• PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jun 29, 2009....

  
  His lost, uni, his lost.
  
  (((huggies)))
  
  paper ~
  
  
  

• Hegemone said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni, I'm SO sorry.  I wish this could be real, but this will just have to do.  ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))))))))  Not going to drone on and on, but I just want you to know, I'm here via comment, PM, or Facebook if you need me.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  PBW - don't take this the wrong way, but how is it his loss?  I'm the one that got up ended.
   
  Hege - thanks, somehow I'm managing to still breathe

• PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jun 29, 2009....

  
  He is " throwing away" , what is valuable in my eyes, uni.  Sometimes, people only realise what they have lost when it is already thrown away.
  
  
  

• alabamagirl said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Sending lots of live your way.  I'm sorry!  I hate rejection, it hurts, especially if you care for someone.  On the positive side, if it didn't work out then it's not meant to be, maybe you have something better coming your way.  

• wolfafterurazz said on Jun 29, 2009....

  One mans Loss is another mans triumph. Bloom my flower in all your glory so if I pass by I might have the chanse to pick you. For a wilting flower never gets picked so BLOOM my love BLOOM~WOLF~

• diabolicdame said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Oh uni.. I'm so sorry to hear that.. ((((((hugs))))))).. it just plain sucks! Try and remember that whatver happens, happens for the best.. although right now its not much help, I know.. I'd come over with lots of booze if I was there!

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  PBW - apparently I'm too much work.  I'm sure someone dumber with a doormat personality will be much easier for him to deal with.

  alabama - doubtful.  good things aren't my forte.

  wolf - how about I just retreat into the ground and go back into my seed?

  dd - booze would be good.

• the_infernal_optimist said on Jun 29, 2009....

  I really thought that might go differently, Leafy. I'm sorry. :( Sometimes you can do everything the very best way you know how, with all your heart, and still lose in the end, and it's just not fair.
  
  ((massive hugs))
  
  ~Infernal
  

• destinydiva said on Jun 29, 2009....

  (((((((((((hugs))))))))  he's just moving over so that mr right can come along!:-)  keep your chin up uni xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  TIO - true.
   
  destiny - I'm not sure I believe in Mr.Right any more

• kevinunknown said on Jun 29, 2009....

  how dose this crap get put on the feature page?????

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  kevin - fuck off if you don't have a clue

• diabolicdame said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Kevin.. its because we know her and care about her and want to be here for here.. its not 'crap' at all.. there you go!
   
  p.s: I like uni's reply better.. go with that! 

• kevinunknown said on Jun 29, 2009....

  If your such a sad ass that you feel the need to tell a world of strangers that you got dumped then are you really surprised u got dumped in the first place for fuck sake get a life.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  kevin - like you're oh so busy life?  sitting online with the rest of us "sad asses"?  Yeah, you got lots of room to talk.  Leave me alone if you have a shred of decency

• MsStar39 said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Forget him Uni,he was not the right one. (((hugs)))

• kevinunknown said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Yeah but am not telling people anything about my private life, I just like to write articles on this site about world events as I see them. I have to say though this blog really dose show how you really are uniquely-ironic.

   

• the_infernal_optimist said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Suggest a well-timed block here, Leafy. Ugh. Some people clearly never learned that if you can't say something nice/helpful/etc. maybe you should just shut the hell up and go back to your own private world.
  
  ~Infernal
  

• wolfafterurazz said on Jun 29, 2009....

  I think we all know why kevin will remain unknown!

• diabolicdame said on Jun 29, 2009....

  I agree with wolf! LOL..

• kevinunknown said on Jun 29, 2009....

  What you all really believe it is normal to discuss this sorta stuff to a world of strangers no wonder she got dumped if ma girl friend told the whole word about our relationship i would chuck her.  

   

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  kevin - you're girlfriend probably has the IQ of a potato to put up with your self important emotionally retarded self.

  I won't block him, I'll simply let him make and ass of himself so you all can see and not read the "oh so important" articles he blogs. 

  I may share my feelings online, maybe that makes me pathetic, but at least I have feelings and I know and care about other people's feelings.

• lovetheresarose said on Jun 29, 2009....

  hmmm. Uniquely-Ironic. I think the two sentence blog shows the painful simplicity of being dumped. I'm sorry that you're going through it.. I think we've all been there even Kevin. Maybe he's just mad you blogged what he was trying to say ... he got dumped by the iq of a potato girl . :) Anyways.. you'll be a better person from this. Cheer up!!

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  lovetheresarose - with all that natural empathy I'm sure Kevin's been in my shoes many times.  I don't want to go into detail, never will.  I don't need to to let my real friends know I'm feeling low and need some time to heal.

