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Obviously pictures are on my brain today-

This post is far less sentimental-

I'm curious: Have you ever taken nude pictures of yourself? Have you ever had someone else
take them of you?

I was 40 the first time someone told me they wanted to see a picture of me naked.
That's actually funny considering my best friend in college was an artist who painted tons of nude women. He'd always take their photos first, and then paint them from the picture.

It just never came up for me.
I'm sure I'd have been too modest if it had.

Even at 40, I was shocked by the request. I told him I thought it was a little late for me to begin my Playboy career....

But of course I took the pictures.
I don't have hard copies - they exist in a secret msn mailbox only.

See, another secret.

Where are yours?


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  • silverwhisper said on Sep 12, 2006....
    of myself? goodness, no: i don't want to go and crack the lens or anything!

    and when it's occurred to me that i'd like to of someone else, i've been rather preoccupied by something else.

    although that would be interesting to do.

    hm...

    ed
  • secretlife said on Sep 12, 2006....
    I'm feeling like a gardner, planting mischievous ideas!
  • silverwhisper said on Sep 12, 2006....
    i'll confess i'm sitting here trying to figure out a way to pun my way to the word "hoe"...

    [hangs head in shame]

    ed
  • secretlife said on Sep 12, 2006....
    you are so damn quick-witted i don't stand a chance!
    (doesn't hurt that i set myself up every single time either!)
  • Frlncwrtr said on Sep 12, 2006....
    SL:
    Mine are on a secret CD that is locked in a secret box.
  • secretlife said on Sep 12, 2006....
    lmao..frlncwrtr!!! secrets secrets everywhere...
  • silverwhisper said on Sep 12, 2006....
    SL: i like to think of it as part of your charm. :>

    ed
  • Frlncwrtr said on Sep 12, 2006....
    Secrets inside of secrets SL!
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 12, 2006....
    When I was first married...ages ago...my husband at the time took some polaroids. I took some of him too.

    Wouldn't consider it now....though I've been asked.
  • secretlife said on Sep 12, 2006....
    where are the polaroids now? you have a secret box somewhere too?
  • PamelaCriança said on Sep 12, 2006....
    my dad found mine. my old boyfriend took them of me, i was 21 i believe. They were porno pics, actually they were pretty tasteful. you see he was a photography major. :) he made me look good!! so i didnt even care when i heard my dads bellow over the phone after he found them in my old room!!
  • PamelaCriança said on Sep 12, 2006....
    i meant to say they werent porno pics
  • Zayda said on Sep 12, 2006....
    i haven't done nude photos of myself, but i have a friend who is a professional photographer who talked me into being his model for first a black and white series he was working on that focused just on specific body parts. in each photo, save one, i am clad in clothing or lingerie, and you never get a full shot of my body. the photos are very tastefully done. in the only two photos where I am sans clothing, I am drapped in a sheet in one, and in the other, I am half hidden by an open door.

    i later was his model for a sepia series he did.

    i don't think i have the nerve to do fully nude ones.
  • scalywag said on Sep 12, 2006....
    photos of me nude....hahahahaha
  • ALIENated said on Sep 12, 2006....
    In my first film, "ALIENated Does Quilor Trion", I was
    tastefully clad in various leather and steel mesh outfits. It
    went downhill from there in my subsequent films. I have
    since tracked down most of the copies, which I mostly
    found on Quilor Trion. It used to be that little spec just
    north of Venus.
  • CreativeWoman said on Sep 12, 2006....
    I have taken nude pictures of myself with a digital camera for someone. I promptly deleted them after he received them. I found it amazing that he overlooked my obvious imperfections and found beauty in them.

    CW
  • CreativeWoman said on Sep 12, 2006....
    ALIEN,

    You make me laugh. :-)

    CW
  • angstywin said on Sep 12, 2006....
    I second the motion, CW!

    (read: taking pix of one's self and deleting them right after the intended receiver got them... and the receiver chose to ignore the imperfections but rather savor the beauty he found in them...)
  • Bluesnake said on Sep 13, 2006....
    YES, I have nude photoS of myself. And my family know it. And all of them love to see it.


    It was taken when I was a baby.
    Caught ya..
  • labyrinth said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Nude photo of labyrinth??? Yayayay!!!
  • monozuki said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Nice one Bluesnake!!
    Well, I don't have any naked pics except when I was a baby.
    JUst had pics of the girls being dated and **ehem..by my cousin "Casanova" Raven...
    He want to put it in a scrapbook...
    crazy guy hmp!
  • JadeLondon said on Sep 13, 2006....
    No nude photos--yet.
  • ben_2_go said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I really enjoy a woman that's in her 40's,intelligent,beautiful, and knows how to be sexy without being slutty.I'm only 29, but I do love a mature woman.
  • HardRock said on Sep 13, 2006....
    wow! not to late to explore your body. I like women who always feel sexy about themselves.

    I have lots of nude pictures of my wife.

