, even today, but that relationship ended violently.All you can do is what you think is right. Not everyone who chooses to have sex at a young age must feel like she has sold her soul. Just keep in mind that not only must you protect yourself from pregnancy and disease, but have you to protect yourself from you. These choices and these committments can easily snowball. -
gingersoul said on Aug 11, 2009....
Porcelain........i like very much what you said..."Just keep in mind that not only must you protect yourself from pregnancy and disease, but have you to protect yourself from you. These choices and these committments can easily snowball".Well said....choices of thsi kind has a way of riverberates around in more than one way....Freedom.....did you tell your mom? Does she has any clue? -
Balefish said on Aug 18, 2009....
I didnt feel any different after sex first time either. Its not like that for everyone. some people cant live without it and need it and will do anything for it. For me its just an activity. feels good for a few minutes.. but it doesnt matter really other than releasing momentary stress of sexxual tension.
what im saying, is dont fret if your not a nymphomaniac. its not a big deall.
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UnicornForm said on Aug 18, 2009....
and if you find you are a nymphomaniac, stop a.s.a.p or send a message to one before you proceed and taalk about theiir experiences.
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