• woman said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni. I am so sorry for your pain. That's the best I can say to you. I'm just sorry for your pain. Hugs. woman

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  woman - thanks for the hug.  I'm sure we'll talk later.  I'm glad you're my friend.

• mixednuts said on Jun 29, 2009....

  This is a true stunner! SLAP ME!  (slap,kick,gouge.shoot. stab in the HEART!)

• UnicornForm said on Jun 29, 2009....

  well kevin, i dont think shed be proud enough to do that with that nasty mouth.
   
  Uni-I- Im  sure you know by now what can help you not think of him um... heres something , i forget how  it exactly went its  like... some people are meant to be in  your llife a short time but they werent there to hellp you get where you are.
                                 youll  run into better !! Much<3

• mixednuts said on Jun 29, 2009....

  What comes around goes around. You'll put an arrow through his  heart...you'll see!

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  mixed - Oh, I'm sure no one needs the beating. (though if I have to choose now I won't be as nice as I was yesterday)

  unicorn - I'm not sure the pain now is worth what I perceive to be the benefit of his short lived company.

• cuppajava said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni - i really am sorry to hear this - i actually had to read it twice just to believe it.I am sure that you will come out of this a better person - life has a strange way of kicking us in the stomach when we least expect it - and then suddenly finds ways to pick us up again - i have had enough experience in that department.
  Now,Kevin - you obviously have no fucking idea who you are messing with.I wouldnt pick on this lady too much if i were you - it would only mean you would have her AND her legions of friends to deal with too.So if you got it - bring it motherfucker - lets see what you got.If not - then just do all of us a HUGE fucking favour and disappear
  

• CreativeWoman said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni,
  I'm so sorry to hear this.  :-(   I have no consoling words because sometimes I know you just have to live through those moments.  However, I can offer my friendship and support if and when you need it. 
  
  (((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))
  
  CW
  

• beyondtheveil said on Jun 29, 2009....

  unique- I suppose kevin-the-unknown-super-world-events-scholarly-writer wouldn't ask stupid questions if he got 111 views and 27 comments in 3 hours. I've seen people make the front page with 2 or 3 comments, so I don't really know where that leaves him.
  
  Anyway, back to important things. If he wants a doormat it's his loss so I'm agreeing with paper. I honestly somewhat pity a person who would rather walk over a loved one as opposed to being with an intelligent, strong, and free spirited soulmate.
  
  I understand it hurts, but you probably wouldn't have been happy as a doormat. It's difficult to share under someone's feet.
  

• mixednuts said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Beat me anyway! I don't trust my thoughts anymore. BEAT ME PLEASE! do it again...HARDER, HARDER! don't say "NO".

• Psych-ed said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni I'm sorry. You deserve and will find much better! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

• mixednuts said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Love can be like QUICKSAND. you need help getting out.

• Voltaire said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Welcome to the league Uni. ;-P

• Lucytorial said on Jun 29, 2009....

  what a cunt.
   
  Well love, what can I say everyone has said alot.  But nothing will help much at the moment, not when your feeling like this.

• javadewd said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Too every sad ass out there, sing it with me!
  
  "I'm in the mood to blog... Just because you're near me..."
  
  Heh. Take the advice of the late great George Carlin : Fuck the fucking fuckers!
  

• seer said on Jun 29, 2009....

  aww hun, my inbox is always open....

• katelovesorange44 said on Jun 29, 2009....

  least u got dumped and not fired again......like me.......rather be dumped then fired......least when working i could afford to drink....

• javadewd said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Well if you've got tits like this, or at least a cute smile, you will get free drinks!

• superbozo said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Sorry to hear that uni...{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
  Not sure what to say you two seemed to be doing so well.

• moonriver said on Jun 29, 2009....

  unique, i'm sorry it didn't work out.
  i don't know what issues were involved, and only you can judge for yourself the role of this episode in the bigger scheme of your life.
  i understand the reasons for your reticence in giving more details at this time.
  i know everything will turn out better for you in the end.
  you deserve better.
  
  

• bluegum said on Jun 29, 2009....

  
  
  g'day uni sorry to hear it didn't work out ,on the bright side you could meet mr ok soon .blue.

• UnicornForm said on Jun 29, 2009....

  oh but pain is natures way of strengthening!! so smile your gained a muscle.

• woman said on Jun 29, 2009....

  bluegum! Mr. OK!! LOL. You are funny.

  Uni, you know I'm ONLY laughing at Blue. You know how I feel!

• Zayda said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni: I'm so sorry things didn't work out. Quite frankly, it really is his loss. I wish there was more I could say.
  