    :-)
  • disastergirl said on Sep 13, 2006....
    if i could have a REAALLY good photographer for a boyfriend, i would......but.....other than that......i wouldn't....and i haven't.....so.....hmm.

    i want to take some though......of a particular guy.
  • HardRock said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Hi,

    Im a photographer. :-)
  • missb said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I have taken some *blushes* for my bf :/

    See, we're in a long distance relationship, so I was just doing him a favor :)

    I was really ultra-shy and not too confident. But finally after a couple of drinks, I did it. And of course, after the first time, the next ones were a lot easier. And they weren't exactly porn and not fully nude. I left some for the imagination :)

    And like CreativeWoman, I took the pics and deleted straight after my bf got 'em. Safety measure. My bf saved 'em in a passworded and coded file. So, I feel safe :)

    Cheers!
  • Alyss said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Nope, no nude or even partly clothed photos ever taken of me by myself or anyone else.
  • ALIENated said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I believe none of you. I want to see evidence. Give me
    links to said pictures. Give them to me now! ... please,
    pretty please.
  • quidnunc said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Hahaha! nice one ALIEN. can i say "i second the motion"?
  • HardRock said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I think I want to see it too. :-)
  • HardRock said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I think I want to see it too. :-)
  • amanhecer said on Sep 13, 2006....
    hmmm..interesting! :) I'd like to consider thinking about it when I'm 40, and whether someone wants a picture of me. hah.

    :)
  • secretlife said on Sep 13, 2006....
    @Pamela - I could tell by your first comment they weren't porno shots; so what did your dad do with them?

    @Zayda - did you keep copies of the pictures he took of you?

    @ALIEN - honestly, sometimes when i read your comments i think i'm gonna pee my pants!

    @Bluesnake - LOL..you got me!

    @missb - i had a hunch that with all the long distance relationships these days, there would be many people who'd gone the same route as you and CW.

    @amanhecer - kinda surprising to be asked when you're 40!


    @HardRock & Ben2go - apparantly it's never too late
  • lioneljay said on Sep 13, 2006....
    One of my little pleasures when I travel is to take pics of myself that are intended to arouse. I use my phone's camera and then email them. Given that I travelled a great deal this spring, it helped out a lot to stay connected that way.
  • hotaka said on Sep 13, 2006....
    The family dog took all my embarrassing and perverse secrets with her to the grave.

    I'm kidding!

    Didn't Lindsey Lohan's mother pose for Playboy last year?
  • rarity121 said on Sep 13, 2006....
    40 is like the new 30 . . . look at Demi Moore, Madonna .. . . as long as you are taking care of yourself I say go for it.

    I had a nude photo taken of me quite recently after I washed a Harley bike in the nude, I laid down on it and had it taken.

    Can't help being impressed with how good I look. (I'm 31)

    The highest grossing dancer at my club by the way, is 38.
  • HardRock said on Sep 13, 2006....
    pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee give us the link!
  • CreativeWoman said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I feel sexier at 41 than I did at 30. I think that comes with a firmer self confidence.

    CW
  • secretlife said on Sep 13, 2006....
    LJ...those phones are multi-serve little gadgets!

    HardRock is dying over here!
    Rarity, I have no doubt in my mind you are beautiful.
    CW- you ARE sexier.
  • gingersoul said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Oh....those little, naughty cameraphones.....i have tons of pix i sent to my ex and downloaded to my comp. i took pix of him too..and IT....i still have it...when travelling for work, he used to send me pix of himself from the hotels...the sexier has been one of him with only a cowboy hat and a tools belt around his waist. Yummy....When we were married we filmed our making love sessions several times. Once we set up a kind of photo studio in our living room, lights and all.....hey, i really looked good in them...
    We were pretending he was a rude professional photograper and i was this so shy model. Too funny. And sexy...
    During one of our last evening out together we were so horny i went to the bathroom of the restaurant and sent him a pix of me as much naked as i could manage to be to his phone. He said he almost chocked with the wine when he saw it......oh, good memories....

    Rarity...my favorite open air nude pix involved me on laying down on the beach covered only with an amazingly white powdery sand.....
  • Zayda said on Sep 13, 2006....
    SL: Yes, I have digital copies of all of the pictures he took and one printed, matted, and framed copy of my favorite shot.
  • secretlife said on Sep 13, 2006....
    gingersoul: i love that scenario....professional photographer w/shy model!

    bet you look beautiful covered in white sand!

    thanks for sharing
  • gingersoul said on Sep 13, 2006....
    SL, thank you, you are such a sweet .....

    i love pix.......legal and illegal...LOL

    I am usually the one going around taking pix of everybody......the one always taking tons of pix during trips..and so the one ending up havign the less pix of anybody else.........the story of my life...:->


    And...secrets are secrets only in the eye of the beholder....they are the spice and the nurturing of your life....do we really have to share everything? Pix included?
  • bloc said on Sep 13, 2006....
    If you really want to protect those pictures you should encrypt them. Seriously!

    http://www.gnupg.org/
    mac gui - http://macgpg.sourceforge.net/
    windows guil - http://www.stud.uni-hannover.de/~twoaday/winpt.html
  • rarity121 said on Sep 13, 2006....
    hard rock, what's your email address

    secret . . . come work a night with me, get this secret life going lol
  • rarity121 said on Sep 13, 2006....
    hard rock, what's your email address

    secret . . . come work a night with me, get this secret life going lol
  • rarity121 said on Sep 13, 2006....
    gingersoul: we'd probably be much popular on here if we could post those shots!!

