Today, i called my girlfriend as i useally do and we got to talk for an hour or two. Then her friend called and she told me to go to sleep so she cold talk i told her it was ok and said that i would just wait.i proceeded to call every so often to see if she was finished and every time i wouldrecieve the same answer of no, sorry. then i call at 4 in the morning to see if she had finished and she replied with a yes but said she was to tired to talk so i basically stayed up from for 6-7 hours just to be told she was tired and couldnt talk... i dunno anymore..any advice..
Comments
-
pusscat said on Jun 27, 2009....
Hey don't sweat on this one hun. You see, the reason she told you to go to sleep is cos she knows, like all us women, just how long we can be on the phone to our girl friends lol! Trust me, we could talk with our friends for about 4 hours and still ending up txting them to say, "oh, I forget to tell you something last night" ha ha!
It wasn't really her fault that you chose to stay up all those hours waiting for her. You had all that time on the phone with her so she felt it was ok to advise you to go to sleep. After talking all those hours with you, then with her friend, it's no wonder really she was dog tired herself.
It's a lesson learned really which is no bad thing. You have just learned that women can talk for planet earth lol! Take care.
-
Voltaire said on Jun 27, 2009....
I have to agree with pusscat above.
You have just learned that women can talk for planet earth lol!
I am sceptical towards that one though. ,:-P
-
superku said on Jun 27, 2009....
she was talking to her guy friend =[ -
superku said on Jun 27, 2009....
i mean normally id be ok with it but thers been lots of problems lately she thinks i like her friend and she's been talking to her guy friends latley and theres a huge diffrence between the way she talks to me and to them. she actually talks nicer to them =[ she even told me she did cause i piss her of to much. then she dosnt even believe that i love her anymore. but i snuck out and waited outside her house for 3 hours just to see her. i just think that shes gonna or is cheating on me or shes gonna break up with me..i really dont know anymore. -
pusscat said on Jun 27, 2009....
Ok then. That is different but there are still a few ways to look at this. I won't automatically come down on her side cos she's a woman at all I will be totally honest. When any guy i was dating became all suspicious of me and didn't trust my friendships with guys (and most of my best friends were guys) and would begin questionning me and checking up on me then THAT would be the thing that would make me end things.
You see, I understand that when you really like someone you do always worry about when it will end. Human nature. Thing is, if you don't show her you trust her, then you alone will drive her away. People need space. No matter how in love I am with someone, I still need my own space at times. I don't want them suffocating me and checking on me and ringing me all the time. If her friend was a girl you may have acted totally different yes? Just remember that women can have good male friends. If you keep distrusting her and checking on her and hassling her she will tell you to take a hike - trust me.
It's hard sometimes when you love someone. Just give her a little space and tell her that you didn't mean to be all heavy on her but you get jealous. Be totally honest with her. You would be amazed how we women love honesty. To hear a guy own up to being jealous and then say you're sorry and you will give us the trust and space we need is one of the most amazing things we could hear from you. For our guy to think we are gooing to cheat all the time with every guy we ever talk to, then we see that as you calling us a slut who would screw around. You see? We don't like being accused of that as it says you think we are cheap and would just screw around. I know you're not sayign that but that's how it comes across to us when our guys say those things.
Try to stay calm and be confident that she is with you cos she wants to be hun.
pc
-
superku said on Jun 27, 2009....
ok ill do it but she dosnt think i get jealous
Comment on "Im really sad..what should i do"
Related Posts:
uniquely-ironic
posted 4 days ago
| views: 124
|
I've been doing a lot of thinking about relationships lately.... read entire post
Fallyn
posted 1 day ago
| views: 45
|
so.... i sent the boyfriend a letter.... i was mailing him something else that was necessary and decided to dash off a few romantic heartfelt lines to stick in the envelope along with the important stuff.he just told me that he got the lett... read entire post
Fallyn
posted 3 days ago
| views: 48
|
i've been needy and clingy and txting him a LOT.he hasn't said anything and hasn't complained.
but at the same time i think i can tell that even though he's not exasperated with me YET..... he doesn't miss me like i miss him. he doesn'... read entire post
sg138
posted 5 days ago
| views: 55
|
I am trying to figure out who I am. I am 48 years old white male 6' tall 240 lbs.... read entire post