  
  As for kevinuknown-bozobutt, well his attitude speaks for itself. I guess he just doesn't get that to most of us, you are so not a stranger.

• wishyouwerehere said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni -

  I agree with Paper - the man is missing out on a whole lot.  I know that probably doesn't help too much right now, but I happen to think you are pretty damned special.

  Love, Wishy

• queenparanoia said on Jun 29, 2009....

  {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

• Twylarants said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Sorry, Sweetie.  That sucks.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  cj - I feel like I was kicked.  I'm sure eventually I'll figure out what to do with myself, but it definately will involve a lot more doubt and a lot less trust.
   
  CW - thanks for being my friend
   
  BTV - you're right.  I'm not really cut out to be a doormat for anyone.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Psyched - I'm not sure I want to find anyone.
   
   

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  voltaire - which leage is that.
   
  Lu - I'm so lucky to have friends like this, but yeah, the way I feel sucks.
   

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  java - I'm not sure how to take that.
   
  seer - thanks :)
   
  kate - drinking wouldn't solve this.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  super - that's what I thought too.  I have a sneaking suspicion he may have had someone whispering in his ear that wasn't really thinking about what was best for him (or us), but themself.
   
  moon - I know everyone (including myself) wants to believe things will get better, but I think we say and wish that to comfort ourself.
   
   

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  blue - Mr. Ok better be someone who has amazing persistence and stamina.  It's gonna take a lot to convince me he's sincere.
   
   
  unicorn - I think I pulled a muscle :)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  woman - yes, I know what you think about this.  We'll talk some more.
   
  Z - ultimately it is his loss.  I just wish it wasn't related to my pain.
   
   

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  wishy - coming from you that means a lot.
   
  queenie - thanks
   
  Twirlie - camel nuts at least!
   

• Zayda said on Jun 29, 2009....

  I know, Uni. The sucky thing about it all is that it does hurt. It hurts because we invest ourselves in the people we care about. Unfortunately, you can't strip the hurt out of your life or relationships, even the best relationships. With the high of caring and love, comes the lows of hurt when something goes wrong, be it a temporary tiff that gets patched up or a more serious one that breaks off a relationship.
  
  
  I, frankly, don't understand how you are "too much work". Here's the thing, if he really cared, and I mean really cared, then you would be worth the effort to maintain a relationship with despite the distance. So, I'm not buying that you are too much work--you aren't a high maintenance kind of girl, and really, from what I have learned of you over the years we've been here at SC, you aren't demanding of anything from anyone other than the respect any decent human being deserves. So, please tell me how that is too much work?

• auroralost said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Uni-It sucks.......completely and thoroughly.   Getting dumped leaves you questioning yourself more than you should and no one likes to be doubtful of themselves and who they are.  If you are like me you are probably kicking yourself for getting attached and allowing yourself to think it would work.  This is not a bad thing...it means you are open to finding the person you will really connect with...that one that just gets you.  Try to be kind to yourself.   Know that while this is a rough time, it  will pass and you will feel anew again.  I blog my feelings too.  I think it is a good release...so write away if you need to and fuck if anyone doesn't like what you have to say.

• RollingC said on Jun 29, 2009....

  I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out.  Opening your emotions to someone new in your life is wonderful but it has it's pitfalls too.  I know it's hard but keep thinking positive and like Blue says....you'll meet Mr. Right soon enough, don't worry!
  ♥
  Rc

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  Z - well, if I want to be very specific, I should say he didn't want to put the neccesary effort into maintaining a relationship with me.  I guess objectively it was his choice whether or not to put in the effort neccesary.  I guess I just am stuck wondering why he would start something that he must have known he wouldn't want to finish.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 29, 2009....

  aurora - I am a lot like you that way.  I do question myself for not seeing that this would end for such an unreasonable reason.  I question wether anyone really will "get" me.
   
  RC - thanks, but I think the hunt for Mr. "Right" will be on hiatus for awhile

• wishyouwerehere said on Jun 30, 2009....

  D - Couldn't you at least create an account and log in under your own user name if you truly wanted to present your own perspective on this situation?

  Let Uni vent - clearly she's hurting.

   

• Voltaire said on Jun 30, 2009....

  
  The league of being dumped Uni. ;-P
  
  It sucks, I know, been there done that.
  Music was my 'help' every time I was dumped..
  
  Just hang in there Uni.
  Voltaire
  
  

• CayenneMan said on Jun 30, 2009....