    What am I saying probably for? I'm saying definitely? White sands . . . whaddaya think Hard Rock???
  • rarity121 said on Sep 13, 2006....
    gingersoul: we'd probably be much popular on here if we could post those shots!!

    What am I saying probably for? I'm saying definitely. White sands . . . whaddaya think Hard Rock???
  • PamelaCriança said on Sep 13, 2006....
    he gave them to my mom, and told her to get rid of them before i turn into some kinda "pornoactress" .. my mom gave them to me with a sly smile and a mothers warning. heheh :)
  • lioneljay said on Sep 13, 2006....
    SL, I love my camera phone. It's a full 1.3 megapixel and the resulting shots are good enough for my computer desktop (no, not the ones from the hotel rooms!). I especially like the convenience of being able to email them without doing any downloading first.

    Here's a suggestion for those of you with this camera-phone capability: if you find yourself in a phone-sex encounter, take a revealing pic in the moment and email it immediately to your partner.
  • forbiddendreams said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Mine are in a photobucket account that's already deleted. taking nude pictures is soooo hot! unforunately, it makes me so paranoid that I don't ever keep a copy of them in my hard drive nor in my camera phone.
  • purple said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Once I got a digital camera I took many photos of myself in every angle and way imaginable. I'm not really sure why, but a big part of the motivation is that I'm degrading rapidly, and I wanted evidence that I looked halfway decent once.
  • secretlife said on Sep 13, 2006....
    LJ-you are a creative fellow

    Rarity - believe me, i'm no dancer!

    bloc - thanks for the security tips!
  • secretlife said on Sep 13, 2006....
    purple: To be honest, I believe that part of my motivation in taking the pictures was similar to yours- I figured i wasn't ever going to look better, and I wanted to capture myself before it went downhill any further!!!

    After I saw them, I was surprised that, although far from perfect, there were many 'beautiful' things about me.

    I'm sure that if you look closely, you will see the same thing.
  • HardRock said on Sep 13, 2006....
    Hi Rarity,

    It's blueman77us@yahoo.com :-)
  • Zayda said on Sep 13, 2006....
    I am an amatuer photographer by hobby, so I am always carrying a digital camera with me (in addition to my camera phone). But, I don't have the nerve to take naked pictures of myself. Hell, it took a long time for my professional photographer friend to talk me in to helping him with his series.
  • missb said on Sep 14, 2006....
    Rarity: Can you send me your pics too? :)
  • secretlife said on Sep 14, 2006....
    Zayda: I think being "talked into it" is part of the allure...
  • RollingC said on Sep 17, 2006....
    pictures of me naked? Only when I was a baby...lol
    Actually - I've been thinking of taking one and carrying it with me for self-defense purposes...as a non lethal weapon...(at least I think it'll be non-lethal)
    I wish you ladies would have a talk with my wife...whenever she sees me with a camera and she's not dressed she covers up or runs and locks the door...
    By the way...if any of you ladies wants to send me your pic... I know this guy in a model agency that will give you a professional...ahemm....assesment....... :o)
  • secretlife said on Sep 18, 2006....
    RollingC - believe me, I run away from the camera even when i'm dressed!!!
  • Umar said on Sep 21, 2006....
    Alright, no more bullshit.
    I'll cut to the chase.

    You're going to mail it to me? 40 year old with a Playboy figure, good thing to do before going to sleep alone with boring sheets. haha!

    It must've felt real good. Share? (wink)
  • 925Femme said on Oct 03, 2006....
    I don't have any yet only because I haven't found anyone to take my picture yet that I"m comfortable with. I'm black, light skinned, tall, thick, and i wear a 38DD, so I'd LOVE to do it......and just cuz you 40 doesn't mean that you can't....
  • TheNakedProfessor said on Jan 02, 2007....
    Naked Pictures????????
  • secretlife said on Jan 02, 2007....

    hey professor!  fancy meeting you wayyyyyyyyyy back here!

     

  • lovingchild said on Jan 05, 2007....
    yes i have taken some. and after that il stand in front of the mirror. luking at myself. hehe.
  • TheNakedProfessor said on Jan 06, 2007....
    I've always been fond of the back end.
  • purple said on Jan 10, 2007....
    I was surprised to see so many repressed people. I have lots of nude photos. I don't hang them on my walls because so many people have a victorian mindset. We are a long way from loving the skin we are in. I loved my life drawing classes because the models were basically real people without hang-ups. Fat people are more fun to draw by the way. The models aren't shy...they stand there for 20 or 30 minutes at a time. They understand it's for art and the body is an amazing thing. None of them look like supermodels.
  • ALIENated said on Jan 10, 2007....
    If anyone wants to send copies of their nude pictures to me, I can supply an email address. Pant, pant.

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