well, the guy and i did get together on Friday afternoon at the hotel. we always get nice hotels, so its a treat to just lay there and not have any worries.  and we did not have sex on friday although on thursday we 'did'.  If you read the post that i just published it was actually  written on thursday when we met twice, and i had orgasms both times - but the guy didn't at all. the second time i could tell by the look on his face that he wanted to but he stopped to give me one and then we ran out of time. i was almost begging him to have his but he wouldn't - so that really set the stage for friday because i was a little upset that he didn't. as i explained to him,  sex to me isn't always about that and sometimes pleasing someone else is just as satisfying.  so on friday we didn't have sex and its because we kinda talked the whole time and watched the news about mj and farrah fawcet.   then i told the guy that i purposely didn't take any of my clothes off because i wanted to slow myself down a little and see if he would be the 'aggressor', things started to heat up but it was at the last minute so we didn't do anything. 

today the guy and i went for a walk and talked a lot. we kissed at the end of the walk. and made semi plans for this wednesday. 

let you know what happens.