    I know I don't have to say it because you already know  :o)  You always seem to know how to put a smile on my face :o) .  You got dumped ?  The way I see it, It's better to be dumped then dumped on. Do you know what I mean ? Just imagine what it would be like to be at the bottom of a spot-a-pot . . . never mind, I take that back. That's just a little to disgusting of an image to think about.
    So what ? You spent a little quality time with frankie and jerry got jealous ?  Not to big a problem you still have " . .  :o) 
  

• PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jun 30, 2009....

  
  @ D, we don´t know each other, and I am by principle very very reserved when it comes to my friend´s business, I only listen, rarely if ever give unsolicited advice...or meddle...
  
  ...but in this case, I kindly suggest, that you respect uni´s space here in SC...
  
  ...maybe not everyone comprehend what SoulCast is for some people who blog here.. it is not a simple blogging as what is generally known but a place where some people try to find themselves in a bid to better understand themselves, and some people try to find healing... with others who understand....
  
  
  What is between you and uni, is very personal.  Everybody knows there are always two sides of the story.  And it is not about who is right, and who is wrong.  It is about emotions.  People do crazy stuff because of emotions - I am not referring to uni or you for that matter but in general - don´t you agree?   And I feel SoulCast is a haven for people who simply needs an outlet not to go crazy because of emotions.  It is a place to deposit what is overflowing, to get on life.  Life could be awfully restricting with it´s many rules, don´t you think?
  
  I hope you understand my point of view.  I am in no way trying to antagonize you.  I just care so very much for uni.  She´s precious.
  
  paper ~
  
  
  p.s. I might regret this - butting in, but see, one has to say what one feels when one cares a lot...
  

• bhalah said on Jun 30, 2009....

  oh!!  writer!!! back !!!! paper,!!!... can I  have a pen please???

• fragglesrock said on Jun 30, 2009....

  uni, as you know, i am here for you...

• CreativeWoman said on Jun 30, 2009....

  Uni,
  I agree with Zayda.  You are not "too much work".  If you did not have the capacity to love and be loved you would not have this outpouring of love from friends you have all over the world.  We are giving back exactly what we all clearly see that you give to us.
  
  Anyone that tells you differently, doesn't know the Uni that we love.
  
  CW
  

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 30, 2009....

  PBW & wishy - hold on guys, I think you took my reply to Z as D signing in under my name.  For all I know he might be reading this or even commenting, but not under my name.  I know it seems weird, but even in my pain my stoopid logical brain was able to eek out seeing it from someone else's perspective.

  frags - I know.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 30, 2009....

  voltaire - as soon as the initial sting is gone I'm sure I'll be listening
   
  CM - you make me smile and scratch my head
   
  CW - your words mean a lot to me

• CayenneMan said on Jun 30, 2009....

  You don't have lice do you ?

• PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jun 30, 2009....

  
  Arrr, uni... the comment disappeared/deleted (I don´t know...), the one I addressed to ... I think it was only wishy and I who saw/read it :(
  
  ...it does not matter (I will write a PM in our other site :/ ... I have sent one there after I commented here... I have to finish something so it might be a while before I write a reply...)
  

• fragglesrock said on Jun 30, 2009....

  either way, sounds like it's time to change the password.

• CayenneMan said on Jun 30, 2009....

  Password ? 

• gingersoul said on Jun 30, 2009....

  I saw  D. comment too, Paper.
   
  Time to change password too, U-nee-k

• diabolicdame said on Jun 30, 2009....

  I saw the comment by D too uni! It was here and now its not.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 30, 2009....

  Hmmm, okay.  Well, I wish he would have left it up for me to read.  Whether I agree with it or not I would have liked to see it. 

  There is always two sides to every story.  If I did something he thought was unreasonable he should have talked to me about it.  I find it ironic that he puts it out here where I have tried to avoid putting out our business, but he didn't make the effort to talk to me.  It hurts a little to think he'd rather put it out in public rather than talk to me in private.  Maybe he felt as if he needed to defend himself.

  Thing is, I'm not attacking him.  I love him, always will, but he called it to an end.  Yes it hurts (more than I could have imagined) but I hope that no one thinks I'm villifying him.  I'm not perfect and I'm sure I did things that may have hurt him.  There is no bad guy here, just hurt people.

  In keeping with my open life policy I am not going to change my password.  I would encourage him to get his own sign on, but I gave him my password because I trusted him.  I think by now that those of you who love me will know my style of writing and know who is truly speaking.

   

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 30, 2009....

  CM - no lice.  You just say the weirdest shit some times :)

• CayenneMan said on Jun 30, 2009....

     Sometimes ? Did you here Chevrolet is about to hand out coupons for free potatoes ?  I didn't hear that either :o)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jun 30, 2009....

  CM - LOL see?!!!

• batteryarticle said on Jul 16, 2009....

  I ll be there over you.

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